Deep Intimacy

Being penetrated body, heart and soul requires your lover to do some considerable probing while you open at a profoundly personal level. Giving your man access to your innermost lusciousness requires your security clearance, but provides you valuable benefits:...more

FREE This Weekend: "Real Stories About Sexual Desire"

"Women are constantly judged as slutty, or uptight, but the reality is somewhere in between those two, and sometimes, no where near either. We have secret shames and private desires and we all feel we are the only one." Image: Mona Darling DeadCowGirl.com ...more
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Menopausal Malfunction: Vagina Out Of Order!

Long-gone are the days of spontaneous sex: sweat-soaked, heart-racing, weight-reducing sessions. Oh, they were the bestest and funnest "exercises" in the world. They were certainly memorable knock-the-wind-out-of-you orgasms, delivering a delicious climax that made my toes curl and contorted my body 'til it hurt so good! Oh yeah, those were the put-life-back-into-you kickers, testing mileage and endurance, taking my heart to its ultimate limit. ...more
@caloden LOL! OH, my, but your comment is wonderful!! Yes, it must be because we do have better ...more

Embracing My Sexual Self

For the past several months, the political conversation has focused on a war on women’s reproductive rights. The tenor of these recent debates has been largely downright regressive—we’ve even seen state legislation holding that conception occurs two weeks before pregnancy. From the very beginning of these debates, I’ve been asking myself “How is it that in 2012, men are still in charge of the most basic of women’s rights?” ...more
BOOM. Loved this piece! I can definitely relate...more

I'm Not A Sex Goddess and That's Okay

My biggest problem is getting over the sexual rejection. There's a lot of hurt still lurking under the surface. I'm terrified to initiate sex because what if I get rejected? I have it so built up in my head that it would be in the end of the world, but I need to learn to separate my past from what's happening now, in the present. Maybe someday I will be a sex kitten. But for now, I'm just a girl who had her first orgasm from oral sex at the age of 28. ...more
@Valerie Venuti Kochanowicz Yes, I do agree that there is a lot of emphasis placed on orgasms. I ...more

The Pleasure of Drinking Tea

It has been a few weeks since I met a friend for tea at my favorite “tea lounge”....more

Should Respectable Writers Publish in Playboy?

Carl Zimmer, a celebrated science writer, has published a piece about Neil deGrasse Tyson in the January issue of Playboy magazine. Almost immediately after the article started making the rounds on the internet, the question of whether "respectable authors" should publish in magazines like Playboy arose. ...more

"O" Relax, Orgasms Aren't That Big A Deal

Orgasms were always hard for her but after learning her body, she found she could get there, both alone and with lovers. Then, after a car accident and resulting brain injury, her Os all but disappeared. Strangely, she was relieved to see them go. As good as they felt for the short time they were happening, the pressure to "get there" had never seemed worth it to her. ...more
Very well written. Love the photo. I've always thought that the best sex was a playful, ...more

Orgasmic Meditation: Practicing Sensory Awareness

Try an experiment: next time you have sex, focus on the experience in your genitals. "Isn't that what we do during sex, we feel our genitals?" Nicole Daedone asks in Slow Sex. "If you're like most of us, you'll discover that you've spent most of your sex life thinking about everything but the feeling in your genitals." ...more

Become orgasmic in fifteen minutes? Come on! I can do it in four ;) by myself or with a man! ...more

How to Multiply Your Orgasms with Sex Toys

Any orgasm is a good orgasm, but, let's face it, some are better than others. Have you learned what it takes to get your orgasms to go from satisfying to off-the-chart? Getting to know yourself through masturbation can help you achieve even better orgasms with your partner. ...more
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