My Love/Hate Relationship With '50 Shades of Grey'

I'm about to admit something that I'm not entirely sure is smart to admit: I like erotica....more
This is so right on!  I have dabbled in the BDSM lifestyle, and I completely agree with you that ...more

Drawing the line in relationships

The Day I Talked To My Kid About Porn

Some of you may recall last summer when I had to have an on-the-fly How-Babies-Are-Made conversation with my 7-year-old, after he’d heard about Senator Kirsten Gillibrand’s labor experience on NPR....more

Our Gift To You – An Afternoon Delight of FREE Porn! Happy Valentine’s Day!

It's Valentine's Day! How exciting! While I'm sure all you sexy people are expecting fabulous gifts from your special somebodies (including yourselves!), we here at HotMoviesForHer thought we should get you a little somethin' somethin' as well....more

Black Friday Free Porn Extravaganza at HotMoviesForHer.com

Stop by HotMoviesForHer.com for a little stress relief before battling the big crowds on Black Friday!  All of our movies are totally free from 4am-10am EST on November 23rd!!...more

Lies Channing Tatum

When I first heard about Magic Mike and 50 Shades of Grey I rolled my eyes and didn't pay much attention and I certainly didn't think women would care. The next thing I know, 50 Shades of Grey has become a phenomenon and that Magic Mike is the girls night out movie of the year - at least until that last Twilight is released. ...more

Why Is It Harder to Suspend Disbelief When We Watch Porn?

Going to a play or movie almost always involves some suspension of disbelief but the same is not true for porn. For whatever reason, audiences want to believe the people they're watching are attracted to each other (even if only on a physical level) and do truly orgasm. Why is that? It's not like people watch Dexter and say, "this sucks! He's not really killing people!" ...more
I think this is a good question, and actually a pretty important one. Thanks for the post. Long ...more

Women in Porn

Are women afraid of porn? If so, why are women afraid of porn? Men watch porn-period. Get over it. Why shame them or manipulate them based on their enjoyment of visual stimulation? Isn't it time to get a more mature attitude, feel empowered and maybe enjoy some of this visual stimulation yourself? ...more
Women watch porn period. Women consume 50 percent of porn. Women of all sexual orientations ...more

This Blog Isn't Porn. Yet.

So I'm pretty new to twitter and still figuring out how it works and stuff....more

The Great Sex Addiction Epidemic

The Sex Epidemic. Those are the words Newsweek used to headline an article about sexual addiction. While the piece does a decent job of describing hypersexuality -- thereby destroying the ability of those caught red handed to claim sex addiction as a way to get off scot-free -- it discredits itself by being so quick to point to the internet as a main cause of the problem. ...more
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