Let’s Not Stereotype Boys in Discussions of Pornography

The presence of pornography in children’s lives must be talked about, but we have to be careful how we frame the discussion. In making clear the plight of girls, we must not vilify and demonize boys....more

What To Do When Your Child Downloads Porn

Disclaimer: This post was originally published a year and a half ago. It was live for 20 minutes before I took it down. I was "mommy-shamed." It was a hard subject to talk about, never mind writing about it. It was a learning moment for my son, my husband and me. And I realized this needs to be talked about. So today I'm republishing this post with the hopes that I can reach another family in a similar situation. ...more
Well first let me say that I'm sorry you had to take it down 20 minutes after publishing for ...more

What Is Porn Teaching Us About Desire and Consent?

Anal sex.  Everybody's doing it... or so the internet would have us believe. In today's money shot culture, images of women being bent over have become commonplace....more
I have a feeling this answer isn't going to be popular, but part of the problem you're ...more

What the Ladies of Vivid Radio Taught Me

You may remember that I got a new (well, used) car earlier this year, and with that car I got 3 free months of Sirius XM, which included the Vivid radio station. You might also remember that I became slightly obsessed with listening to the numerous porn star ladies hosting the various shows on the channel. Then it ended. My 3 months was up and no more Debi Diamond, Mary Carey, Christy Canyon, Ash Hollywood, or Alexis Texas and her big ol' booty (I'm only taking her word for it. I don't really know how big it is)....more

Is Cybersex Cheating?

YES. Cybersex is cheating.  You said:  "Sexting, ‘emotional friends,’ webcams, and porn are ...more