The Cure= Dates, Drinks, and Dancing

When  a break up happens it is hard to get over it. Trust me, it is hard.  I love how people try to act like it isn't that bad... It is. Well, I have the cure. Sit back, take notes, and never feel heartbreak again....more

An Anniversary...

I'd hate to look back on my life at age 40... Or even 30 and be told"You never really gave love a fair shot again."This site wasn't created for me to complain about my Ex boyfriend. But it was just as much about becoming more optimistic as it was about becoming optimistic in love again.  I'm watching the Coldplay concert right now so I'm sorry if I sound a bit melancholy."I was scared, I was scaredTired and underprepared...Singing please, pleaseCome back and sing to me,to me..." -Coldplay, "In My Place"...more

Adventures in Online Dating Pt. 2

So my FRIEND is online dating and she is giving me the inside scoop to the ups and downs. So here is the continuation of her journey...more

Adventures in Online Dating Pt. 2

So my FRIEND is online dating and she is giving me the inside scoop to the ups and downs. So here is the continuation of her journey...more

Adventures in Online Dating Pt. 1

I'm not saying that I'm online dating, but I have this friend......more

The Art of the Dinner Date

In an effort to seem adventurous and not boring, men are turning away from the dinner date.  I am a young lady who likes to eat, so this evolution away from the traditional dinner date isn't exactly exciting.  I like to eat.  I get hungry.  I want 4 meals a day......more

An Older Man

Have you seen the film ...more

Jumping the Broom is All Over the Place

This past Mother's Day weekend I went to see Jumping the Broom.  I was pleased to see a Black film in theaters and, of course I decided to support.  My grandmother summed up the film in one word, "trite."  But, let me examine the film closer, because there were pros and cons....more

First, I'm assuming that you are joking. If you aren't then, "No" you wouldn't be racist you ...more

Girl Code

When a group of girls get together it can be a recipe for crazy fun trouble!  But, I would be lying if I said that it was drama free.  In order to avoid the drama my girls and I have devised a list of the major girl code rules and regulations.  These rules may not work for you, but they have worked for me… 1....more

The Tale of Hope

With all the bad dates and even worse pick up lines having hope can seem silly.  But, I have hope... I have hope that one day my "Ex" and I will get back together and I also have hope that I may find someone even better for me than him if that doesn't pan out.  There is someone that intrigues me.  I wouldn't say that I like him, I'm just curious.  He doesn't know and that is okay.  I think it is almost better that ...more