Forever, Ever - Ship

Mom always said, “A good friend is the one you can immediately rekindle with even after a long time apart.”I had a ‘friend’ who tried to own me.  It took me a while to realise the ‘friendship’ was really just a ‘hership’.  Today we would call it a toxic relationship.  It was difficult but liberating to end.  ...more

My Mother & My Truth

On February 27, my mother was found on the floor of her apartment unresponsive and barely breathing. A neighbor called a neighbor who called the police who called the nursing agency's number on Mom's fridge who called me. "Dyane, your mother was found on the floor and is now being transported to the hospital," she said "you should get there as soon as possible." I just replied, "Okay." You see, this 'mother' of mine held the title but never bore the responsiblity the job required. It may send me to Hell but I'm just not selfless enough to care for her now....more

Keeping the Fires Burning - Against All Odds

“Keep the fire lit in your marriage and your life will be filled with warmth.”-Fawn WeaverThis past August, my husband and I celebrated a milestone in our lives - our 30-year wedding anniversary. Three decades! Over 10,000 days being married. I'd calculate the hours and days, but that may overwork my calculator!...more

The Science Behind St. Valentine's Day

The Science Behind St. Valentine’s DayWhen you think of St. Valentine’s Day what pops into your head?...more
Uh-oh...I skipped all of these yesterday except for the chocolate...but I eat that every day.  I ...more

Complacency: The Silent Relationship Killer

“Same thing it took, to get your baby hooked….its gonna take the same thang to keep her”-The Impressions (1975)...more
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Get Your Sexy Back! ~ Overcoming Stress

Welcome to Week 2 of Our 10 Week Journey designed to grab life by the ovaries and get back to enjoying The Sex!This journey is filled with a variety of sexual advice and tips to get your sex life back on track, along with a healthy dose of snark and wit, because obviously. Our Master Sexologist Natalie will be covering an array of topics including Reconnecting With Your Partner, Peri-Menopause/Menopause, How To Spice It up and Finding Time For Sex. So climb aboard the bus to O-Town and let the journey begin!...more

Flexi Felix Anal Beads ~ Sex Toy Review

Alright, I'm just going to jump right in and start because I'm not exactly sure how else to start. Mom, you might want to stop reading or read on but this post is about anal.Yup, anal sex and anal play....more

Get Your Sexy Back! ~ Flirting 101.

 Welcome to Week 1 of Our 10 Week Journey designed to grab life by the ovaries and get back to enjoying The Sex!This journey is filled with a variety of sexual advice and tips to get your sex life back on track, along with a healthy dose of snark and wit, because obviously. Our Master Sexologist Natalie will be covering an array of topics including Reconnecting With Your Partner, Peri-Menopause and Your Sex Life, How To Spice It up and Finding Time For Sex. So climb aboard the bus to O-Town and let the journey begin!...more

Get Your Sexy Back! Take a journey with me!

 We’re all familiar with the old saying  ”if you don’t use it you lose it“, well that applies to your lady bits too.  Did you know that?  Okay, maybe that’s just something my mom told me, or possibly my grandmother, but whoever uttered those words knew what she was talking about. ...more