My Final Plea: Do you remember?

My Final Plea: Do you remember? Monday, February 07, 2011 10:02 PM Do you remember the day we met?  I can describe it as if it were yesterday.  We met at our mutual friend's house and you couldn't keep your eyes off my legs.  The girls and I would soon be getting ready to go dancing and they invited you.  You looked straight at me and said if I was going, you would be there.  I'd waited all night for you to show up.  Just when I had given up hope, there you were standing at the entrance.  Before you noticed ...more


If you have landed here tonight looking for whimsy, snark, or a mommy truism; you may want to stop reading. No, tonight is a post for me. Sometimes you just need a post where  you can get it all out of your system; where you can rage, wallow, and come out the other end a stronger, better person for surviving. That’s what this post is going to be. This is me trying not to drown....more


This will be another one of those posts where I cringe before I hit publish. But, once again, here I go. This is good for me. The truth is always good, and should be shared.  The big boy doesn't really like me any more.  Sure, he still runs to me when he falls down, but other than that - he's pretty much all set with me. Bored....more

Unhappy Marriage...Time to Renegotiate

Sometimes "happily ever after" becomes a husband who enjoys untold amounts of free time and a wife left to clean up the mess. We can ask politely or we can scream over a week or 8 years, but it doesn't seem to change anything for more than a few days. How did we get here? My Story: No one ever thought I was getting married. I needed too much freedom. I was by all accounts selfish and I had a nasty little habit of stringing guys along. Who knew I'd make a GREAT wife! ...more

That's a continual process for me too! It's not so bad to be a work in process, though.

I ...more

Finding Yourself - Help for Newly Single Women in Mid Life

 If you are newly single in midlife, chances are you are trying to figure out who you are, what you want to keep from your old life and what you want to change.  This is a perfect time to find out who you really are as a single person instead of as part of a couple.  One of the unique things about becoming single in midlife is that you have probably spent a great deal of your life as a couple, with the same person and it is so hard to separate yourself from that person to find out who you would have been without him. ...more

Fly Back to Me

Fly Back to Me The sun is out,Yet it's cold in here.I'm missing you baby,wish you were near. Toys fill your room,pictures hang on the wall.Yet the rooms are so empty,My arms ache for your love. I want to see those eyes shine again,smell your golden hair.I miss your laughter,now memories of you linger in the air. Fly back to me sweet love,spread your angel wings....more

Now I'm the Leader

Now I'm the Leader I've followed you for long enough.I'm done with the pain, it's been too much.I want to breathe again and sing my own song.I don't want to be told that I'm always wrong.My wings have been folded up for way too long.Time to spread them again and fly high above. Now I'm the leader of my own life.I'm on my own, no longer your wife.I'm singing a new song.I'm rising above....more

There Will Be Blue Skies Again

There Will Be Blue Skies AgainOne heart now divided between two places.Now you have two homes, two living spaces.It's not how it was planned.Stand by me, you've got my heart and I'll hold your hand.Sometimes we'll cry together.You for the family of four you have lost.And I'll cry for the vows that were left behind - words that were tossed. Baby there will be blue skies again.It can't be all tears and rain - this is not the end....more

I Can Push Back the Rain

I Can Push Back the RainI don't need you now.I can get along.I can get past all the things that went wrong.Together forever was only a phase.It didn't last long, our love faded away. I can live through the heartache.I can live through the pain.I'm a woman of steel.I can push back the rain.You think you've weakened me, but baby you're wrong.Your hurtful ways have only made strong. ...more