King-Sized Bed

NOTE TO READERS: Normally this blog is reserved for transcriptions of my life. However, in the slow, yet determined pursuit of my writing career, sometimes I'm inspired to write outside my box.The below piece, King-Sized Bed is a piece of adult fiction. (I'm not sure if that's a real genre, but the piece contains adults, adult topics, and adult words such as sex & blowjob)....more

In My World - Everyday Seems Like A Monday!

 So waking up every morning is always a new adventure for me since my motto is "Everyday is a new day". Cause last night I was like, all freaking anxiety-ridden over the impending SE - PAR - A - TION, and after a tearful phone call with my brother, I had a glass of Pinot Nior and simply snapped out of it....more

WARNING: Bored Domesticated Female on the Loose!

 Haven't been inspired to write this past week because frankly, I got a really, really bad case of Boreditis. Let me tell you something, there is NOTHING worse than a bored housewife, mom, 40-something woman who is on the verge of being pre-menopausal! You know when we moms get really bored, we do serious shopping. That can be a dangerous thing to the bank account. But since it's the first of the month and already, I am completely broke - that just isn't an option at the moment....more

I love this post.  No seriously...I LOVE THIS POST.  Oh that same to do list ...more

Will the Roloffs be the Next TLC Divorce? Or are the Little People Adjusting to the Big World of Marriage?

Last night on Little People Big World, Amy Roloff was in tears over her 22 year marriage, “we have our moments,” she said, but “we’re not necessarily happy.” ...more


Its not communication, its “Ex-Management” Soon after my divorce, I realized that my ex-husband and I no longer knew how to communicate with each other. Fifteen years, two children, 4 years of therapy and a divorce later, we were unclear as to how to be “partners” instead of “spouses”. ...more


Well what an exciting evening I’m having: a committee meeting, half an hour of television and now I’ve just finished sorting socks. Yes, socks – straight out of the washing machine and dryer.  ...more

How The Not so good looking Wife Can Keep Her Man’s Attention On Her

Ladies, I’m gonna share with you a story that contains a powerful concept that you can use to change your life. Now, you can not approve of how I came to learn this concept, but that doesn’t take away a huge difference in what they can do for you Having been in strip bars (some totally nude and partially nude) in big cities like Chicago, Dallas, Los Angeles, San Francisco, and so on, I found my most memorable strip-bar experience while on a trip to Springfield, MO. ...more

Dating After Divorce: Everything is Different Now

I’ve been absolutely petrified at the very idea of moving on, of throwing my hat in the ring. Dating. Wow. I haven’t been touched by another man in many years, save for a guy that stole a kiss from me and almost made me vomit, simply because he wasn’t my husband. ...more

 I married pre HIV/AIDS, divorced after 12 years and had the scary task of negotiating my ...more

Divorce in my Death Valley

Leaving a marriage requires bravery and strength. Running requires stamina and also strength. Not just sinewy muscle strength, but an inner strength to keep moving. The two intertwine themselves in my life lately, as I find myself literally and figuratively running these days. I have always sucked at running. My mother tried several times to drag me out of bed to run at Coggin Park. Nasty little park with enough cracks and bulges in the pavement to trip anyone, much less an awkward pre-teen with two left feet. ...more