I had a conversation recently with a very good regular of mine who said that he refuses to see escorts whose main motivation is money, and although I somewhat understand what he's saying, I also have to wonder; why should it matter what motivates a Sex Worker as long as she's providing top notch service to her clients....more
One of the questions most frequently asked of me is about whether or not my parents know what I do for a living. Please understand that the question is not an easy one to answer fully, because it is both "Yes" and "No"....more
If you've been in this industry for any length of time, then you've experienced the unfortunate experience of loosing a good client. And although the reasons may go largely unknown, it is still none the less a humbling experience. These experiences alone are some of the reasons why I keep my emotional attachments to clients at a minimum....more
Someone recently asked me, how do I keep from becoming jaded in this industry? How do I maintain my levels of respect and camaraderie with both the men and other escorts? And the answer is rather simple; I stay to myself! I avoid as much as possible running in escort cliques, and participating in petty bedroom gossip with clients. I just refuse to do it, and I've discussed this before. ...more
For the last year, I've been trying to get my head around different aspects of human trafficking and the commercial sexual exploitation of minors. I've been meeting with a variety of relevant actors, including anti-trafficking advocates, law enforcement officers, researchers, and sex workers. I've talked with survivors and buyers, observed online traces, and scoured the literature.
I need to be writing more. I think I've started each blog post I've made in the last 4 years since I started my website (which will be 5 years old this coming fall...) with those words. It's depressing. I never seem to have time anymore for the little things that make me... ME. Painting, blogging, journaling in general, choreography, dance, random creative side projects or simply living a full day without being a slave to the interwebz.......more