Porn is What We Have Done with Our Freedom

Porn is What We Have Done with Our Freedom   by Erin Solaro     ...more

I Don't Want to Be a Hepburn or a Hilton

Yesterday I heard about the book How to be a Hepburn in a Hilton World by Jordan Christy. This book is all about how women nowadays are waaaay to accessible and that women should let men chase them instead of the other way around. ...more

The double standard rears its ugly little head.  Again.  While I do recognize that there are ...more

Are all women prostitutes?

The question is `are all women prostitutes? & please give this some thought before you respond...rather then acting on emotional or social initial beliefs. Do women exchange sex either directly or indirectly for profit..this profit could be material, emotional or even physical gain. Is it a fact that the female of the species..any species..has this strength/gift/advantage..that enables her to survive using sex as a barter, either consciously or unconsciously? ...more

Sugar Daddies: Sweet, or Just Sticky?

“Gurrrl, you on your own now? You gotta try a Sugar Daddy on for size, for rrreal.” Then he dragged extra hard on a Marlboro know, for emphasis. ...more

Masturbation: Does your partner know you masturbate?

So, do you do it?  Pet the mouse, comfort the kitten, make with your muffin, play with the little man in the boat, dive for the pearl, pleasure yourself. And if you’re in a relationship with someone else, possibly a fella, do you do it when he’s around, or just by your lone self?   Is this a hey, this is hot come and watch, kind of thing, or is it a “Damn, I’m tired and need to put myself to sleep,” kind of thing? ...more

I'm a female who's been on the accusatory side of the scenario you describe.

Much love, ...more

Like a Virgin


Sex 2.0, v2 - success!

If you follow my tweets, you already know that Sex 2.0 was a blast. I'm going to do a proper recap post as soon as I get a free minute or thirty. In the meantime, here are some photos: ...more

Would you come out as bi?

When the singer Pink came out as bisexual last week and I read the news, I was sitting in my home office with A, working on edit plans for a client. “This is amazing,” I said to him. “Pink said she’s into guys—and girls.” “That’s cool,” he replied, working on his database research. ...more

I have known I was bi sexual as soon as soon as I was old enough to understand sexuality. I have ...more

Thoughts on Sex 2.0 past, present, and future

I can hardly believe that Sex 2.0 is less than two weeks away. I’m looking forward to plotting and scheming - I mean, catching up - with farflung friends, some of whom I’ve known for years and some of whom I met for the first time IRL at last year’s Sex 2.0. I’m also excited to finally meet some of my other internet nerd-crushes; Monica Shores, Nikol Hasler, Sarah Dopp, Maria Diaz, just to name a few. ...more