Parley Pretty Please

I was texting with a girl friend last night trying to catch up on how her week has been. She is a good friend, a close friend. She was my divorce/running buddy. ...more

Do Boundaries=Rejection?

I'm a 'fences make good neighbors' kinda gal.I like my space.If I were an animal I'd be a cat, with a meticulously perfumed border around my domain....more

My Life Can't Begin Again Some Other Day

This morning I shed some major tears over my battle with infertility. I cried because tomorrow I will be a 35-year-old, childless woman. I cried because I also realized, for the first time, that I’m scared to have a baby. I have so many fears surrounding having a child, that I’ve kept hidden from myself. But it’s all surfacing now. And I’m wondering how much of my own fears have blocked my body from doing what is most natural. ...more
After three miscarriages in the space of a year, I can relate to your story and your fear that ...more

Surrender : If you cannot change it - let it go.

The day has only so many hours. We can only do so much. And there is so much in every day that we cannot change, cannot impact, no matter what we do. Yet, if you are like me, you can find many occasions in a day when you allow your spirit to be troubled and chaotic about something you cannot control. We waste our spirit's true energy, squandering it on the worthless worries in our lives. ...more

One other phrase I love, in addition to "embracing uncertainty" is around the need to "detach ...more