When we lost Austin, there were a lot of comments from others that took me back. Some that made me downright angry. I don't believe that any of them were intentionally hurting me, in fact just the opposite. When the unimaginable happens, people grasp for words - anything - that will bring comfort. Sometimes they say the only thing that comes to mind, and because they've never experienced such a loss, they can't fathom how it might be perceived.
One comment that haunted me then, is healing for me now.
Someone mentioned then about my jo...more