The Goodie Drawer

The Urban Dictionary Definition of “The Goodie Drawer”:“A drawer that holds all of your ‘pleasure’ items, such as dildos, vibrators, and toys. It may also contain condoms. Do YOU have a goodie drawer?”Well, uh, yes. Yes I do, since you’re asking. And I don’t mind YOU asking me really. No, not you. But you know who I DO mind asking? Yeah, that’d be my kid....more

Buying Your First Vibrator: A Beginner's Guide

From Hitachi Wands to Jack Rabbits, the world has provided us with a wide array of toys to choose from. But where does one start? This is a beginner's guide to vibrators covering the different types, speeds, sizes, and price ranges among them. ...more
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My tween learned about vibrators at BlogHer13

I brought my daughter to the 2013 BlogHer confernece with me.  She had her very own full conference student pass.  She also attended last year in NYC with me.  She's 12-years-old, but is still very "little girl."  She still loves stuffed animals, pretend play and holding my hand in public.We have a great relationship.  I have patted myself in the back with pride for answering her sex questions for years.  "What's a condom?""What is oral sex?""Do you and Dad ever have sex?""Why would anyone want to do that?"...more
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What is the Right Sex Toy for Me?

Choosing a sex toy that is right for you depends on what kind of stimulation you are looking for.  Each year, sex toy manufacturers continue to amaze us with the varieties of sex toys that they come up with.  Just as technology like cell phones evolve with the newest capabilities, sex toy manufacturers continue to develop products that spark the interest of consumers.  For example, several years ago, the Oh Mi Bod vibrator was introduced which can be plugged into an iPod....more

How to use your vibrator...

 TechniquesVibrators aren’t just for genitals. Glide it over and under your breasts, on the soft inner thigh, over knotted shoulders and backs. Move it around to include the anus and perineum (the smooth, hairless bit between your vagina and anus or scrotum and anus). Try different positions...more

Why using a vibrator is good for you!

Masturbating is good for you and the vibrator is the best masturbatory aid around. The more sexually active you are, the more likely you are to masturbate, regardless of whether you do or don’t have a partner. It’s because the more orgasms you have, the more you want. ...more

What To Do When A Doctor Is Pushing Sex Toys

I haven't been very good about going to my OB since my son was born. I even lost his number. So I Googled him and I found out he now sells sex toys out of his office: things like vibrators, cock rings and… butt plugs. Oh my gosh. Should I find a new OB/GYN or is this kind of thing okay? ...more
Man, I really WISH my ObGyn would sell sex toys! What a great idea. That would sure make going ...more

New To Vibrators??? A Sex Toy Expert Provides Examples of Great Vibrators for Beginners

Many individuals ask, what is a good vibrator for a first time user?  With so many options to choose from, first time buyers can be overwhelmed with the amount of selection.  Plus, if the  first time user buys a product that ends up disappointing him or her, he or she may be hesistant to make another purchase in the future....more

Unique Vibrators: Exploring the Cutting Edge of Eroticism

The days when all sex toys were classified as novelty items are slowly changing. Now, manufacturers, realizing that their customers are smart and savvy enough to consider sex toys as essential to their sexual health as well as their pleasure, are creating toys that are designed to be enjoyed for a long, long time. They’re often beautiful to gaze upon; form and function meet, combining powerful motors in aesthetically pleasing or even high tech designs. Here are some phenomenal products from manufacturers who aim to please!...more
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The Benefits of An Orgasm

An orgasm can be your best friend.  It can relax you when you are stressed by the release of endorphins that produces a calming effect.  It can make you sleepy when you are tossing and turning.  It can brighten your day and put you in a good mood.  An orgasm can bring two lovers closer together.  There are all different types of orgasms. There are the orgasms that are quick and to the point of release....more