Phyllis Schlafly Spews More Shit

Phyllis Schlafly – the twatwaffle who helped murder the Equal Rights Amendment back in the 70s and remains a very outspoken anti-feminist asshat --  has thoughtfully proffered her solution to preventing rapes  at colleges and universities: bitches ought not be trying to get educations....more

Should I Sue Paula Muran for Defamation?

Some of my Twitter followers & friends have brought it to my attention that Paula Muran is tweeting about defamation lawsuits. ...more

Update: Paula Muran, a picture is worth 1000 words

Last April, Paula Muran tweeted the bellow comment to a rape victim: Clearly, she is mocking the victim, implying the victim should not “announce” she was raped (as though she should be ashamed of bein ...more

Is It Victim Blaming?

I was told, this week, that I am a promoter of rape culture. I was called a victim blamer.If you know me at all, in person or through this blog, you can guess that I was a bit blind sided by that. I spend my life cheering for the underdog and seeking ways to help the downtrodden. It's not just that I feel it's the right thing to do. I truly feel it is my calling from God.  So when those words were said to me I examined them very closely....more

Look at me, NOT shutting up

Getting all kinds of butthurt over an opinion about the words you expressed publically during the process chastising another woman for not liking other’s opinions after she said something publically makes you a hypocrite. Trying to silence to silence a blogger indicates you are an ignorant twatwaffle unaware of the Streisand Effect. Trying to silence me makes you sorry.http://bettyfokker.wordpress.com/2014/04/08/look-at-me-not-shutting-up/...more

Help! Help! I'm being oppressed!

Hmmmm ... my post from earlier has gone buh-bye. Fortunately it can still be read at my regular blog site: http://bettyfokker.wordpress.com/2014/04/07/calling-an-abuse-survivor-a-... See y'all there!...more

"Taylor Swift Hates Men": What Happens When We Tell Women Their Voices Don't Count

Friday nights are a sacred space.I enjoy coming home to do my laundry, tidy up my room…and shamelessly sing off pitched lyrics to ditties that are oddly reminiscent of my high school freshman diary while I simultaneously dance around in my running spankies and jump on top of my bed. Friday night is Taylor Swift ‘n Sing Karaoke Clean-up Nights.  Please knock before you enter....more
I am so glad to see this article. Here is a link to more info about Vistain's Case. ...more

Standing Up Against Bullying

 "The cruel words of one are nothing compared to the shouts of many."♥ ...more

Helping Abuse Victims - Start by Stepping Away from Facebook

This showed up on my Facebook feed a few days ago."If you are in a relationship that is abusive towards YOU and you leave or make them leave and then take them back, then you get what you deserve. If you are in a relationship that is abusive towards your CHILD and you leave and then take them back, you DESERVE to be beaten like a dog!!!! Allowing your child to be abused because you are afraid of being alone, makes you a piece of SHIT!!!!!"......more

The Advice Column of Shame: On Perpetuating Rape Culture

Dear Emily Yoffe,If a woman does not consent to having sex and has sex, she is a victim of rape. It does not matter if she was biting, kicking and screaming, or if she was too drunk. It's really quite simple. A woman giving consent equals consensual sex. A woman not giving consent equals non-consensual sex. Non-consensual sex equals rape. That's it....You all know Dear Prudence. What would you think the advice given on this question would be?...more