"Older women—they don’t tell They don’t swell—and they’re grateful as hell.” --Statement attributed to Ben Franklin, praising dating older women. In the past year or two, the Cougar as replaced the MILF as the sexual older woman. Predatory, aggressive, and sexually confident, the cougar stalks her prey, dragging the nice young man to her den and having her way with him. There are dating sites where Cougars can meet their (willing) *prey*, 20-something guys on MySpace with IDs like CougarHunter, and 21 books on Amazon.com about dating, sex and Cougars.