Friends after having kids....

I think it doesnt matter how old you are, once you have had kids it seems the friends you did have disapear and its incrediably hard to meet new ones. Sometimes I want to talk to women at the mall or park with kids, but it seems awkward, like I would be like will you be my friend?

Then people might think you are just weird.....Guys dont have that  issue, they just talk and then go about their day laugh and make jokes and then maybe exchange numbers if they really want to but most of the time they dont. Women need that  connection where we feel like someone else understands us and what we are feeling. Why is it so hard for women to make friends...good friends?

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Stop thinking so much about it...

I meet people everyday...on the bus, at the traffic light, in line at the grocery store. I talk to men and women. You just have to have self-confidence and stop thinking about things so much. I find it helpful to stay away from potentially controversial subjects esp. religion and politics. Talk about events happening in your community, share ideas and resources, post on community bulletin boards. Before you know it, you will not need to look for people, they will be seeking you out.  I also meet a ton of people thru social networking sites i.e. facebook, twitter. Once you are registered search by geographic area and look for people who have things in common. It is easier than you think.

Love and Laughter,

Shonika Proctor, Teen Biz Coach 

if you want to become a powerful person, continue to empower others. Looking forward to more of your contributions in the community :) http:/