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Girls and Comic Books: How to Help Your Daughter Bypass the Underwear Suits and Find the Feminist Heroes

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I both love and fear watching my 11-year-old daughter Isobel embrace everything science fiction, fantasy, and comics. Love it because because I share her enthusiasm -- As Stephanie S says, "I do believe that there is educational value in all forms of media, including television about teenage vampire slayers." Fear it because Iz is both smart and beautiful -- and female characters with those traits often get treated badly in fantastic realms. Especially in fantastic comics or graphic novel realms.

If it is irritating raising a girl in a culture obsessed with living blow-up dolls, it is even even more so when my daughter falls in love with intelligent, capable characters like Marvel's Emma Frost or Misty Knight, then sees those women's bodies drawn like living blow-up dolls. Though Iz currently seems less concerned with the comic artists' objectification of women and more perturbed by comic writers' proofreading errors ("Mommy, Cyclops misspelled 'anarchist'!"), I worry that those images, those attitudes will warp the way she sees herself and how she judges other women.

Gratuitous boobs and and porn star poses have always been the primary reason Iz's comic requests get vetoed.  (I'm less concerned about violence -- as long as it's superhero-cartoonish and not From Hell- or Sandman-nasty.) So I will admit to stereotypical first child overparenting in monitoring which comics Iz reads and how much we talk about them afterwards. I started her as a wee thing with Baby Mouse and Spider-Man Family (featuring FrogThor!), then Courtney Crumrin, then Re-Gifters, and now Runaways and Astonishing X-Men. All recommended. All very curated.

But she will soon be reading whatever the hell she wants, the same way I'd plow through any trashy novel I could find when I was her age. I don't want to keep her away from the stories she wants to read. Instead, I want her prepared to critically evaluate female characters so she doesn't internalize the absurd way they look and the infuriating way they get treated.

This kind of guidance is often best received when it comes from a non-parental figure. So I recruited three comics-loving feminist mentors to give Iz their perspectives on the female characters who populate the fantastic:

What draws you to comics, science fiction, and fantasy?

Solveig Zarubin

I am always lured in by the promise of visiting another world -- whether it's really another world in the case of sci fi, or this world from another person's viewpoint. This started early with The Chronicles of Narnia, Star Wars, The Wind in the Willows, and others. When I was really little, someone gave me an art book for kids that I think also paved the way for comics and graphics novels later. It included Castle in the Pyrenees by Magritte, which was super fascinating to me because it looked like a photograph but obviously could not be.

Skye Kilaen

I've been a science fiction fan since my mother got me into Star Trek re-runs when I was a kid. I don't know how to explain it, but science fiction as a genre clicked for me in a way that nothing else has. People with amazing powers and gadgets, robots, spaceships, strange alien species ... I'm sure I should say something deeper, but the truth is I like the flashy whizz-bang stuff. And that's okay.

Lea Hernandez

Conflict and triumph in a setting that is fantastic or fantastic things in an ordinary setting gives this play in contrast that is attractive to me, whether the unreal aspects unfold over a long narrative or I/we are thrown right into them. I'm attracted to films/TV/comics that give me pretty pictures and good acting (yes, comics have acting!), with prose, words that build those pictures in my head. I especially like sci fi/fantasy that makes me laugh. I've been watching all of a series called FRINGE in about one week. It's a great soap opera sci fi show with humor that is snarky but sometimes pretty earthy.

If you could advise your 11-year-old self about female characters in comics and how they are represented, what would you say?

Lea Hernandez

Comics can be and are about so much more than boobies and crotches. Quit readings books where the creators can't seem to draw women without having them bend over. Just because a woman draws or writes a demeaning book doesn't make it okay. You'll probably have to make the comics you want to read yourself.

Solveig Zarubin

When I was 11, I don't think comics (female characters or not)

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melanmeal 5 pts

I was a huge fan of the X-men comics growing up, and in that comic I pretended I was the character of Rogue. My elementary school friends and I would all play X-men characters and re-anact a scene we saw.
Now, I know that Rogue is everything you say of the stereotypical female comic book character, but I did not grow up to idealize that idea. In fact my parents didn't censor anything I watched or read growing up. I think the positive side to these super hero women are that they show that women can be strong and beautiful, but yes, very unrealistic. But super hero comics ARE unrealistic, and that's the point that should be made to the children reading them.
-melanie@makingof.com

avflox 5 pts

You're amazing. Thank you for writing this. xo

AV Flox is the editor of Sex and the 405 -- what your newspaper would look like if it had a sex section.

SuzannAtTheStardust 5 pts

My fave other-worldly series of all time (don't know if it was a comic book first) is "Xena, Warrior Princess." I LIVED in that landscape with Xena and Gabrielle, at least 3 times through each episode, all the seasons.

Peace,
Suzann
www.Women-Lifestyles.com ( http://www.Women-Lifestyles.com )

Denise 9 pts moderator

Liz is here reading some Manga and stuff and she's really too busy with that to answer but... I attracted her attention with the last installment of the Rattlesnake Bite story and I think I can keep her here for another five minutes.

She says Azumanga Daioh ROCKS. (I've never read it, which freaks me out because normally she reads graphic novels and manga HERE not at her dad's!)

I like Gunnerkrigg Court and Liz agrees completely.

She's also a super big fan of Fruits Basket and lots of her friends like it.

Rapunzel's Revenge and Calamity Jack are big hits (she liked Calamity Jack so much, after checking it out twice at the library, that she bough it.)

She says she's heard Loveless is really good but we haven't read it (I'll be reserving them at the library over summer break.)

She's reading Gacha Gacha right now (I picked it up at a used book sale on Saturday) and she likes it.

We had a lot of fun with the Stonekeeper series (oh! There's another one! Must have!)

Castlewaiting - loved.

You can see all of the graphic novels I've blogged here: http://flamingohouse.net/?cat=69

Liz hasn't read them all - some are super young, some are much too old for her. Click 'em and investigate - and ask for more info if you like (I tend to just throw posts up to track what we've read and not really to review the book.)

~Denise
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MLOKnitting 5 pts

Tiny Titans is awesome and geared towards a slightly younger age while being very adult friendly. My 3 year old nephew loves to have them read to him as he asks "Who's that?"

The newest incarnation of Shazam! has an awesome younger sister addition - who is definitely not in underwear.

I found both at the recommendation of my comic store's manager and sales clerk.

MLO / Melissa

Books, Movies, Games, Ovarian Cancer, and Life in General at http://www.mloknitting.com/

MLOKnitting 5 pts

http://www.girlgenius.com/ Agatha is a great character for an 11 year old girl! Yes, there is some underwear wearing, but even the characters make fun of it. Most of the time they are dressed in Steampunk style.

Then, there is the original Spidergirl comics - ruined by Marvel having to reinvent it.

I have to second Mouse Guard and P.S. 238 (I've reviewed all of these.)

There is also a growing realm of fantasy comics and Manga from Japanese and even American authors.

Ask your local librarian - or just peruse the YA section. You might be surprised at the small print superheroes out there!

MLO / Melissa

Books, Movies, Games, Ovarian Cancer, and Life in General at http://www.mloknitting.com/

Vibi 5 pts

I am not normally a comic lover, but NEMI has made me laugh out LOUD on several occasions. Her wit and quirky way of observing her surroundings are always spot on.

Nemi is a 25 year old girl, goth orientated who is often unemployed or employed in temporary jobs. She often gets fired for her temper (such as beating a customer who asked for a CD of Christina Aguilera for her daughter, instead of the Alice Cooper CD Nemi had suggested).

Her followers include a mixed audience, but she is particularly appreciated by young women.

Nemi is translated to English and published by Metro. Check some Nemi strips out at http://www.metro.co.uk/games/nemi/

Vibi - http://photito.wordpress.com/

Shannon Des Roches Rosa 5 pts

Thanks! For kids 6 - 8, I usually recommend:

BabyMouse
Amelia Rules
Spider-Man Family
Owly
Akiko
Calvin & Hobbes
Asterix
P.S. 238
Bone
Mouse Guard
Clan Apis
Polly and the Pirates

Some of these are out of print, but easy to find used copies online.

Shannon Des Roches Rosa
Squidalicious.com ( http://www.squidalicious.com ) parenting first, autism second
CanISitWithYou.org ( http://www.canisitwithyou.org ) real tales of schoolyard terror and triumph

Shannon Des Roches Rosa 5 pts

Both Iz and I are Persepolis fans, though I didn't let her read Persepolis 2 until just a couple of months ago, and we've not yet seen the movie.

She is also a big fan of Minx though it went kablooey - Confessions of a Blabbermouth, Janes in Love, Re-Gifters, all awesome and girl-centric.

I look forward to introducing her to co2comics - thank you.

Shannon Des Roches Rosa
Squidalicious.com ( http://www.squidalicious.com ) parenting first, autism second
CanISitWithYou.org ( http://www.canisitwithyou.org ) real tales of schoolyard terror and triumph

gerryg 5 pts

It may be difficult to find female role models in comics if you only look at the superhero genre. I believe the future of comics as a medium however, may be in the hands of the women readers. Turn your eyes to the inernet and you will see comics that appeal to women and are created by women finding secure homes on the pages of webcomics.
At www.co2comics.com ( http://www.co2comics.com ) we have a few comics that are reaching reaching this audience, Heaven and the Dead City, The World of Ginger Fox, Monkey and Bird and Crescent all have either strong female characters without the traditional sexist bias and/or are created by women.

As far as books, I would suggest Persepolis, a poignient biography of a young girl that grew up during the Iranian revolution and Elfquest, a classic fantasy story with strong female characters.

erikadauber 5 pts

I have never been into comics, but reading this made me so curious about this genre! It's exciting that your daughter is so passionate about sci fi and graphic novels...

I wonder what content is good for the 6-8 range? It would be great to have a girl-power representation in Togetherville. I'll definitely check out your suggested titles!