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Beyond Lifetime: Pregnancy

Pact Is Now a Documentary

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Remember the story in the media about the "pregnancy pact" of the girls in Gloucester, Mass.? Well their story is told in a new documentary, The Gloucester 18. I had the pleasure of talking with its producer, Kristen Grieco Elworthy.

Give readers a brief summary of the story.

In the summer of 2008, news broke nationwide that 18 high school girls from the fishing village of Gloucester, Mass. had made a pact to become pregnant. The story was never much more specific, and it origins were humble; I know because I was a local reporter in Gloucester and worked on the story. But when TIME picked up on the story after the resignation of Dr. Brian Orr and Nurse Practitioner Kim Daly of the school’s in-school health clinic, it became a national sensation.

The in-school clinic was a general health clinic (administered meds, diagnosed the flu, etc.) that also did pregnancy tests, and Kim counseled some of the girls on birth control. She was a really trusted source for them. When she noticed a spike in pregnancy tests -- she had done nearly 200 tests halfway through the year -- and that these girls were coming in repeatedly for tests, she and Dr. Orr went to the hospital that oversaw the clinic to get permission to prescribe them birth control.

They believed that if she could have immediate access to the girls and prescribe birth control instead of them having to go to their doctor (likely with a parent in tow), she might prevent some pregnancies. However, Orr and Daly got into a prolonged battle with the overseeing clinic, and when they felt that they could no longer do the best thing as medical professionals, they resigned. Their story was the lightning rod for the national coverage.

There was a spike in pregnancies at the school. The school principal, for reasons to this day known only to him, used the words "clique" and "pact" to describe the pregnancies. However, no one talked to the girls themselves, so we really did not know if the crux of the story -- that the pregnancies were intentional -- was actually true or not.

Why did you decide to make the story into a film?

When the story broke nationally, the rumor mill spun completely out of control. As journalists, the film's Director John Williams and I saw how these girls' stories had been told by rumors and assumptions from often irresponsible reporters. We and associate producer Joe Provenzano knew something was not right.

We are the only people who spoke directly with the majority of these girls, and got real insight into their minds and motivations. Whether you agree with the girls or not, we felt that they should have a chance to be heard, and that people would be interested in their stories.

Is the “pact” rumor true?

I won’t tell you here but it is answered in the film. But I will tell you that the actual story told from the girls themselves, is far more interesting than what was portrayed in the media or by Lifetime in a fictional film.

Why did those who got pregnant want to get pregnant as a teen?

We heard one recurring theme: many of the girls came from unstable backgrounds and were looking to create their own family as means of stability and/or love. We also heard from girls who had dated men a bit older (e.g., one girl was 16 and the guy 21) who told us that the "older" guys were "mature" and ready for families. (Side note: the guys in these cases did NOT stick around.) In some cases, there was an element of seeking or wanting attention.

What was my own observation, as a woman about 10 years older than these girls who personally put college/career above having kids? I saw some level of girls who did not have an identity or maybe did not feel that they were "good" at anything, and motherhood was an answer for them. As women, we are told that we all have the capability to be a good mother. Imagine the draw of that if you are feeling that you have no other purpose in life. This type of theory is supported by research. I should add that no statement I'm making describes all the girls, but I personally felt that some fell into this category.

Those who became mothers, what are their lives like now?

This question brings up a good

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inRandom 5 pts

Forever 17 took the words out of my mouth. I was a teen mom and I struggled and fought and persevered for my son. He's 14 now and I'm married with a another son (3). Raising a child within a partner, in my 30s while I'm settled in is certainly easier, but I would not have changed a moment of the 11 years I was a single Mom. Those years made me who I am, they gave me strength in times of crisis, knowledge of what is necessary when all has failed and the endurance to overcome.

I remember days without gas where we had no hot water, no stove and making up fun exciting ways to take cold baths and eating everything from a microwave. Days I'd go without food so my child could eat and I'd smile and say, "I'm on a diet." One day my son overheard me talking about how someone had it really difficult and he spoke up, "I'm glad we don't have those problems!" And I knew I did my job well because he never knew how bad we had it. I was pregnant at 16, I had him at 17, I worked 40+ hr jobs going from factories and fast food into my own office at an Insurance Firm. Now I'm a Stay at Home Mom, he struggles in school somewhat but he's a really amazing kid.

I don't think it has to do with the statistics of teen pregnancy, where our children wind up, it has to do with the belief in oneself during a difficult time. I didn't have my child because I wanted someone to love me, I had my son because I made a mistake and the correction was not to get rid of him. I rose to the responsibility of my actions and I grew from the knowledge of it. As I tell him many times, the mistake I made was having sex so young without knowledge or help to protect myself, it was never.. never.. a mistake to keep him. We need to educate them on STDs, teen pregnancy, the consequences of their actions and be more open to preventive measures than write up more statistics and complain about our taxes. We need to encourage them, believe in them and give them knowledge of what is out there beyond pregnancy and teen parenting and when someone messes up not to point fingers and walk away.

Forever 17 110 pts

I was teen Mom, and although I agree with some of your statements I disagree with many. Being a teen Mom is very hard, no doubt about it but the fact that these young parents are always being told statistics of what there children will most likely face and become is unfair. I have seen both sides. I am the "statistic" of why I became pregnant at a young age, Broken home, no father , single mother etc. I just never allowed society to tell me how my children and I would end up. I have made it my life to set my girls up to succeed, just because I was young didn't make me ignorant. My oldest daughter graduated with honors and is now at a top University majoring in special education. She knows who she is and I envy that. I think that there has to be more education on Teen sex as a whole and more insight into the consequences that could occur, STD's, teen pregnancy, all of it. There has to be more people sending the message that Having a baby at any age is hard but having a baby when your a baby is the hardest job you will ever face.

lauracarroll 8 pts

@Forever 17 -- Thanks for your candor...say more about the statements you disagree with-I am sure those reading this, and the film producer would be very interested--as am I. I can tell you were a great mom..if you had to do it again...would you?

Forever 17 110 pts

lauracarroll@forever Wow, I don't think I've been asked that before, YES 100x over. My situation has many twists to it, you can check out a few of my early posts if you would like. I actually wrote one titled" I am and always will be a teen mom". I have a different perspective I think because I have lived it and am now coming out the other side. Has anyone ever asked the parents of the Pregnant Teens what there take was on on the issue and how they might have done things differently? Or what kind of education these soon to be parents had on sex in general? I think that education starts at home first and foremost. My opinions are just that, Opinions. My earlier days were filled with Proving myself to the critical world that I could take on this job. My take 18 years ago compared to today are very different not really suitable to sum up in a comment. Were my kids planned, not at all but they have always been the best surprise I ever had.

lauracarroll 8 pts

@Forever 17 I hope that when they recut the Gloucester doc these young women will answer the kind of questions you ask. I am happy that your children were the best surprise you ever had. Would also be very interested in your take 18 years ago versus today..I bet I am not the only one! Maybe an upcoming post? Thanks~

lauracarroll 8 pts

Seeing teens pregnant makes my heart break too...I am not expert, but I had some post interview thoughts about this....http://lauracarroll.com/2011/10/post-interview-mus...

Call Her Happy 5 pts

As a former hs teacher, I can say that I have to agree with some of the last comments you made. My students who were born to teen parents had significantly lower test scores on the whole. It made my heart break when one of these girls would tell me that she had gotten pregnant. I felt it was just perpetuating the cycle.

A child should be a celebrated life full of every opportunity. That is so much more likely when a parent is "ready" for a child (who is ever really ready though, right?) Do you have any suggestions how we can make this happen?

Jenna

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