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Go Ahead. Don't Drink Your Milk.

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A great friend of mine from Hinsdale called a few weeks ago.  She shared the buzz about who bought our old house.  We emptied our gripe-bags of winter illness war stories.  Then she changed the subject.

“…so I also have a food question for you. I was reading your post about hot- no, very warm- cocoa and it got me thinking.  You know, Sarah [her 6-year-old] won’t drink milk.  So I give her chocolate milk instead- “

“Oh lawdy no.”  I interrupted her.  It was rude.  I know.  But I also know Elena and I knew where this was going.  “I’m going to just set aside this whole excessive accommodation thing.  You know that makes me nuts.  Seriously Elena.  How do you imagine that this is having a net positive effect on her health?”

“Well, kids need to drink milk.  They need it for their bones, right?”

No.

They absolutely do not need to drink milk.

Ever wonder how people drank milk before the widespread availability of refrigeration?  They couldn’t.  They didn’t.  Do you imagine that everyone had a cow or a goat from which to obtain their milk?  Everyone?  Notsomuch.

Unless you lived in a very cool climate, there would only be a brief window during which the milk remained “fresh” for drinking.  Milk is quickly colonized by bacteria.  This process is different from spoiling.  It is the healthy, natural process of bacterial fermentation, or "culturing."  Throughout human history, that has been the primary reason why people kept dairy animals- for cultured milk products such as cheese and yogurt.  Milk really wasn’t thought of as a food in its raw state.  If mankind has lived this long without it, can our children’s well-being really be so dependent upon it?

Cultured dairy products are hardly the poor country cousins of fluid milk.  In fact, they’re actually superior to fluid milk in some ways, as I’ll soon explain.  Compare the percentage of the RDA (recommended daily allowance suggested by the USDA) of the following “kid-friendly” dairy products:[i]

  • 1 cup cow’s milk, 29%
  • 1 stick of string cheese, 20%
  • ½ cup ricotta, 26%
  • 1 cup organic vanilla yogurt, 40% (But with a whopping 31g sugar, much more than 1 cup of commercial chocolate milk, which has 24g per cup.)

Now tell me- what exactly is so fantastic about milk?

Unless you have a whole bunch of Lars, Svens or Olgas in your family tree, most people over the age of four will be better off with a cultured milk product.  It’s that lactose problem.  At age four, seventy-five percent of us have lost most of our ability to produce the lactase enzyme necessary to make lactose sugar molecules digestible.[ii] Lactose is “pre-digested” by the bacteria used to culture milk, turning the whole issue of lactose intolerance into a non-issue for all except the most exceptionally sensitive.  Given that our bodies are better able to digest and use milk in its cultured forms, why then are we pushing fluid milk on our children?

Is life-time bone health so very dependent on the single issue of how much dairy one consumes as a child?  Not at all.  Weight-bearing exercise (jumping, pushing or pulling heavy objects) is a much more critical factor to developing and maintaining good bone density. Completely out of mom and dad’s control is the genetic factor.  If Granny had osteoporosis, your daughters are more likely to as well.  Finally, would you believe that there is no evidence that countries with the highest per capita consumption of milk have better bone health than other countries?   According to Harold McGee, “Other countries, including China and Japan, suffer much lower fracture rates than the United States and milk-loving Scandinavia, despite the fact that their people drink little or no milk.”[iii]

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Why are parents so convinced that getting their kids to drink their milk is as important as getting them to brush their teeth? It’s all about agricultural policy, the power of a well-organized dairy industry and knee-jerk reactions to research.  Its sad, because I know how much stress this creates in some families.  There is a sense that you must be doing something wrong if your kids aren’t drinking their milk.  Right?  On the other side, those of us with milk-drinking kids get to smugly watch the pediatrician note this on the chart.  We're pretty sure he writes,  “Good parents” at

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justlinda 10 pts

I lust after the idea of bottled milk delivery and we have a local dairy farm that does it, too. I've had their milk and it's wonderful - so clean, no after-taste.

But I've done the math and it's just not in the budget.

Maybe after the kids all move out, we'll be able to afford to buy the good milk for US! And a pony. And maybe a built-in pool! Yeah!

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Jill Shepherd 5 pts

We get glass-bottled creamline (unhomogenized) milk delivered from a farm in upstate NY and it is so delicious. We all love it.

justlinda 10 pts

And it has no ill effects on me, so I drink it.

My youngest doesn't like it, so she doesn't drink it. But she loves cheese and yogurt and other stuff that has a dairy-basis so I don't worry.

It just means more milk for me. :)

Her grandfather tells her all the time that she needs to drink milk and I get annoyed. I always chime in that she's getting all the calcium she needs from other sources.

And pushing sugar-laden milk just seems to defeat the whole purpose of trying to promote healthy eating (or drinking, as the case may be).

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Randall Gniadecki 5 pts

My wife and I watch way too many food documentaries.
That being said...Great Post!
As far as yogurt goes the lowest sugar (and the richest tasting) is Greek Yogurt. There are a growing number of brands and most are all natural and have an organic option. In general I have found most yogurt has about 25-30 grams of carbs (sugar) but most Greek yogurt has about half that coming in at 10-13 grams.

mamallama 5 pts

After my 3rd baby would not take anything other than water at 14 months, my pediatrician bluntly said "you know we are the only animals who feed milk to their young after they are no longer babies/calves?"

Now... I obviously humans cannot be lumped together with all animals/mammals. BUT... it is an interesting idea. And if we did actually feed our children good healthy nutritious foods that met all their needs, it wouldn't be a concern.

I am not a milk stickler...I give lots of cheese, yogurts, etc

I too think it is silly to give chocolate milk every morning.

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Nicole_Longstreath 5 pts

Hmmm, many of us humans seems to have an intolerance to milk, wonder why ... Because it's for cows, duh.
Although I do eat dairy occasionally, usually cheese - but only really, really good cheese. But it always gives me sinus issues.

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Denise 9 pts moderator

Thank you! I would like to print this post and hand it to about 100 people I know or have known over the years who forced kids to drink milk!

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