FEELING SEXY and its link to great sex!!

There is no doubt that the way a woman feels about herself can either positvely or negatively impact her sex life. Most men will agree that their first attraction to a woman is almost always connected to her looks! And the way we make ourself look depends on our own feelings (or self confidence) about how attractive we believe ourself to be.

Is it any wonder that the word sex is 3/4 of the word sexy? You can buy as many sex position books, read as many pleasure articles or consult a sex therapist, but if you are not doing things to make yourself feel SEXY, then it is surely all a waste.

The two words are definately related in everyway; and for as long as I can remember having sex, it has been the most remarkable activity I have ever participated in! And my heightened desire for sex (some might want to call nemphomania) is directly accompanied by my constant want for being sexy and vice versa!

Even when choosing my 'cleaning clothes' (whatever I intend to wear whilst doing my house chores) I ask myself - "if my husband walked in right now, would this make him want to prop me on the counter?" It is a wonderful feeling when a woman feels absolutely confident with the presentation of herself and very important to our happiness. But what is sexiness? How is it acheived? Is it all about physical appearance?

The Depth of Sexy

      While we all want the perfect body and physical appearance and are absolutely certain that if we did, then and only then would we conform to the definition of ‘sexy’; one must realize (and the sooner the better) that sexiness is almost a mind set. Yes, it is true that some women are more physically attractive than others; it is also true that most women who are naturally physically attractive (and know that they are) tend to carry themselves more confidently.

      What really makes one woman sexier than another? Is it her body? Eyes? Breasts? Lips? Hair? Whilst possessing any one of these is definitely a plus to your sexy score, it is more than possible to make do with what you have and still carry it as poised as someone born with any of the aforementioned.

      Your self confidence is an enormous contributor to your sexiness, if you view yourself negatively and are constantly denouncing your being, soon your inner feeling will become your outward appearance. It is very important to be your own number one admirer, ignore your flaws and concentrate solely on your best features...!

 

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