How Much Do You Tell?

As bloggers, we are often presented with the question of "how much is too much" when sharing our family lives with the Internet. As families touched by adoption, we sometimes feel that question looming even bigger than some of our traditional family counterparts.

And so I ask you today: How much is too much?

How much do YOU tell about your story? Your child's story? Your journey? Where is your personal line? Is there a line? Does the line shift from time to time? And how do you balance what is your story to tell and what is the story of another party to your journey?

I ask you these questions with no definite answers of my own. I have struggled, off and on, with this subject (as it relates to adoption) for years. I have been guilty of over-sharing, of stepping on D's toes when it was part of her story to tell (re: before she was ready to talk about her divorce). I have also been guilty of under-sharing (yes, there is such a thing) because I didn't want to be honest about my own emotional issues at the time. I tend to default to talking solely about myself and my journey as of late, not wanting to cross any boundaries. I find it difficult but in a good-kind-of-challenging way to focus on myself when writing on my adoption blog.

So, yes, all of those questions are something that we as adoption bloggers/writers should be talking about. What are your lines for telling your story?

@FireMom from Stop, Drop and Blog and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land