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Happy Work at Home Moms Week! What It's Like to Be a Work at Home Mom.

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I'll be the first one to tell you that I have the greatest job in the world: Not only do I love being a writer, but I absolutely love the flexibility afforded to me by working from home. There's precious little I miss from working in an office, and the things I do miss have nothing to do with cubicles and everything to do with paid vacations.

When I began my career as a freelancer, I didn't know many other people doing what I did; five years later, my time networking in the field and the downturn in the economy have seemingly yielded freelancers on every corner, and many of them are moms. And so, of course, we now have Work At Home Moms Week (who decided that, anyway?) to celebrate the wonder of ... being on-duty 24 hours a day. Heh.

If you're thinking of dipping your toes into the work-at-home waters, let me tell you about my day today. Today wasn't remarkable in any way; I think it was pretty representative of what my usual life is like as a work at home mom. You know, full of glamor and such.

5:30 a.m.: Alarm beeps. I turn it off and pull the covers over my head.
6:00 a.m.: I hear my son rattling around in his room above ours. I get up.
6:02 a.m.: Pour my first cup of coffee.
6:03 a.m.: E-mail.
6:30 a.m.: I push back from the computer, take the dog out and make sure both kids are up.
6:45 a.m.: Finish coffee while making breakfast smoothies for the kids. Try to nod and/or grunt in the right places as my son tells me about his latest made-up Pokemon creature.
6:55 a.m.: Make sure son's backpack is loaded and homework is not forgotten.
7:00 a.m.: Pack three lunches. Remind son of his allergy meds. Holler up the stairs for my daughter to get out of the shower.
7:15 a.m.: Say good-bye to son and husband.
7:16 a.m.: Back to email.
7:28 a.m.: Start dishes left over from night before.
7:30 a.m.: Assure daughter her outfit does not look dorky.
7:32 a.m.: Assure daughter her hair looks nice.
7:34 a.m.: Assure daughter her lunch is something she'll want to eat.
7:36 a.m.: Ask daughter to please stop talking and feed the dog.
7:45 a.m.: Send daughter off to meet the bus.
7:46 a.m.: More coffee and more e-mail.
8:00 a.m.: Notice the time, start doing actual work. You know, the assignments I'm paid to turn in?
9:00 a.m.: Grab a yogurt from the fridge. Call my doctor's office to ask for a prescription refill. Send an e-mail to the school about an unresolved problem. Eat the yogurt.
9:05 a.m.: Back to work.
9:06 - 11:20 a.m.: Write. Answer e-mails. Confirm dentist appointments for tomorrow. Write. Play a few moves in Scrabble on Facebook. Write. Delete some e-mails. Steal a piece of candy from an Easter basket that's still sitting on the kitchen counter for some reason. Write.
11:21 a.m.: Daughter calls from school to say that a wire on her braces broke. Awesome.
11:22 a.m.: Call orthodontist to schedule emergency appointment.
11:24 a.m.: More e-mails that lead to a phone call with a client.
11:38 a.m.: I'm hungry. I throw some leftovers in the microwave and take the dog out while they heat.
11:45 a.m.: I grab my empty plate (and water glass and coffee mug) and take them back to the kitchen.
11:46 a.m.: Shower. Hey, early today.
12:05 - 2:45 p.m.: E-mail. Another phone call. More writing. Check in with husband via IM. Another couple of Scrabble moves. Read blogs. Write. E-mail. Maybe just one more cup of coffee! And possibly a snack.
2:46 p.m.: Son gets home from school.
2:48 p.m.: Suggest the same list of possible snacks I have suggested every single day for the last five years until he decides on one.
3:10 p.m.: Take the dog out again, check son's assignment book, remind him to grab a book, get into the car to go pick up daughter.
3:12 p.m.: Stop for gas. Dammit.
3:17 p.m.: Sign daughter out from school early.
3:35 p.m.: Stop at optical place to pick up daughter's glasses.
3:55 p.m.: Arrive at orthodontist.
4:00 - 4:15 p.m.: Frantically return e-mails from my iPhone, typing with one finger.
4:40 p.m.: Back home again. Dispatch children to do their homework. Sit down at the computer to write.
5:00 p.m.: Husband arrives home and informs me he'll be making dinner. I congratulate him on his utter awesomeness.
5:01 - 6:05 p.m.: Work. Am

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jannajoy25@hotmail.com 5 pts

Thanks for being real about your day. And someday she will thank you for making her figure the problem out herself:)

Janna - Can also be found at The Adventure of Motherhood ( http://theadventureofmotherhood.blogspot.com ).

MommaHarms 5 pts

THANK YOU! I am going to show this to my husband! My kids are little and still at home so work has to be crammed in during the two-hour nap period and the three hours after they go to bed at night, but this is a great perspective on WAHM-ing! THANK YOU!!!!

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ktprince 5 pts

I laughed and cringed as I read this because it is very close to how my days go when I work from home, including the delay of spending time with husband (which isn't so very quality if you're just watching TV but hey, it's something).

I love your comeback to the 6th grader. My oldest will start kindergarten this September, but I will keep that quip in my mind for later.

SheriRH 5 pts

I agree that the lines between work and home get blurry when you're at home all day. To some people, meaning my husband, if I'm at home, I may as well be doing laundry or cleaning. So when the house is not clean, he wants to know what I've been doing all day. He's getting better, but it's a problem.

Blurry lines also mean that I am technically on call all the time, with my work and with my family. I have been up past 2am many days trying to finish work that got pushed aside for family stuff that came up. It's very hard to balance that and find even a second for myself. Or for reading blogs, which should be a daily requirement.

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crousehaus 5 pts

I have a semi-fluid schedule working from home. I can clock out to volunteer at school or keep my kids home if they are sick and still get some work in. But I have to be in the "office" the usual 9-5. I do miss actually seeing other people. My kids did go to preschool, but the rest of the day is spent juggling play-doh while calling clients or sitting on the porch as the kids play while entering data into my laptop.
I've been telecommuting for 6 years. My house is usually a disaster and sometimes I find myself explaining that, no, I'm not really "home" all day with time to clean. I work almost full-time and my office just happens to be at home. Now that my kids are a bit older, I'm thinking about possibly going back to the office.

Hey Jen 5 pts

that is so adorable! Tell TW to smile! :D

Hey Jen 5 pts

I work at home. I really enjoy it. There are some things I wish I could change, like working whenever I feel like it. I have set times. Actually what would be nice is not having to work at all, but having lots of money despite it! lolol ;(

Seriously, I've been doing this for 3.5 years now and I honestly couldn't imagine having a job outside the home now. I will admit to thinking about going back, because of the lack of contact with actual human beings, but hey, my friends live in my computer so I'm okay. Now my daughter is being homeschooled because of some bullying issues and I like having her here with me.

I will say that in the beginning when I first started working from home, everyone sort of assumed I had all this time on my hands and could work and get the house spotless and dinner made all by 5 p.m. I got a lot of the "oh you work from home, there is no reason you can't get this done." Apparently they missed the bit in that sentence about the WORK. ack! They have gotten better, but there are still some instances where people (household members) think I can just walk away and do whatever, whenever. ;(

I'm kinda of blathering on right now.

Denise 9 pts moderator

So even if I'm officially "not working", I'm still working. I walk past my laptop to get a book from the shelf and notice the email icon is flashing. Or I notice someone is Yammering. Or just stop for a second to reload the queue to check for spam. Or... yea, always working... in my flannel pajama pants and t-shirt and I feel lucky if I can manage a shower three days a week.

It's awesome. Really.

Particularly when a prairie dog runs across your keyboard:

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~Denise
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Melissa Ford 5 pts

I find as a work-at-home that there is no separation between work and home. I love that I work from home and drink in all the benefits such as being around to play with my kids, volunteer in their school, etc. I am usually the most flexible person, able to help out in a moment's notice. But the drawback is that I never stop working. My husband comes home and has a few hours to unwind. I usually work until a half hour or so before bed. Which can be pretty damn exhausting.

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Vered 5 pts

My day looks a lot like yours. It's chaotic, and yet I agree that I miss absolutely nothing about working in an office. Nothing is perfect of course, but the flexibility of working from home is ideal for moms - for parents.

In the past I used to think that as a freelancer who works from home there's an issue of boundaries - when does work end and life starts - but these days with Internet connections and smart phones, this is an issue that full time office employees share with us.

The issue of benefits - health, time off, retirement - remains the biggest issue for freelancers IMO.

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