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Has Swine Flu Created the Purell Period of History?

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Everywhere I go, I see those signs in the bathrooms explaining how to properly wash hands. Reminding me to wash my hands. And I ask myself, does anyone NOT wash their hands after going to the bathroom? And if so, how can we call ourselves a civilized society?

But I get it. Everyone's terrified of swine flu, the latest scourge on our populace, and now we must all focus on the hand washing. With many bubbles and much hot water. This is hard enough to get out of adults, let alone kids. However, I'm noticing a trend I find almost as disturbing as not enough hand washing in my daughter. She's become addicted to hand sanitizer.

She's not getting it from me, so she must be getting it from school.

She gets home from school.

She uses hand sanitizer.

She does her homework.

She uses hand sanitizer.

Time to eat? Time for more hand sanitizer.

Done eating? Better get some hand sanitizer.

You see the pattern. I finally removed the hand sanitizer from the bathroom, thinking if she had to go through the steps of getting her hands wet, using soap and drying off, she might not do it so often. Germs are not good, but neither is obsessive hand washing. I'm also a little afraid of hand sanitizer. Partly because I've seen how much my kid uses and I know if she licks her hand before it dries she'll go down like a third-day drunk. But mostly because I'm afraid she'll kill her natural immunity by never giving it the chance to develop. I think you can be too rich, too thin, and too antiseptic. Des at The Christian Ranter writes:

The stock holders of Johnson & Johnson must be giddy, knowing that degermifying your hands has become an obsessive compulsive disorder.  An entire industry has grown out of a petrie dish of panic.

I'm going to step out and quote a dude now, because this quote captures my fear perfectly. Bobman from Bobman's Rants writes:

At the heart of it, we are all animals. We are not made to live in a sterile environment, our bodies are made to adapt to nearly ANY environment. They do this by being exposed to things and building up immunities. If you've never been exposed to anything because you try to Purell everything out of existence, your body has no idea how to fight for itself. Every year we hear people say that doctor's shouldn't give out antibiotics unless absolutely necessary, because the bacteria will adjust and create "superbacteria." And yet we're doing the same thing to every facet of our world, trying to purify it and in the process making the world MORE dangerous for ourselves.

But what do the mommies think? I talk to other parents at work all day long, and most of them seem poised carefully between not wanting to freak out over nothing and terror that their children will get sick, which despite my wish to be tough is true for me, too. But there are some who willingly admit to being germaphobes. I remember a good friend of mine telling me the best part of her Disney cruise was all the Purell around. "It was so clean!" she practically chirped. Here's an account from Alexstyles of WCAI's Stylex as she attempts to be dirtier:

For now, I’ll take baby steps: let that random person use my cell phone without  swabbing it in alcohol after; eat one of those “Hep B” mints that sits out in the bowl at restaurants; enjoy an open salad bar, grabbing each and every dirty tong; perhaps let someone lick my ice cream, without throwing it out afterward.  So, to my embarrassment and shame, I confess my “clean” sin. I’m working on it folks…just don’t use my pen…

I admit when I see my five-year-old use hand sanitizer six times in one hour while she's sitting home with me in our only-us-pigeons germhole, I wonder how many times a day she has been using it at school. I wonder what it's doing to her five-year-old immune system. No, I don't want her to get sick. I certainly don't want her to get flu, porcine or otherwise. But I can't help but fear that gel. I'm starting to hate that gel. What do you think about the Purell Period of history?

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redsonika 5 pts

As a nanny, I hardly ever have *time* to fully wash my hands when absolutely necessary. I certainly can wash before preparing food, but not necessarily after changing a diaper as my young friend is already bounding down the stairs. I also taught preschool for a while and no way would I have been able to wash my hands after every time I helped a child blow his nose without creating chaos in the form of young children climbing into the sink. Hand sanitizer was a god send.

But... FOR kids? I would never, ever encourage a child to use hand sanitizer. Purell and such use alcohol, which is very harsh on *my* skin, I can only imagine how bad it is for a kid! It also seems to me to fuel a sort of germ-phobia that kids are naturally prone to. I encourage the kids in my care to wash their hands appropriately, and I join them in doing so - but sometimes - I need a little extra help when cleaning up a potentially biohazardous mess!

The worst crime of the "Purrell Generation" that I've heard is really pretty awful: my own mother is a former nurse and volunteered to help give flu shots to kids in a local elementary school. The program giving the shots had such little funding that they didn't buy gloves for the nurses and instead, just supplied them with a bottle of hand sanitizer. !!!! Hand sanitizer should be an addition *to* not a replacement *for* normal body fluid safety!

Celeste Lindell 5 pts

For one thing, I lived my entire childhood and early adulthood without it and I survived. Plus, it's almost pure alcohol which means it dries out my already dry skin.

The only time I ever use it is when I've been volunteering for one of my animal charities and I want to make sure I don't bring any cat germs home to my cats.

cctate 5 pts

I have always made sure to have regular (not antibacterial) hand soap in my bathrooms for two reasons. First, I have heard the same thing about overuse of these antibacterial soaps leading to superbugs. Second, I do want my children to build an immunity system and not be in a pristine environment. I have to say, though, having personally experienced swine flu now, I have a big container of Purell at my desk, which I find very handy for using after shaking hands with people. And as for my boys, I wish they did focus more on washing hands or using hand sanitizer. As it is, I still have to remind them almost every time they use the bathroom!

LucindaA 5 pts

I know that sounds awful at first blush.  But I want my kids to get the colds and little bugs that go around each year so that their immune systems will do exactly what they are supposed to do--learn what is "not self" and protect their bodies.  If not, their immune systems will start practicing on other things instead, like food. 

I teach them to wash their hands before eating and after using the bathroom, to cover their mouths when they cough and use tissue for runny noses.  But I refuse to Purell the hell out of their lives.  It's just not healthy in my opinion.

aaustin13 6 pts

My family is plagued with extremely dry skin.  My oldest, in fact, just completed a course of steroid cream to help heal the horrible red chapping she had on her hands.  She's not allowed to use hand sanitizer anymore.  Right now, in preschool, it's probably not a big deal.  The restroom is right in the classroom, and she can easily wash her hands (and use a bit of lotion) while the other kids use Purell.  But in Kindergarten, I'm probably going to be That Mom.

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Clamo88 5 pts

Overuse of these sanitizers certainly is not good because we kill off good bacteria along with the bad bacteria.  Yet I can see why the schools have them out because when you mix kids with one cold you get many kids with a cold.  And then the teachers pick it up!

As far as the bathroom goes, I believe a great many people do not wash their hands.  Caring for someone with a chronic illness, I am at the hospital almost weekly for their treatments and can tell you a great many people go in and out of the bathroom stall and never wash their hands. 

Same at the public access computer center I run. Men can't aim in the bathroom, women get it on the seat.  Well, it's pretty disgusting.  With H1N1 so virulent this year, we have put out disinfecting wipes and advise people to clean the keyboard and mouse before they use the computer because you don't know what the person ahead of you was like.  We also have many people who cough and sneeze and never use a tissue or hanky, then go right back to the keyboard, so in this case we think it's the right thing to do. 

But at the home, having disinfectant all over the place is overkill.  We have some in the kitchen and I sometimes use it after working with raw meats.  But mostly I just have a paper towel handy to wipe my hands and then get over the sink to wash with hot water and soap.  If you read the medical info on germs and flu, they tell you handwashing is preferable and to use disinfectant wipes or spray only when that is not available.

-- "When choosing between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before." - Mae West Claire A. Murray (Clamo88)