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Have YOU Been Corrected By A Stranger... About Your Child?

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Have you ever been corrected by a stranger... that you are giving your child wrong information?

Well, it's now happened to me.

The setting: McDonald's for a 'special breakfast'.  I know, I know, but we don't go to McDonald's a lot.

The situation:

My son says to me, while eating pancakes,

"Mom, Albatrogen can fly and sleep at the same time; can any other animals do that?"

To which I reply,

"I've never heard of an Albatrogen, and I don't think any animals can sleep and fly at the same time."

When an elderly man sitting at the booth next to us cleared his throat and offered, "Umm.  He's right.  I think he was trying to say, 'albatross', and they CAN fly while they are sleeping."

"Yeah, Mom- albatrosses!"

And then my son informed me that they learned the other day in KINDERGARTEN that albatrosses can fly and sleep at the same time...

and I did not know this animal fact.

I now have learned, upon further research regarding albatrosses, that a more accurate term might be 'soaring' rather than flying.  They can sleep while they soar, locking their wings and relying on the wind to soar or glide.

But I didn't know that before; I think I was learning that I shouldn't pick my nose in Kindergarten, and that sharing is a good thing.  Ah, how times change.

The elderly gentleman was nice about correcting me.  And I'm glad he did.  I've learned something and my son has too.  And he didn't have a tone like, 'You idiot, your 6-year-old knows more than you do,' which is always nice  :)

I don't know if I would have done the same thing, however.  I'm on the fence about it.  I think I'm  leaning toward the whole, 'Mommies go through a lot and are learning as they go every day, and I'm sure she'll eventually figure out what he meant and then they'll go look it up and figure out that albatrosses DO fly, or rather, soar, while sleeping...'

 

Would You?

 

Nicole

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NicoleWins 5 pts

Believe it or not, "Wins" is the first four letters of my last name! NicoleW, which is what I post as at other sites, was already taken. I didn't even realize what it spelled until it was submitted! I hope it doesn't come off as too cocky! lol

BananaBlueberry 5 pts

Thanks Nicole... love the name :)
I'm so glad I'm not the only one who didn't know that about albatrosses!
The guy was so nice about it and I think I was dumbfounded (no pun intended) that my 6 year old and this old man were so matter-of-fact about it- like, "Why yes, the albatross can fly (across the ocean I also learned) and SLEEP while they do it" :)

Nicole

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NicoleWins 5 pts

First of all, I did not know that about the albatross. How cool is that?

Second, and more importantly, I think you did a great job. You didn't get defensive, or flustered, or even aggressive - all of which I've witnessed happening with corrected parents. You've taught your son that no one knows everything, that you can accept correction gracefully without losing self-esteem, and that sometimes our Elders are valuable sources of information! All good lessons, in my opinion.

While my ego hates being corrected by anyone, child witness or not, I strive to do the same thing you do. I thank the person for their information, and I use the opportunity to learn a new thing or two.