I left the corporate rat race to become a stay at home mom after I had my 2nd child. I have been married for 11 years to my husband, Mick, who is a commercial pilot. We have two children: 5 year old Benjamin and 2 year old Fifi (AKA Sophia). I am an adoptee in the 2nd year of reunion with my birthmother. Being an adoptee does not define me, but hell if it's not always there.