Here's the crux of it all , i am of the Female variety and a widow of 41.11/3/4 age, and i am rebelling against the machine, i am "over" all of the society drolls of "you must have this! you need it" type scenarios! I want to be as close to self Sufficiency as humanly possible, albeit i am medicated and a tad disabled, but NO this will not stop me! And when you analyse that last sentence you would probably be thinking she is a crock of $h!t, well i try very hard not to be, actually i am quite blunt, to the point of confronting, take me or leave me, i do not really care! pffft, BUT if i can persuade you to make at least "one informed choice" for today, my work is done! Or at least you can have a think about it ey *wink*