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Help! How Do I Talk To My Son About Occupy Wall Street?

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Dear Mouthy Housewives,

My 11-year-old started asking me questions about the Occupy Wall Street movement and I'm stumped about what to tell him.

It almost makes me miss Pokémon.

Any ideas?

Signed,

PreOccupied

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Dear PreOccupied,

Oh, kids today with their questions!  Whatever happened to the good old days when they were seen and not heard?!

Apparently those days are gone forever and now we have to deal with nonsense like inquisitive minds and children wanting to learn.   It's as though they don't realize that it's Project Runway finale week and mommy is busy.

Occupy Wall Street protester

Credit Image:Paul Stein via Flickr

But lucky for you, I just had the Occupy Wall Street discussion with my teenage daughter, so I can write from experience.

I tried to tell her that people were protesting because they were upset by how much she rolls her eyes at me.  Sadly, this was met with more eye rolling.

So I leveled with her.   At 13, my daughter was ready to hear the truth as I understood it—that some people are upset about what they perceive to be economic injustice in our society.

And then a wonderful thing happened.  She asked follow-up questions and we had a great conversation about different forms of protest, the rights of the people to express their anger at a given situation and being respectful even at the height of frustration.

No matter what side of the Occupy Wall Street movement you are on, there are definitely many teachable moments to share with your son. And the fact that he is asking questions that will lead to a discussion is a gift.

Let his questions shape the conversation.  Start by saying that you know he has been wondering about Occupy Wall Street—what has he heard about it? He may have seen images on TV that he found upsetting or confusing.  Address that first.

Be sure to reassure him that it is not as scary as when Grandma and Grandpa occupied your guest room that one endless weekend.

Don't worry about not having all the answers or saying the wrong things.  What is important is that you and  your son are communicating about what is on his mind and that he knows that you are a resource that he can turn to.

Good luck,

Marinka, TMH

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GaelMc 9 pts

My son (18 tomorrow) told me about it. He told me he had thought through their issues and while he agreed with the rational ones he did not think what they were doing, or how they were doing it was effective. He thinks that if each decided to contribute to the greater good and joined the Peace Corp or similar they would effect positive change. Made me think we did something right raising him.

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Polish Mama on the Prairie
Polish Mama on the Prairie

10-20-30GO! that would mean that Jesus and his disciplines should not have been fed then because they didn't do any work. I don't look at this as a "Look at scriptures" sort of thing. Nor do I anything else. Be good to one another, treat each other with respect, don't steal, rob or kill and help those who need it. That includes standing up for our children who are being exposed to harmful chemicals because our country is no longer run by a Federal Republic Government but instead a Capitalist Government, and that is unconstitutional.

10-20-30GO!
10-20-30GO!

For those of you that try to apply biblical wisdom..."We urged you when we were with you not to let anyone eat who refused to work. Now we hear that there are some of you who are living lives without any discipline, doing no work themselves but interfering with other people's." 2Thess 3:10 I am all for helping the homeless and those who can't help themselves, but these people don't fit that description..

10-20-30GO!
10-20-30GO!

They need to go to work and not expect things to be free. This entitlement mentality has gone too far..... really sad

Leslie Whitney
Leslie Whitney

Im so surprised that many parents dont "know" how to talk to their kids about protests, death, marriage equality, war etc. I can talk to my 4 and 7 yr old about anything in terms they understand for their age. Teach them about what you believe in and how you want them to see the world. You cant go wrong.

Polish Mama on the Prairie
Polish Mama on the Prairie

I talk to them about Solidarity and what Poland went through in the same type of movement, about the French Revolution and the same type of movement, about the Bolshevik seizure of power, about the AMERICAN REVOLUTION and the same exact type of movement.
I talk to them about what our founding fathers believed in and that they would have supported this movement.
I talk to them about the changes our country has faced since the 70's and that with power comes greed and that you should never trust a big company to have your best interest or your safety in their minds while they make, sell and market their products. That we should be thankful for what we have but to realize that with a lack of thought behind our purchases, we could just as easily be voiting with our dollars to support child labor, etc. as we can choose to support fair wages and work conditions.
That our world is all interconnected and being shallow and unthinking in our decisions can make other countries hate us the way they do because they make the products we buy and yet we could care less that it might be an uneducated abused 8 year old making our jeans look distressed.
In short, that we should give a s***. Especially with my raising them Catholic (and therefor Christian), it's a part of the Bible's teaching not to turn a blind eye to the injustices and wrongs of the world.
That the Roman Catholic church's official stance regarding Capitalism is that it is a sin. But that that doesn't mean they support Communism either.
They might not understand yet but I know they will one day. My parents always talked to me about things like this and I grew up caring about the world around me. I hope my kids do the same.
I support the Occupy movement, my entire family does and I'm teaching my kids that this is the beginning of something big in our world and to pay attention and pray that good comes from it and to care.

Heather Caulkins
Heather Caulkins

^enough said^

Elisabeth Snell Wang
Elisabeth Snell Wang

That they need to Occupy a job, so that a paycheck can Occupy their bank account, so that they can Occupy a house. And this all starts with their butt Occupying a desk at school.