Help! I Think My Husband Hates Me
By lisapennjames on August 02, 2012
Not for a split second did you ever imagine that some day you will wake up next to a husband that hates you. YOUR husband? Who used to be so in love with you? That showered you with love and admiration? That used to be your best friend?
Cut to a few years later, and it’s like you don’t even know who this guy is. Maybe he is just cold, distant and uninterested. Maybe it’s worse and he has become emotionally and verbally abusive. “My husband hates me“, you think to yourself. His love is lost forever.
Yet, he doesn’t leave. He stays at home and this leaves you in a constant state of stress, feeling unrespected, INVISIBLE, hurt and most of all – Unloved and ALONE.
You Are Trapped in a BAD marriage – What Should You do?
You probably know deep inside that this didn’t just happen over night. It’s always a process, a journey down the hill that you BOTH took together. It feels like it’s a point of no return, that all hope is lost.
My Husband Hates Me – What Should I Do?
The way I see it, you have 3 options at this point:
- Give up and accept that your marriage is over - Focus all of your energy in becoming financially independent and plan the day you (and your children) will leave him and start a new life without him. But what if you can’t support yourself and your children on your own? What if you don’t want your children to get hurt by your divorce?
- Wait and hope that this will blow over with time – He hates you? Maybe he will differently with time. Time heals all right? You’ll just hide in the corner and wait for this relationship-hurricane to go away. But how long can you stand this stressful living? How long can you take it before it actually makes you ill?
- Melt his heart and save your marriage – It’s going to be hard, but I can promise you it’s possible. You have little to lose and do much to win. It might seem unbelievable to you, but there are simple ways to melt your frozen husband’s heart and re-set your entire relationship, just like you restart your computer when it gets stuck. All you have to do is find out HOW to do it.
Emergency Step #1 – Communication Shift
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