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Total Lunar Eclipse Tonight -- But I Celebrate Solstice Looking at the Sun

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Tonight many people will observe a rare event: the first total lunar eclipse to take place on a full moon at the Winter Solstice since 1638. But we celebrate the Solstice every year -- and we do it by greeting the Sun.

I think sometimes we don't give ancient people the credit they deserve, but they were infinitely wise. Among other things, they were able to calculate the very day that the Earth itself began tilting back towards the sun, bringing longer days, warmth, and food. The sun was one of the first deities, and it's no wonder since everything hinged upon it for the earliest people. They celebrated its yearly life -- its birth in the winter, its journey through the sky, its death at the Summer Solstice, and its journey into the world of the dead on its way to be reborn Winter Solstice morning.

For as long as I can remember I've heard Mother Earth calling me. I feel most spiritual and whole when I am out among nature; listening to the power of the waves crashing on the shore, sitting on a warm rock in the sun, or under the shade of an oak tree, climbing a mountain to look down at the rough and beautiful valley below. This is my church. I don't have all the answers to my spiritual questions, but I know that being in my church, out with Mother Nature herself, makes me feel at peace.

here comes the sun

And so on the morning of the Solstice, the holiday we call Yule, we rise in the darkest part of the night. We layer ourselves in pajamas, clothes, coats and hats. We warm up hot cocoa and coffee and grab some muffins. We gather blankets and items to mark our altar -- candles, holly, fir branches -- and we head out to meet with some friends in our special spot to watch the sun rise. We eat and laugh and listen to stories and we each pray in our own way. We sing The Beatles' "Here Comes the Sun" and wish the Sun a very happy birthday. The kids play tag and climb on rocks. The parents sip hot drinks and enjoy the view. And then we go home. Some of us open our presents as soon as we arrive home, some of us save that for Christmas day or the nights of Hanukkah. As night falls again, my children and I head out to look at all the brightly lit houses in our neighborhood.

and the fire with all the strength it hath

But that was not the beginning. Our holidays begin at sunset the night before. In my family we make beeswax candles before the holiday and we light them at sunset. We listen to a story from Circle Round and we sing Harry Belafonte's Turn the World Around. At some point we make a gingerbread house and, if it's ready before sunset, we call it "Mother Winter's Home" and we pretend she stops by in the night. My own personal traditions involve cleaning -- spiritual and of the home -- and introspection. I reflect on the recent past and meditate on the time ahead. But mostly I just need to be out with the Earth, touching trees and rocks and welcoming the Sun.

Christmas and Yule look very much alike from the outside (in fact the word "Yule" itself is now associated with Christmas, although it was originally a separate holiday). Decorated pine trees, evergreen branches, holly, candles, red and green, even Santa is considered by many Pagans to be a faerie spirit associated with the holiday. The lights, of course, are symbolic of the sun, and a bright reminder that this dark time of the year will soon be over and things will become easier. And they will.

And so, a very happy Yule to you! And, to my friends in the southern part of the globe, I wish you a very happy Summer Solstice!

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The Spirit that Moves Me 5 pts

I loved reading about your Yule rituals - I have recently adopted similar rituals around the Winter Solstice. It's a very special, magical time indeed.

Bonnie Crowder 5 pts

Both of you! And happy holidays!

Bonnie
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Bonnie Crowder 5 pts

Yes, my plans are always either greater than they turn out, or left until the very last minute. Loved your entry, too. Thank you for sharing!

Bonnie
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Jody DeVere -- Ask Patty 5 pts

It was raining and cloudy in so cal so I watched the lunar eclipse on steaming live video last night into the wee hours of this am. Was fascinating and eerie at the same time.

Wish the weather had been good viewing outside.

Your photo's are amazing thanks for sharing.

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Bonnie Crowder 5 pts

And I am glad to shed some light on Yule. :)

Bonnie
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CheapWineandCookies 5 pts

Love it! And such beautiful pictures. Your Yule sounds like it was very similar to ours. Ahem, very similar to my plan for ours, haha.

I'm just figuring out how to work BlogHer, but if you're interested in our similar Yule tradition, it's at http://cheapwineandcookies.blogspot.com/2010/12/gi... ( http://cheapwineandcookies.blogspot.com/2010/12/gi... ).

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Charis Brown Malloy 5 pts

What a lovely holiday tradition.
The unique energy in the air is just about tangible (especially since Mercury is in retrograde too - tend to make thing more intense!)

Thanks for describing this - it made me feel more centered in the cycles, especially after spending my Solstice Eve on an airplane :)

theoutcast 5 pts

I never understood yule until now. I definitely prefer the nature church, too. For me Spring is like everyone's Christmas. I love spring and give gifts then. No one expects them!

Happy yule!

Heather blogs about Motherhood & Other Offensive Situations at http://www.ultimateoutcasts.com.

JennaHatfield 10 pts

Happy Yule! Beautiful post!

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Tori Jewell 5 pts

Happy Yule to you Bonnie, and to you Julie!

Tori is the creatrix behind Cellar Door Beauty ( http://cellardoorbeauty.wordpress.com