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Hey, Baby! Can We Stop Street Harassment?

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[How many times have you or your friends--or your daughter--confronted being hooted at or leered at by some sweet-talking guy in public? Or a pack of guys? Although statistics are hard to come by, it's hardly a foreign experience. The question is, what should we do about it? British blogger Sian and Crooked Rib has some thoughts and why we should take street harassment seriously. What do you think?--Mona]

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Sometimes I understand why people (particularly men) think that street harassment is “a compliment if anything.” If someone yells “alright gorgeous” or “mmm beautiful” I can understand why people go “but he just thinks you look nice.” They don’t understand that it actually leaves you feeling exposed, objectified, threatened. They don’t understand that you feel like your personal space, your self, has been invaded and violated. They don’t understand that it is an assertion of power (this street is mine and you are an object to be looked at or discarded) rather than a throwaway “compliment.”

Read the full post on Street Harassment on Sian and Crooked Rib now.

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sianandcrookedrib 5 pts

thank you for linking to my blog! have just discovered your site, what a fantastic resource.

Sian

eleanore 5 pts

It's a demeaning power play. It's a compliment. Can it be both? Or more accurately, doesn't it depend on what is said and in what tone? . Sometimes they are deliberately being threatening but sometimes not. Sometimes I'm offended and sometimes I smile. It's just not a black-and-white issue. There's a lot of grey in there. And i guess that's one reason guys continue to do it

Dana Damico 5 pts

I tried to leave a comment on your web site but was thwarted for some reason. In any case, I think your description of the harassment as aggressive and threatening is spot on. It doesn't matter whether there's an implied compliment, the very act of singling a stranger out on the street and yelling something about their body is demeaning. I was surprised when I saw the BlogHer link to the story in my Twitter feed because I just posted a story to my own blog about an incident this week when a man on the street yelled at me. http://bit.ly/ndMW5t

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