Hold On or Let Go?

That would really depend on the situation, right, Mi?

What would I like to hold on to? Memories of you. What would I like to let go? Hurtful memories – you know what I mean.

I know you kept advising me that it is best to move on, forgive and forget. Easier said than done. Every so often, there’s something to remind me. Could be minor, barely noticeable, but there it is – like that speck in the eye we can’t see, but hurts so bad. Even when we manage to remove the speck, it leaves a lacework of tiny raw blood vessels that take some time to ease off. And while they are there, it stings, making those memories rush back.

We know very well that the past is best left where it belongs, but the memories? It is not possible to lock them up and hope selective amnesia will set in.

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