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Holiday Spending Up: Are We Blowing Our Budgets?

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The news looks good: Holiday spending is up. Way up. 12% from last year, which equals about 22 billion dollars more than we spent in 2009. As Jolie O'Dell of Mashable says, "Recession? What recession?" Of course, all of that means nothing if we're charging all of our gifts and creating another black hole of debt. The better news? We're not.

According to Time, we may have finally learned the lesson. The hard way, of course, but learned all the same.

Surveys indicate that the number of shoppers using credit cards for holiday purchases has fallen to the lowest percentage ever since such data has been gathered. That's a good sign considering that an estimated 13.6 million Americans are still paying off debts from last holiday season.

And the economy rejoiced! Or, at the very least, economists rejoiced.

Santa with Cash

Personally, I have spent more on gifts this season than I did last year. However, neither I nor my husband have put a single dollar (or cent!) of that expenditure on a credit card. I knew coming into this year that I wanted to buy my husband (and, let's be honest, myself) a new (fancy!) TV for Christmas. I scrimped and saved and put extra money back and denied myself that gorgeous necklace on Etsy all year long so I would have the money available to make that purchase. I also kind of hoped and prayed for crazy-good Black Friday or Cyber Monday deals. I got one.

I'm not the only one. The blogosphere doesn't seem to be treating this as an all-out spending spree either, though talk of budgeting isn't always met with resounding joy.

One Frugal Girl recounts their decision to cut back last year and how they aren't setting as tight of a budget this year.

This year I'm not sure if I can convince my husband to cut back on spending again. I can tell by the groan in his voice and the grumble in his tone that he does not want to stick to a holiday budget. In general he doesn't like to be told what to do and when it comes to money he really does not like to be limited in his options.

In a discussion on the Frugal Living Community at BlogFrog, almost everyone is coming in under budget. Of course, they're frugal and such, using technology to aide in their savvy ways!

We are actually coming in a little under budget so far. The Amazon gift cards we were able to cash in from Swagbucks or we earned through blog posts etc...came in higher than we thought so our out of pocket was less! Love when that happens!

Karen at Living Well on Less just welcomed a new baby (CONGRATS!), and as such, asked to be exempt from all gift exchanges this year.

For a number of reasons, though, I’ve decided to take Christmas off this year. Not only are we short on time, but our budget is very tight. As much as we love shopping for our families, we’ve asked to be excused from any holiday gift exchanges this year. We typically only exchange gifts with our parents and buy toys for our nieces and nephews anyway. The way I see it, our parents are getting a grandbaby for Christmas. It took me 9 whole months to make this baby for them, so they better like it.

Even Queen Elizabeth II cancelled the royal Christmas party.

"Given the current economic climate, it was thought that it was appropriate for the Household to show restraint," a spokesman for the Palace told AFP.

Restraint. What a good way to put it! Hopefully even with the rise in Christmas spending, each individual and family is able to practice restraint and do what is financially responsible this season.

Have you spent more than you did last year on gifts? Are you ignoring your credit cards, too? What do you think about the up-tick in spending as a whole?


Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land. She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

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Waldenses 5 pts

Holiday season is being taken advantage of by sheer commercialism...Being with your family during the holiday season should not be an excuse to drain your hard-earned resources.
Take a lesson from the true blue rich people.

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add-vodka 5 pts

& I'm SO excited about that. I just can't do the christmas thing, so we're just doing stockings. I got my boyfriend and xbox 360, which was a splurge @ $300, and I used my credit card for it, but only for the rewards. I paid it off shortly after.
While I know theres good in the economy for spending, I think that everyone needs to take a deep breath and ask themselves if they REALLY need that new dress, or electronic. I'm one to talk - I have an iphone and more clothes than I've ever worn. But thats starting to change. It's so important to save your money, or at the very least, spend it on experiences instead of items. I'll never remember the phone I had when I am older, but I will remember the trip I take.
I think we're too much of a consumer driven continent & it's unfourtunate when we lose sight of whats really important (hint: it's not the scarf I'm wearing!)
Plus, if people start spending less on things, prices will go down, according to my economics class, thats just how it works. The reason why everything is so expensive (in Canada, anyway) is because people are paying the price for it - they're not skippig out just because it's expensive.
ANyway, sorry for the bad grammar/spelling. trying to be quick.

The Frugal Girl 5 pts

I'm on budget! :) And it's all cash. We start saving for Christmas in January, so by December, we've got enough to cover all of our shopping.

Kristen writes about cheerfully living on less at The Frugal Girl ( http://thefrugalgirl.com ).

Momofacrew 5 pts

I think you are right that people have trimmed down overall, regardless of how they have been impacted by the economy (directly, indirectly, etc), people have learned many lessons on how to get by in harder times...particularly younger people.
As a result, they see they can 'make it', they can, will, and do survive...successfully. There is a feeling that a small slackening of the belt will be okay. The initial fears of the recession have turned to a bit more wisdom, they can spend. They don't have to cut out everything, but now they can do it with the wisdom of the lessons learned these past few years.
This is what I think I see in my younger family members, a bit more spending, but smarter than they were before they experienced job losses, crazy mortgage decisions resulting in losses of houses or loan restructuring, etc...

JennaHatfield 10 pts

I wonder if that is some of the increase? Maybe people didn't feel "able" to purchase year round (I'm normally one of those but purchased very few this year outside of the "season"). As such, the majority of their purchases were made in the Panic Zone? Maybe? Will this answer suffice for Denise?

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

JennaHatfield 10 pts

LOL. I'm sure you could have scrounged up something to wear to the party!

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Momofacrew 5 pts

When we had children, my husband and I made the choice that we would no longer exchange gifts with one another. It was simply a reassessment of priorities, stress levels, etc. We are frugal w/the children, looking to gifts that are special and unique. My husband's family saw our focus on time over stuff and suggested we no longer exchange gifts with any adults...it has been wonderful. We shop for very special items for all of the children and spend quality time together as a family, the adults cooking, talking, enjoying each other...the kids happy to be in a calm, fun, less stressful environment.
My side of the family is absolutely against this idea. We oblige, but still seek to find gifts that mean something, including our children making gifts, but it is hard not to notice the 'cut it with a knife' level of stress during the holiday get togethers w/my side of the family...with everyone worrying about enough time to shop, budgets, etc...worrying about stuff instead of enjoying each other.

JennaHatfield 10 pts

I've noticed that as well. Just letting go of the purse strings a little bit for things that we had cut back on -- whether purposefully or unknowingly. I bought our fancy salsa and organic chips the other day, something we haven't had in the house in ... awhile. And it was FABULOUS.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

JennaHatfield 10 pts

Yes. I don't think we've used our credit cards since our first Christmas together when we didn't know better -- or have any money. LOL.

There was a funny "joke"/line last night on Mike & Molly. He bought her a diamond bracelet, admitted he put it on his card and said he'd pay it off in 106 (or something) payments. She said that he had to take it back, because she didn't want to be paying for her first Christmas present for the rest of their lives together. I kind of laughed and nodded my head!

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

JennaHatfield 10 pts

To be fair, we have a budget. And we stuck to it. It was just more than last year. ;)

I am also seeing a lot of "watching budget" talk, though I also watched Black Friday splurges from people who usually avoid the day/spending as so many stores offered Black Friday prices on the web this year.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Denise 9 pts moderator

12% more than last year? Nope, not me. I am 99% sure we spent less this year than last - even counting the extra plane ticket we bought so my son's girlfriend could join us for the holiday.

Everywhere I look, I see people say they are watching their budget, sticking to their budget, looking for deals... and if that's the case, who are the folks (besides Jenna, heh) who are spending more this year than last?

And why are they spending more? Why aren't they putting that extra 12% into a savings account?

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amberpagewrites 5 pts

My credit card is staying on ice this holiday season. It's too easy to get out of control when you're not feeling the pinch in your bank account.

But I am spending a little more. Still being cautious, but there's nothing I love more than giving loved ones really great presents, so I'm splurging a bit.

Melissa Ford 5 pts

Spent nothing on gifts since we don't celebrate Christmas, but I have noticed that I've eased up on how conservative I am with regular shopping. The kids were really loving these jelly window stickers and I said this morning, "oh, I'll run out and get some letter ones today." And I wouldn't have done that last year. I would have wanted to, but I would have been too scared to spend money on things that weren't necessary.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her novel about blogging is Life from Scratch ( http://www.life-from-scratch.com/ ).

Just_Margaret 5 pts

This year is very tight in our house. Consequently, our holiday spending has been pretty conservative. Last year, we got a new TV and a Wii system, plus gifts for the family, the kids, etc. This year, I've spent the equivalent of what we spent on the TV alone last year ($450) on *everything* for my kiddos and the extended family. Hub and I are doing stockings only for each other--no other gifts.

We haven't used credit for the Christmas or much else, in years. I'm quietly hoping Santa brings us a mortgage modification for Christmas.

Thank goodness Liz decided to cancel the Christmas party. Buying a dress, never mind fueling the private jet, would have completely blown our budget! ;)

~Margaret

Just Margaret ( http://maurhoffbarney.blogspot.com )

texasebeth 6 pts

I never really set a limit on gifts for us, mainly for the great nephews & nieces. We did set a cut off age though this year.

I try to shop year round so to keep the spending not happening all at once.

So far we're pretty much where we spend money amount wise last year.

Elizabeth

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sassymonkey 6 pts moderator

But we're probably coming close overall. We spend a bit less in some places and a bit more in others. We definitely spent more on decorations but that's mainly because we have a larger space to decorate and we spread those costs over a month.

By our friend's standards we have a pretty restrained budget for our gifts to each other -- we only spend $100. (That doesn't include stockings though.) The most we're spending on are our parents, which just feels right to us this year.

We've tried suggesting a Secret Santa approach or a thrifted/homemade one but both suggestions got shot down.

Contributing Editor Karen Ballum also blogs at Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.ca ).

theoutcast 5 pts

We need good news every now and then. I may overreach this year on holiday (slightly) but I am conservative overall.

Hopefully this trend toward responsible spending and consumption continues.

Heather blogs about Motherhood & Other Offensive Situations at http://www.ultimateoutcasts.com.

Kathryn W. 5 pts

I love that being a cheapskate, er, budget conscious is finally "in". Even before the recession, I always set a limit on what I was allowed to spend. To be fair, though, before the recession I was still a college student and had no other choice.

I would never wish hard times on anyone, but is it wrong of me to enjoy not being the only one who is checking price tags?

Happy Shopping!

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