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Home Security System – Luxury or Necessity?

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Open front door of home, keys in keyhole

I always thought that having a home security system was for the wealthy and materialistic.  Although we lock our house when we leave, I never give a thought to leaving my possessions behind.  Things are things and can be replaced.  Last year, however, a piece of chilling local news caught my attention and suddenly I found myself seeing home security in a whole new light.

When my parents separated, my father felt that my mother should have a security system installed because he would no longer be there.  I thought it was a silly idea, do home security systems really protect people?  They had a system installed and my mother still uses it occasionally.  There are tons of motion sensors that are covered up because her cats set them off.  And she only uses it when she leaves, not when she was home at night  because it makes her nervous.  But she still keeps the service because it provides a discount on home insurance.

Last November, in the sleepy town of Mont Vernon, NH, a story broke that shook our local area.  Kimberly Cates, a 42-year-old mother, and her 11-year-old daughter Jaime were sleeping in the master bedroom while Kimberly’s husband was away on a business trip.  Four teenagers allegedly came into their house in the middle of the night with a knife and machete and killed Kimberly while her daughter looked on and then severely maimed her daughter.  According to the Boston Globe, "They picked the house at random because it was in an isolated area… Before they entered the home, all four defendants were aware that the intent was to kill the occupants."  It was a gruesome and senseless crime.

This story not only shocked me because it occurred in a town that is close by, but because more details brought it closer to home.  One of my co-workers had his house burglarized several weeks before this crime and it was mostly likely the same set of teenagers according to the police.  In fact, one of the accused teenagers lives next door to my friend.  He had all sorts of anxious feelings after crime.  What if my wife and children were home when the house was broken into?  It could have easily been them.

At the time of the crime, I was exactly the same age as Kimberly Cates.  She was a nurse and a mother, in the prime of her life.  It is unthinkable how such evil could come to her and her family.  The crime also eerily resembles the 2001 murders of Dartmouth College professors, Half and Susanne Zantop, who were fatally stabbed in their New Hampshire home by two small-town teenagers they did not know.

After the killing, my husband suggested that we get a home security system.  I wasn’t convinced that it would help matters.  However, in a subsequent Boston Globe article, I learned that the teenagers “had chosen the Cates house because it had no security [system].”  That finally sealed it in my mind.  If this is the thought that goes through a psychopath’s mind, then it is a no-brainer.  If something as simple as having a security system could thwart an attack on my family, then no price is too high.  I still don’t care about the stuff in my house.  Only the people.

We’ll have to get used to the new routines with alarming the house while we sleep and while we’re away. The system will be a constant reminder that evil truly does exist in this world.  It would be nice to put your head in the sand and say that people are inherent good, but time and again, we are proven wrong.  It’s unlikely that the home security system would ever be used, but it will definitely provide some peace of mind.

Contributing editor blogs about her family at mommy bytes.

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SJFlowers 5 pts

Just my opinion, but I would not use motion detectors! Motion detectors are usually used to cover several window entry points with one sensor. You will probably want a sensor on every window in your house, but the motion detectors give added protection in case someone breaks a window and comes in, which will not trip the window sensor itself since the window was not opened. Experienced criminals know this! This is where the motion detector protects you, but we all know they have caused many a false alarm, wasted time and money. This is why you should use glass break sensors instead of motion detectors. They offer you the same protection from someone breaking a window, but it is extremely rare for them to cause any type of false alarm. Just something to consider, but remember you should have a window sensor on EVERY window and door as well.

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Expat Mum 5 pts

.. that despite a great ad campaign on TV, our (very high profile) alarm company is crap at responding to the alarm going off. On the few occasions it has happened, (motion detector going off downstairs) I had phoned the police myself long before the alarm company called. Even then, they asked me what was wrong (how the hell do I know?) and had I gone downstairs to see who was there. (???)

On one infamous occasion, we were on vacation and the alarm went off. Since no one at our home answered the phone, they should have sent the police round. What did they do? They left a voice mail telling us our alarm was going off and they couldn't get in touch with us.

(Yes, I complained, loudly.)

Just don't rely on the alarm company to save your life like they do in the ads.

Shelly Kneupper Tucker 5 pts

You proved that pretty well with the chilling tales you recounted!  We've had a sytem for a very long time, and there are a few things I'd tell you:

We have smoke detectors installed with it.  Be sure to check the batteries!  Ours only seem to die in the middle of the night (& beep all night to remind us).
Pick a password you can remember, and practice it regularly! lol.  The one time our alarm sounded (no robbery in progress), when the alarm company called I was so flustered I couldn't remember the password.
Many communties require that you register your alarm with the local police station.  If you don't, and if your alarm goes off and the police respond, there can be a hefty fine.
Rather than rely on the criminals seeing the keypad, get the stickers for the windows and the sign for the front yard that your security company will provide.  No, they are not aesthetically pleasing, but they are obvious deterrents!
Thanks for reminding us to use the alarm system we have!

Shelly Kneupper Tucker

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suburbangrandma 5 pts

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I have a security system at my home, which makes me much more comfortable, especially when I am home alone.

Actually, once someone called me asking me if I am insterested in "buying" a system, I said that I had one, then the person (man), asked me if I keep it active, when I said yes, he hung up on me. 

I did not feel very comfortable about that call.  I felt that someone was checking out if my home was secured by an alarm system.  I could not check the caller's ID as it came up as 'Annonymous".

Jessica Anne 5 pts

We use ours all the time.  We have had a rash of break-ins in the neighborhood, during the day, and their have been people home during some of them.  Thankfully, no one got hurt.  We put ours on when we leave and when we go to sleep at night.  We have a setting to be on without the motion sensors.  My mother-in-law has had hers go off because of the cats, even though her motion sensor is supposed to not go off with small animals, and here, the city charges you for a false alarm.

With the break-ins the police came to talk to our neighborhood and I learned that if I'm home to make sure I say something if there's a knock at the door, and not ignore people I think are trying to sell me crap I don't want.  A lot of burglars knock first to make sure no one's home.  They also said a dog is the best deterrent, even a small one, because they make too much noise.  And of course, they recommended a home security system.

Jessica

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moonfever0 5 pts

We are in the middle of specifying a system, so we cam use all the advice we can get!  The latest motion detectors have advanced so that small animals don't set them off.

Angela at mommy bytes ( http://www.mommybytes.com ) BlogHer Contributing Editor in Mommy & Family Cribsheet

Expat Mum 5 pts

Would-be criminals are usually put off by a visual deterrent, so if you have a security system there is often a keypad somewhere near the door with a little red light. If you have glass in your door, the light may well be visible to anyone peeping in, thus providing an immediate deterrent.

We put our system on every night whether we're here or not and I probably wouldn't be able to sleep without it now. The motion detectors are a pain if you have pets or small kids though!