HOW TO AVOID AN ARGUMENT.....

HOW TO AVOID AN ARGUMENT….

I happened to be reading the news recently and came across an article about two “celebrities” who got into a fight. One initiated it with her words and the other punched her knocking the other one to the floor…..I thought “What craziness….What idiots….”…..So often people invite their selves into an argument or into negative situations……

I do my very best at avoiding “negative” people and negative situations….There are simply enough in life one cannot avoid unless they hide at home which for most is not the best option……When I see someone acting like an idiot in my opinion I simply quietly walk away….Steer myself into another direction…….Do my very best at having no interaction with that person and staying clear of where they are….

For some, avoiding negative and whacked out people is not always entirely possible….Sometimes people work with them or live close in a neighborhood to people that are always “right on the edge….” So what does one do then?.....I wish I had a clear answer, but I don’t……I can simply say for me that I truly do all I can at avoiding even being in any kind of situation like that…I size up my environments before ever stepping into any….whether it is a neighborhood, a job, or any situation….but even then circumstances can change and if we are then put into negative charged environments it is up to us to stay or to go….If we stay we simply should figure out a way to avoid the negativity and if we go it may be an inconvenience…For me personally at my inconvenience I would likely change environments, but that is how I would do it….Everyone handles things differently…I simply want to go in the other direction away from negativity....

The world will always be filled with idiots….negative people….trouble makers….people on the edge…..That is simply a fact of life…..Denying the existence of those types puts us in situations we should not want to be in….Recognizing that they exist helps us to be pro-active in staying away from them…In my opinion the further we can be from people like that the better….

 Not all people are rational. There truly are a lot of messed up people in life and not everyone can we size up at a moments notice…..Irrational people can be anywhere at anytime….It is key for us to know what to do when we come across one…..and in my opinion the best way is to “walk away….” As fast as one can……

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