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BlogHer '10 Shoes: How to Choose the Right Pair

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Women talk about shoes, as my male friends tell me, "all the time," and BlogHer is no exception. I can't readily argue with them about that point so I will just admit my weakness right here and now for all to witness. Hi, my name is Kelly and I love shoes and love wearing shoes and love looking at shoes. Why am I outing myself like this? Because many of you attending BlogHer this year have confessed publicly on blogs and in tweets and on Facebook status updates that you need to know what to pack for New York this August -- and specifically, that you are baffled by the shoe packing part. I am here to help. Relax. I have a few suggestions for packing and a few fantastic selections to share with you. 

For me, packing for New York is not like packing for vacation because not only will I be wearing shoes, I hope to be admiring the ones that other women wear and possibly buying some that I'll have to fit in my suitcase for the trip back home. I won't just wear my shoes, I am planning to strut in them. At this point, my friends have come to expect it from me. The pressure! But heading to BlogHer '10 in New York isn't vacation for me, it's work. Fun work, yes, but work nonetheless.

First, pack shoes in your suitcase before you pack anything else. They are difficult to get into a suitcase if it's too filled up. You can always roll up underwear and t-shirts and stick them in your shoes for added room. Next, don't bring too many shoes. This is a three day event and you should be able to get three or four pair of shoes in a medium-sized suitcase and still have room for the rest of your belongings. (If you happen to be running for Tanner, you will need your jogging shoes, too!)

Aim for a nice mixture of pleasantly comfortable, stylish picks and at least one pair of completely impractical shoes. Here's the thing: you'll be in New York where people take cabs everywhere. Hopefully, you'll stay in the hotel where all the festivities are taking place so you won't have to worry about walking. When women get together in a space like this for an event, we like to show off a bit. Well, at least I do. And I won't be looking at your hair or makeup or jewelry at BlogHer. My experience tells me that shoes are The Thing because there is a lot of sitting in conference rooms where legs are crossed. So, you see? You can sit down and put your lovely shoes practically up in the air while you listen to amazing women talk about blogging. IS THIS HEAVEN OR WHAT?

Remember that you're going to attend conference meetings and that, at times, you may find that there is standing room only. If you're so inclined and able, then feel free to cop a squat on the floor, but it you're too dressed up from head to toe and look like you should be standing in a museum, this will prove difficult. The bulk of the walking that you'll do is between the convention center, rooms where people are speaking, and where the vendors have set up so might I suggest a pair of lovely wedge heels from Clarks Plover? I may? Ok, then let me tell you about them. They are an open-toe sandal with a criss-cross over the foot and you can easily wear them with a sundress, a pair of khaki walking shorts, or with jeans. Versatile and comfortable, this shoe gets my vote for most agreeable. The chestnut color that is shown is currently available for $49.99 at Piperlime.

Clarks Plover sandal wedge

If you're looking to go for the Yowza! factor, then let me suggest this pair of wedge sandals by Faryl Robin. The Issie sandal is a multi-colored leather sandal with the most darling button on the side for that added umph! that is required in any shoe getting a Yowza! out of me. These are more pricey at $180 so feel free to sit on the sidelines with me and admire them from afar. 

issiecoral

Of course, you can always bring a pair of flats because they serve two purposes: one, they are naturally comfortable for most women and two, they pack easily.

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fweetieb 5 pts

oooo - I LOVE Indigo by Clark's.

I was all over the shoes you posted. I'm not going to BlogHer, but I AM going to wear the heck outta those shoes.

I adore the zombie stompers, but I need about an 1.5 less heel.

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Maria Niles 5 pts

Based on the super-trustworthy recommendations from both of you, Julie and Kelly - I now own the Clarks from the top of the post in brown and black. I might have to buy them in every other color made (I spy 3 more - unfortunately not on sale - at my beloved Zappos). They are seriously as comfortable as sneakers but cute wedge heel sandals instead.

You will see me living in these at the conference. Bless you ladies!

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Kelly Wickham 5 pts

Thank you, Amanda, for adding that link! I'm so glad to find them on sale because I have an online shopping issue...and um...my credit card is at the ready!

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Amanda_Magee 5 pts

Had never heard of them, then I read (and loved) this post and immediately saw some of this brand on sale at Gilt.com.

http://www.gilt.com/sale/women/faryl-robin

Amanda

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karen322 5 pts

I love your shoe picks! I wish I was coordinated enough to wear them while chasing a very busy one year old boy around all day! I think I will stick to flats for now!

-Karen

www.mylifespot.com ( http://www.mylifespot.com )   Insight into Parenting, Women's Health, & Wellness.

De in D.C. 5 pts

I'm going to be wrangling a baby during the conference this year, so sadly, no super-sexy heels for me (while I'm willing to risk breaking my own neck for fashion, my son's neck is just too cute to take that risk). However, I will be wearing a pair of flats that I bought while in Chicago at BlogHer last year. They're purple suede with cute little flowers on the toes. Delish!

JennaHatfield 9 pts

I'm looking for an outfit to wear my favorite green flats with... and I'm failing.

( http://www.flickr.com/photos/mrsjennahatfield/4440... )

I'd obviously be wearing them without my green striped socks. LOL

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Julie Ross Godar 5 pts

And am currently wearing them and you'll see me in them at the conference. They are super comfortable even just out of the box.

Zombie Stomper. Wow.

Melissa Ford 5 pts

I did heels at BlogHer once--never again. I couldn't enjoy the night out because my feet hurt too much. While people do cab it in the city, if you're with a bunch of people who want to work, you'll end up either looking strange jumping into a cab for a few blocks or with horrible pain if you try to walk it--the pain of being a woman :-)

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

missbritt 5 pts

For giving shoe lovers permission to flaunt our fabulous footware!

I was starting to feel like I was going to be alone in a sea of keen.

Miss Britt

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"Dignity is Overrated"

Kelly Wickham 5 pts

The hard part, Dana, in coming up with my favorite Faryl Robin pair was to narrow them down. There are SO many that I like and want. She truly corners the market on gorgeous wedge sandals.

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Kelly Wickham 5 pts

....are the work of the devil himself. Woman was meant to strut in pretty shoes. ;-)

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Kelly Wickham 5 pts

For me, Lucretia, it is enough to SEE you. But there is a penalty for shoe drooling. I guess I'd better bring paper towels.

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Kelly Wickham 5 pts

Dear Luvvie,

How will you get the rest of your clothes in your suitcase? Are you checking luggage? Yes, you are, of course. But then, I've seen you and you are SUPER TINY so this might work for you. Try packing 7 pair of size 11 shoes in a normal suitcase. It doesn't work.

Can't wait to see you again. I love your style so much that your whole package will be tight, girl.

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Luvvie 5 pts

MochaMomma, this is everything I could have asked for. As a shoe addict and packrat, this will help me to narrow down what I should bring. Although you recommended 3-4. I'm pretty sure no less than 5 pairs will come to NYC w/ me. I'm trying to stay under 7 but umm... I can't make any promises.

SocalMom 5 pts

Like Susan, my shoes got photographed by Beth at that first BlogHer. They were flip flops... but nice ones.

Alas, my aging, aching feet are unable tolerate wearing beautiful shoes for longer than a couple of minutes... so I'll be hard pressed to remove my comfy trainers.

But I'll be admiring YOU as you strut in YOUR gorgeous pairs.

GeekMommy 5 pts

I'll look at your lovely shoes and smile.
But 2008 was the last year that I was "about the shoes" at BlogHer.
I've since become that woman who will be found in her Crocs Malindis 99% of the time so that she can survive the conference.
But I'm a rabid shoe lover - so I'll just drool on your feet.

Lucretia (aka GeekMommy) Raising a child in a digital world, still a digital girl

Kelly Wickham 5 pts

Susan, I remember that, too. And I distinctly recall the very same question. Where is that shoe essay? One of my favorite wedge sandals ended up in that photo essay and it was so fun to read!

Here I go on a hunt for that shoe essay.

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Susan Getgood 5 pts

I remember the first year (05), Beth Kanter came up to me and said:

Can I take a picture of your shoes?

She did a whole photo essay just of shoes.

In 06 I distinctly recall Lisa Stone commenting from the stage about someone's marvelous shows, but I can no longer remember whose.

BlogHer is most definitely about the shoes.

Susan Getgood blogs at Marketing Roadmaps ( http://getgood.com/roadmaps ), Snapshot Chronicles ( http://snapshotchronicles.com ) and Snapshot Chronicles Roadtrip ( http://snapshotchronicles.com/roadtrip ).

Kelly Wickham 5 pts

There is nothing like a broken in pair of flats that serve the purpose for which you intended. So bring 'em on! Let's see them! You have lovingly worn them in and they deserve the limelight, too.

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Kelly Wickham 5 pts

Those are some mighty fine legs in that picture. Stiletto heels? Yeah, especially when my day calls for lots of sitting and crossing of legs. Just not like those in the pic.

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alanamorales 5 pts

I'm not going to BlogHer, but loved the post regardless. I personally could never wear any of those shoes (except the flats, which I will be looking for) because I would break an ankle. Maybe even two. :)

Of course, if I had legs like those in the picture...LOL

Alana

Author of Domestically Challenged

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JennaHatfield 9 pts

Those shoes don't make my feet hurt. They make my neck hurt. Because I'd break it.

I'll be wearing flats. And they won't be brand new, shiny, super sexy flats either. They'll be flats that have already been broken in. No blisters for me. The shoes I have in mind are stylish enough (for me... who is not stylish) and serve their purpose. Good enough for me!

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.