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How to Deliver Great Meals to New Parents

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CasseroleThough I'm not a parent myself, I'm clear on this fact: Parents have to eat, and new parents have plenty to juggle without having to think about food. This is why I've always tried to be the friend who, at some point, shows up at my new-parent friends' houses with a casserole, roast chicken dinner, or other food that they can just reheat when they're ready. They've got enough on their plates ... but they need nourishment, too!

When Rebecca of Raleigh Mommy had a baby five months ago, she learned an awful lot in a short amount of time. In a guest post on Jessica Fisher's Life As A Mom, she talked about how food deliveries made the process easier:

One of the things that really helped us out during that time was having a great network of friends who brought us meals. Not having to think about what to make for dinner was wonderful! Who doesn’t love a free meal delivered to their door?!

Rebecca's post includes her top five tips for the best way to provide this amazing service to friends and neighbors who are just getting to know their newborn.

Though many people like to deliver dinner food to new families, one option would be to bring a breakfast casserole instead, particularly if your friend is a fan of savory or sweet hot breakfasts. Susan of The Confident Mom recommends a comforting breakfast casserole that includes sausage and tater tots (and I will admit an abiding weakness for anything involving tater tots ...), and that can be split into smaller servings:

We have a favorite breakfast casserole which I enjoy making, but often times it is too big for us to finish, or kids go off to the other parents’ house and I end up with a lot left over and no one to eat it. So a few months back I decided to break my recipe down and place it in smaller casseroles to cook fresh each morning. I make the recipe (double batch normally) plan to cook one the following morning – you can guess what’s for breakfast at our house tomorrow! I take the rest and divide it among smaller dishes for individual size servings.

I freeze the smaller containers wrapped in foil and then I can pop them in the toaster oven to cook up fresh and surprise one of the non-suspecting targets! It tastes better fresh rather than cooking them all up and then just re-heating – trust me.

Casseroles for any time of day, however, do require care in handling so the recipient knows how to reheat or cook them appropriately. Amanda of Mommy's Idea Book has some great tips on how to freeze casseroles and provide appropriate instructions easily and effectively -- these ideas can be put to good use when helping out new parents.

If you have a group of friends who all want to help another member of the group, what about hosting a freezer party one afternoon? Julie of The Family Kitchen provides great ideas about pulling off such an event:

Hosting a “freezer party” has become popular for moms-to-be, but it’s a great way to spend time with family and friends, whether or not there’s a new arrival on the way. Spending a weekend afternoon chopping, sauteing and drinking wine with friends and at the end of it bringing home enough to stash in the freezer for a couple weeks’ worth of dinners and/or lunches is the ultimate in social multitasking. At parties, everyone ends up in the kitchen anyway.

If the family you're delivering food to already has older kids who are in school, what about delivering a set of lunches for the week? That takes one big task off the new mother's and father's plate during busy mornings. Kelly of an Apple and a Tree wrote a terrific post outlining how she did just that for two families in her network.

Here are some more posts that include tips not only about food delivery to new mothers, but other helpful hints and ideas, as well!

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InspiredRD 5 pts

We had almost 2 weeks of meal-delivery from friends after each of our babies was born. It really was the most helpful thing they could do. The only suggestion I have is to not brind dinner over then expect to eat it with them. Say hi to the new baby and leave :)

mamarant 5 pts

If you're strapped for time or not much of a cook, so many grocery stores and places like Sam's Club and Costco have freshly made "heat and serve" meals that are perfect to bring to a new mom and her family.

Even picking up some basics like milk, eggs and bread is a nice thing to do, too.

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caffeinatedmama 5 pts

We lived off take-out and delivery when we adopted our son -- I would have killed for someone to bring me a dinner.
My brother-in-law and his wife welcomed a new baby boy to the world last week so I baked up a couple dozen muffins and individually wrapped and labelled them before putting them in freezer bags. They can put them directly in the freezer and pop one or two out at a time for breakfast or a snack.

GentlyEccentricMum 5 pts

We have a great system at our church where parents of new babies get 2 weeks worth of meals, either delivered hot on the night or sent in advance for the freezer. They're asked about whether it would be most helpful directly out of hospital or when the relatives who often visit the first few days have gone home and they're asked for food preferences/family allergies etc. We also have a church freezer full of emergency meals for those who undergo surgery etc and a cooking club fills that every couple of months, including gluten-free and vegetarian meals.

I always cook something with a vegetable and some fibre included as these are often items lacking in the crazy post-partum days diet. I also use my slow-cooker a lot as I also have a family to cook for too and I can combine the two.

My two easy-peasy favourites, burrito bake and macaroni cheese with peas, are here and are both vegetarian:

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Having taken macaroni cheese across town many times, I was so grateful for the thought that went into the meals when my daughter was born, especially as we'd had 10 days in hospital with a seriously sick infant on the special care unit.

mrstmpate 5 pts

When my son was born my friends were wonderful! They actually used this amazing website http://www.takethemameal.com/ to plan who was bringing what. It was wonderful because I have food allergies and was breastfeeding so there were foods that were making my son very gases.

Plus we set it up so I could get online see what people were bringing and ask for different things I was craving, and set it up that I have people coming by every other day. It was great to have break between, and we used up all of our left overs!

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theconfidentmom 5 pts

Thanks for including my breakfast casserole link in your comment. You are so right that delivering meals is a lost art - I love that I can still do this for those in need!

NSane 5 pts

I sent her an email with a menu she could pick from. I went through my recipe-rolodex for ones that were make-ahead and let her pick her favorites that I would make when the baby came.

FYI - Assembled but unbaked enchiladas were a big hit.

My same friend has to little kids now and I know it's a challenge to keep everything going. So, whenever I want to experiment with a recipe that can't possibly be cut down to serve 2, I make the whole thing anyway and the leftovers get delivered to her house.

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KMayer 5 pts

This is so prevalent in my town, that when triumphs (new babies) or tragedy strikes, dinners are sometimes choreographed for weeks. So often in fact, when my kid broke his arm, hsb says, "think this is good for any meals?" I love living here!
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JennaHatfield 9 pts

I kind of want to have another baby just so people bring us food. ;) But really, it was the best two weeks EVER after each boy was born.

And now I'm hungry.

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jaycee 5 pts

When I was a new mum a couple of friends did the meal drop around thing and a couple of others used to bring me and join me for takeaway once a week. I really welcomed it especially as I was on my own.

Casserole dishes worked the best - something that can be reheated and/or frozen for later.

I recently cooked a meal (tuna/pasta bake) for a friend who's just had her 5th baby - I thought she really deserved it and she was really grateful.

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Sarah@naturaldiabetic.blogspot.com 5 pts

Especially about the breakfast casserole. I always bring food to new parents, because I know how much we appreciated all of the food brought to us when we were new parents. Some of those casseroles were eaten breakfast lunch and dinner!

Canape 5 pts

Our neighborhood sets up an online calendar every time a new baby is born. Usually we can keep the family fed for about six weeks every two to three days.

I have taken meals to neighbors I've never even met before - it's a great icebreaker :)

Melissa Ford 5 pts

It applies to so many situations -- dropping off a meal. One thing I will recommend is asking people their food allergies, preferences, and dislikes. We got a lot of food that we couldn't eat because it wasn't food we could consume.

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lilmommythatcould 5 pts

I really believe this is a lost art, not just for new moms but for all those events happy and sad.
I remember watching my mom cook meals for new babies, friends who had a death in the family and those who were sick. One of my moms friend always returned the bowl that the casserole came in with bars because she was taught never return a bowl empty, which I try to do to this day.
We just had a regular scheduled meal pass for a friend that had cancer- we all took turns prepping meals for her family on the days she had chemo.
LOVE this post THANK YOU!

~Susan

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theoutcast 5 pts

It took me being a mom before I realized the value in this! My mother-in-law made a few good homestyle, chicken dinners. Otherwise, it was footlongs from Subway. Not kidding. We were woefully unprepared. You're great friend with great dinner ideas...wish you were around :)

Heather blogs about Motherhood & Other Offensive Situations at http://www.ultimateoutcasts.com.