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You’re a woman. You’ve probably read, what, 8,702 relationship books
about how to make men crazy with lust and glue them to you until death
do you part. So it may come as a shock to you to learn that the real
answer to making a man want you bad is no farther than your closet. Providing of course you have something red in there.

Yup, just when you thought it was shiny things men liked, The Today Show
goes and shakes up the world of order of lust and sexiness by
announcing it’s all about red. According to US researchers, college men
rated a woman shown in photographs as more sexually attractive if she
was wearing red clothing or if she was shown in an image framed by a
red border rather than some other color.

Said researchers, from the University of Fashion and Lust (I kid,
they’re from the University of Rochester in Rochester, NY), think this
odd phenomenon may have something to do with the fact that red,
culturally speaking, is the color of romance. Guys see red and
everything blurs into one big Valentine heart, I guess.

Or, maybe the red-lust association has to do with evolutionary
biology. Apparently certain male primates go crazy for female baboons
and chimpanzees when a certain part of their body sports red (and we’re
not talking red nail polish) signaling they’re near ovulation.

Here’s another fascinating tidbit perhaps not so based in a
biological imperative. It seems that men are willing to spend more
money on a date if – yes, you guessed it – she’s dressed in red. All I
can say is, goodbye little black dress.

Sadly, men did not rate women in red as being more intelligent,
likeable or kind, just more attractive. So you probably don’t want to
wear red to a job interview. No hint, however, at what color will make
us appear smarter. Guess we’ll have to just rely on our ol' gray matter
for that. How boring.

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XXandra 5 pts

Roger, you're clearly a thinking man who knows what he sees isn't always what he gets. So it's surprising to me that you still separate what goes on the heart from what goes on elsewhere in the body (I'm sure you follow). I talk to a lot of women about sex and sexiness and they all agree that when the primal combines with the romantic, it makes for the best kind of love and sex. In this regard, i don't think men and women are that different. 

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rsg2003 5 pts

As a man, I can say that a woman's outfit can go a long way in awakening some of my more 'primal' urges.  But it's just that: primal.  Men (stereotypically speaking) can readily classify a woman as a "dater" or a "mater" (i.e. one you take to mom vs. one you take to bed).  At the end of the day, what "drives a man wild" is his urge/instinct/tendency to react to visual stimulation that appeals to his sexual drives.  What catches a man's heart is something else entirely. 

Roger S. Gil, M.A.
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