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Gapgate Fatigue: How Outraged Are You?

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Are you outraged? Should you be?

I don't know about you, but I'm starting to think that I should, all of the time, and I have to tell you that lately I'm a little overwhelmed by it.

Do you know what I'm talking about? Does this happen to you? That there's a weekly-daily-hourly insinuation or a direct statement that I'm supposed to be outraged about something that has been written, spoken or implied, either on the news, in a blog post or (please, oh please no) at a conference or other in-person meet-up.

It happens to me a lot. I wake up in the morning and along with my coffee, an e-mail or a tweet comes saying that somebody wrote an outrageous (outrage!) article or did or said some egregious something or other. And by virtue of this issue landing in my inbox or popping up in my Twitter stream, I am called to action.

This is an outrage! Whatever this is! An outrage! I am going to write a post about this. I am going to rustle up an avatar.

Now I know that I spend a lot of time online. I write for several websites and belong to a handful of e-mail lists. I'm an obsessive consumer of media, and I love my Twitter strong and unfiltered. And then there are those real live human beings I see and talk to from time to time.

It's just that I'm beginning to think that the online blowback of about 95, maybe 99 percent of things is just too much. It's getting so that I purposely stay clear of whatever Twitter and/or the blogs are jacked up about, because I'm getting burnt out on calls to outrage, if that makes any sense.

Last week, it was the Gap logo -- specifically, that they changed it and no one liked it. I knew because I heard the online chatter and started seeing similarly-designed avatars popping up on Twitter that I assumed were in response to it. And because I am fond of avoidance at times, I cringed and purposely ignored the topic. Then finally, when someone I respect sent a thoughtful response to  this controversy -- after the Internet rebelled and the Gap, in some fear that they would sell no more jeans ever, maybe, switched their logo back. I clicked on the one link that my colleague sent, and was quickly drawn into a morass of comment sections and deconstructions. Of the Gap logo.

Gap Logos

I didn't get it, honestly. It seemed odd. But then again I'm not a graphic designer and I have no vested interest in the Gap. I never shop there anymore, and not on purpose, really -- it just isn't a place that appeals to me like it did in college. And phrases like "failed logo crowdsourcing project" and "Twitter and Facebook avatar campaign" among several actions and initiatives in response to a logo change for a company that might could use a change just seemed extreme.

Besides, I have a job, and a family and a lot of other stuff to do. Gap rage! Gapgate! felt like it was neck-and-neck with National Coming Out Day for civic engagement. And I guess if people want to be invested in the Gap, that's their business. I'm big on outrage translating to action, because without it I'm not sure what the value is, quite frankly, besides the deafening noise of thousands of tweets tweeting.

And maybe it's my baggage that makes it seem to me that there are better uses of time, skill and emotional energy than raging against the machine that is marketing for a major, entrenched brand. And I'm sure there are people who can tell me why I'm wrong and why this was a revolutionary thing that has some greater meaning, but I just saw Waiting For Superman, so I'm obsessing about the state of our educational system and cranky about our misplaced priorities. So you know, just ignore me. Please. Or make me an avatar.

And to be clear, while I have outrage fatigue, I'm not saying there isn't a time and a place for it. Things happen every day that are worth dissent -- even a lot of dissent. And if issues matter to people -- whether it's high-fructose corn syrup or breast-feeding, the state of the economy or something that I consider much less important like a logo that is barely noteworthy in the universal scheme -- it's their right to share how they feel.

It's just that the Internet

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loraleechoate 5 pts

I was just glad it was one thing I didn't read and feel some kind of emotional upheaval about. As I am prone to that sort of thing. Sigh.

minnie 5 pts

I try to be selective about which outrages I look at. I also finally gave in on the Gap logo thing and lo, I was outraged! I dont give a shit about gap but the new logo was just so... so... uninspired and i can't imagine sitting in a meeting where that logo was even vaguely admired.

I have unfollowed some twitter drama monsters and it effected my life positively, more than i thought it would!

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thebitchinwife 5 pts

Couldn't agree more. So happy I missed this last one concerning the Gap... People just need to relax sometimes and not let themselves get into such a lather!

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sherryf 5 pts

I'm too tired to be outraged by much more than my old dog going potty on the floor these days. I'll save up my good responses for something important. I too feel your pain.

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lauriewrites 5 pts

Sherri, you're right, there is a certain "I'm ahead of the curve, holier than thou" vibe to a lot of tech commentary and I'm sure that was at play here.

I was broadening the scope a little, I guess (I have a habit of doing that) and I'm in that place where you are -- too busy with work and the people in my life to hyperfocus on silly and utterly without a point to prove. Thanks for the comment.

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lauriewrites 5 pts

That I can totally get behind. Logo schmogo. ;)

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lauriewrites 5 pts

No harm in keeping the humor in it, I guess. :)

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lauriewrites 5 pts

You'd be offended by a genitalia logo. Right. ;)

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lauriewrites 5 pts

And I guess I don't see myself as a real crowd-sourcer or rabble rouser. I don't expect anyone to care about what I care about, although I think it's cool that I have a venue to share it if I feel like it.

Sometimes I think about chucking everything I'm doing and doing a Ph.D in online sociology (groupthink and communication especially.) But then I'm not sure I want to focus on anything that intensely.

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lauriewrites 5 pts

I've had my missteps online as well, and I'm sure I get on peoples' nerves, in which case they're free to unfollow. :) But for the most part I try to use my powers for good, or at least not strongly irritating.

I think you're absolutely right -- the power of social media is cool and a little scary, if I'm being honest. I think using it judiciously, especially when it comes to important things, is, well, important.

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lauriewrites 5 pts

I thought the Giant logo/brand change was and is atrocious and I have to look at that every time I have to run in there to buy milk. But I'm not going to waste my breath on it.

Until now, apparently. ;)

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SherriK20 5 pts

I think most people could care less about the logo scandal (and I am a former marketing professional who is married to a graphic designer / creative director who watches EVERY move in that world :-). I think people (and I Twitter - like it at times - other times not) like to feel like they are cool and in the know - and... they want people to know that, especially - I'm on top of it all - I know what the current trends / likes / dislikes, etc. are. Agree with you wholeheartedly. I should manage what I pay attention to, but... it is hard when you're hit with so much info. Like a lot of you here, I mostly worry about my messy house and busy kids.

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Marina DelVecchio 5 pts

I can't believe all that hoopla over a GAP logo. Seriously, there are so many more important issues to write about and be outraged about. It makes me wonder. I think it's safer to worry about the little things instead of big thins like how young girls are learning to define themselves according to media constructions of their sexuality.
Definitely more important than GAP logos. Thanks for bringing this topic of discussion up for discussion.

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

This was one of those cases that bewildered me. I get that the logo is ugly but ... (1) why should I care if a logo is ugly (if I shop there, I'm concerned about the quality of the product, not their logo) and (2) since when is it my business to choose a company's logo? They have the right to make their logo anything they want and I can vote with my wallet if it means that much to me. But it sort of feels as if we're going into someone house and screaming that we hate their wallpaper and they should have asked us before they put it up and COME ON PEOPLE, we need to organize and make our voice heard about this person's wall paper.

You see the strangeness?

I think online media is often misused. A problem with a company doesn't need to be taken public the second it happens. Problems with people should be dealt with offline. Comment on their words, comment on their actions, but the person herself? That should be dealt with offline when possible.

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Debra Roby 5 pts

Yes, I've felt the ever-growing drama and angst and become so very tired of it. I have found that my own calm requires me to unfollow some people who are constantly into the drama.

Other times, I simply use a tool like MUUTER to temporarily stop following people who use a particular hashtag.

I LOVE Twitter - or is it that I loved it? Has it evolved into something that I don't love anymore? (like too many blogs have become recently) It appeals to the drama queen - the "look-at-me" egocentric.

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denverlori 5 pts

... I love the GAP cause I have a 36" inseam and they carry XLongs for leggy gals like me. The logo, huh, SHOCKED -- ok not shocked anymore. Forge ahead gals.

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lauriewrites 5 pts

And also difficult to achieve sometimes. Group debate and activism online about certain things can be helpful and productive. It's when it's constantly knee-jerk and somewhat disproportionate to what it seems it should necessarily be that it gets out of control.

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suebob 7 pts

Damn that logo is some kind of ugly.

lauriewrites 5 pts

I'm beginning to value my mental health more than I used to -- I guess that's one of the difficult choices.

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lauriewrites 5 pts

That has been my mantra for the past few months. It's not that I never complain on Twitter, but there are people who constantly seem to skew negative, or whine, or always have a bad day. When I'm constantly reading that I find I carry it around. No good.

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BaltimoreGal 5 pts

I recently unfollowed someone because she showed a picture of a rash on her kid's butt on twitter. I learned my limit!

BaltimoreGal 5 pts

Yeah, I save my outrage for the big things, I guess. To me that = discrimination, violence, cruelty.

I deal with outrage in work and in volunteering. A lot of times when I go online I just want to laugh.

I only knew about the Gap thing because somebody changed GAP to POOP in their post. I laughed.

BaltimoreGal 5 pts

I have unfollowed a few. The everyday victims of twitter attacks or comments because of their provocative statements. Heat --> Kitchen!

Sarah 5 pts

So I should do it? I should just unfollow the drama queens? I really want to, but some of them are people I like in real life.

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Sarah 5 pts

I don't mean to be a jerk, but I am far to busy to get outraged by a logo that isn't either 1) mine or 2) seriously offensive?

Is it racist? No
Does it look like genetalia? No

So I don't care.

I am, however, outraged that my kids won't put their socks in the hamper.

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Thedomesticgoddess 5 pts

Some of us didn't notice because some of us can't actual afford to shop there and get our Gap stuff second hand at consignment and thrift stores.

Just sayin'.

But seriously! Outrage! Meh.

Domestic Engineer, Total Babe and SAHM

Angella 5 pts

There are some (many) days where Twitter alone makes me frustrated. I love my friends and I love the connection of the Internet but I'm a little tired of the Outrage Of The Week trend.

Thanks for this, Laurie.

Stimey 5 pts

Yes. I didn't quite get why everyone was so offended by the logo change. So, as I usually do, I just put my head down and kept walking. Or tweeting as it were.

I LOVED this, by the way: "the deafening noise of thousands of tweets tweeting."

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Kathryn W. 5 pts

Can I just Sparkle this like A MILLION times? As someone who is rather opinionated, I think it is very important to know the difference between "I don't like that" and "This is awful! It must be changed!" It's not really a delicate balance either.

Having said that, I have posted a status update or two that show my own lack of discernment so, I probably also a hypocrite. Eh, the first step is admitting it.

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Neil 5 pts

This perfectly showcases the underbelly of social media. We're all taught the importance of getting our information out there, of crowdsourcing, or using our influence, etc. -- but the danger is that we don't individually control that crowd, and what the crowd decides to trend on is not necessarily what any of us are thinking about at any moment, that is unless we join the crowd. Even when the subject is good -- such as your interest in education -- doesn't mean that we are all going to join you in your interest today -- we could be be focusing on gay rights or the Old Spice guy. Sometimes I wonder if social media, rather than giving everyone more of a voice, has just institutionalized the mob.

JennaHatfield 9 pts

Oh, I hear you. Loud and clear. I didn't know about Gapgate until after the fact, and really, this is the first that I've seen the new/rejected logo (which, actually, does look more appealing than what I refer to as 90's font). But I still don't care. Brands change all the time. Since my husband and I eat at restaurants so infrequently, when we make it back to one we were at a few months ago, the menu is inevitably different. Things are moved. And damn it, sometimes they don't have my favorite anymore. Woe. But I don't really start a campaign to boycott the restaurant.

There are things that I am passionate about, and I'm occasionally going to tweet/FB/blog it. But not everything. I don't have time to even register most of what is going on at any given time. I don't expect people to always get riled up and/or care about my stuff, but really I wish people would be more selective in their "cause following."

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sassymonkey 6 pts moderator

I've had it for a long time. There have been days where I just don't have the energy to look at Twitter. I love Twitter so that's saying a lot.

I just spent three weeks with my finger hovering over the "unfollow" button for someone who always seems to be outraged by something. I didn't want to unfollow them, I just could not handle the wave of negative messaging that I got from them. I immediately felt five pounds lighter when I finally clicked on that button.

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