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How Should I Respond to Blog Comments?

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One of the best ways to engage with your blogging community is to respond to reader comments. But what's the best way? Should you respond to every comment, every time? And how should you respond: within the comments or directly to the commenter? It can get confusing quickly. Luckily, there are options.

Do I need to respond to every comment?

If you're starting out or don't have a solid following yet, then my advice is to respond to as many comments as you reasonably can. Just as bloggers love to receive feedback on posts, readers like to know their opinions have been heard. If someone is taking the time to write a thoughtful comment on your post, it makes sense to acknowledge it and encourage even more comments. This can get sticky if your blog grows and you start receiving many comments on each post. At that point, you may need to re-think your comment response strategy your comment policy. Most comment policies set boundaries for rude and attacking comments or spam, but you should also set expectations of how often you will respond to comments (if at all). By setting expectations early on, readers will be more likely to understand when you can't get to everyone.

Now, having said all that, there are bloggers who don't respond to comments at all (or very rarely) and that's OK too. As readers, I encourage you not to take it personally if a blogger doesn't respond to your comment.

How should I respond to comments: via e-mail or in the comments section?

Each blogger handles commenting differently. Some respond to each comment individually via private e-mail; others respond individually within the comments section. Or, if there are recurring questions or reactions, a blogger may choose to update the post itself to address those concerns. Unfortunately, the default comment systems on most blogging platforms leave a lot to be desired. Luckily, there are work-arounds for the most common issues. Here are some plug-ins, widgets, and third-party applications you can install depending on your platform and what you want to achieve.

WordPress

  • Subscribe to Comments via Tempus Fugit allows users to subscribe to comments so they'll know whenever someone else leaves a comment on the same post. This can be helpful if comment discussion is lively and users want to have updates to the conversation sent to their inbox.
  • Comment Email Responder via Ugh!!'s Greymatter Honeypot is an easy way to send an e-mail response to the commenter and have that same response automatically show up in the comment section as well.
  • If you haven't enabled threaded comments, you can follow Kim's instructions for enabling threaded comments on your WordPress blog. (Threaded comments are when responses to a specific comment are indented and show up directly under the comment they respond to.)

TypePad

TypePad's default commenting system is fairly robust: it allows you to establish settings like whether to allow basic HTML within comments, set comment order (oldest to newest or vice versa), include userpics, etc. But if you want to include some extra functionality, you'll need to switch to TypePad Connect. Connect allows you to kick it up a notch with functionality like

  • threaded comments
  • replying to a comment via e-mail and having it show up in the commenter's e-mail box as well as the comment section of the post
  • replying to comments directly from the comments section and having it show up in the comments and also sending a copy to the commenter's e-mail box.

Blogger

Although Blogger is a great blogging platform for some and it's very malleable in many ways, its commenting feature has been a source of frustration since the beginning. To get around the lack of commenting features, many Blogger users resort to third-party software. The two most popular options are Disqus and Intense Debate.

How are you handling comments? What plug-ins are you using to make your comments more efficient and usable for you and your readers?

Melanie Nelson writes tips and instructions at Blogging Basics 101. She is also the co-author of TypePad for Dummies.

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randomosityblog 5 pts

I use blogger, and I respond to the comments in the comment box. It's probably not the best way but I want to make sure I respond to at least 90% of the comments and I don't have time to email everyone.

jennyalice 5 pts

I had some trouble with Disqus on my Blogger site, but I just installed Intense Debate.

I always felt awkward addressing comments in a large batch, so I sort of didn't address any of the comments.

Threaded comments make it easier for me to have a relationship with each reader.

Jen

www.jennyalice.blogspot.com ( http://www.jennyalice.blogspot.com )

www.CanISitWithYou.org ( http://www.CanISitWithYou.org )

planetjoshmom 5 pts

My blog is very new so I don't get that many comments yet so I am responding to every one at the moment. As I start to get more (see how optimistic I am? :P) I still plan to respond to everyone as best I can. I think I base what I do on how I feel as a commenter on other blogs or sites, it is nice to get that response.

I'm using Squarespace and so far haven't had any issues with comments or responding, it's quite easy. And with the way I have my site set up, I can see as soon as I log in (change log) if there are any new comments. Squarespace has a lot of nice admin tools, I know I can enable e-mail notification for new comments if I need/want to. I can pull up my comment management module from admin to deal with spam if I have to. I can also set permissions for commenting, and specific areas of my blog can have different permissions if I feel the need to do that. Right now I just have it set so everyone can :)

Sarah

http://planetjosh.squarespace.com

jackie12 5 pts

Based on my observation, not all blog owners find time to interact with their audience. NO doubt that this activity is very time consuming especially if he/she handles so many sites. However, it responding to blog comments is a great way to build loyal visitors of your blog.Jackie @ plus size lingerie ( http://www.plussizelingeries.org/ )

Melanie Nelson 5 pts

It really does vary by the blogger's time constraints, personality, audience, etc. And some comments are more needful of responses than others. I appreciate *all* comments-- those that say "Good post!" are just as important as the ones that open new discussion or offer additional information--but the "Good post!" doesn't leave me much to work with as far as a response. ;)

Melanie Nelson
Contributing Editor at BlogHer.com (Web/Tech)
Owner, Blogging Basics 101 ( http://www.bloggingbasics101.com )
Co-author, TypePad for Dummies

Melanie Nelson 5 pts

I haven't actually used either Disqus of Intense Debate so I can't speak to the issues or how to fix them, I'm sorry. However, I can tell you that I've heard some Blogger users say that, even with the issues, those options are more robust than the default Blogger comments.

As for putting off responding comments: Oh, my friend, I get it! I do it too. But I rarely go back to answer. I'm an introvert off-line and online. ;)

Melanie Nelson
Contributing Editor at BlogHer.com (Web/Tech)
Owner, Blogging Basics 101 ( http://www.bloggingbasics101.com )
Co-author, TypePad for Dummies

Melanie Nelson 5 pts

Vered, you are so right. As your blog grows it's harder and harder to engage with every single reader. Do you think it's better to engage with as many as possible in the beginning (with the hope that it builds community) or does that backfire later when you just can't keep up with every comment? I've seen instances where bloggers have had this happen and loyal, long-time readers become indignant as the blog grows because the blogger can't keep up and they feel slighted without a response.

It's a sticky wicket, for sure. I think as long as the blogger is engaging on some level in the comments, setting expectations (e.g., via a policy), and being polite then that's really the best you can do. ;) Some readers will always feel a little put off if they are not directly engaged, but, realistically, that's just not always possible.

{Also, I realize this wasn't really an answer to what you were saying; I started diatribing.}

Melanie Nelson
Contributing Editor at BlogHer.com (Web/Tech)
Owner, Blogging Basics 101 ( http://www.bloggingbasics101.com )
Co-author, TypePad for Dummies

Melanie Nelson 5 pts

Comments have always been Blogger's biggest downfall, in my opinion. Disqus and Intense Debate are not without their issues either, but the feedback I hear is that they are better than what Blogger offers.

Melanie Nelson
Contributing Editor at BlogHer.com (Web/Tech)
Owner, Blogging Basics 101 ( http://www.bloggingbasics101.com )
Co-author, TypePad for Dummies

JChandler 5 pts

There is no doubt this could become particularly hard as the blog gains more exposure but in general, I respond. (To the comments and sometimes via email if someone has taken a more personal approach.)

It is truly about inclusion. I read once:
"A blog is only as good as the people who read it," Katie Saddlemire - Huffington Post.

I see it as properly managing my blog and showing respect to readers. If someone takes the time to respond to what I have to say, it is my way of showing my appreciation.

This by no means implies everyone should handle their blog that way. Time, energy and interest, among many other factors, may dictate differently.

Thank you for the information.

hobomama 5 pts

I know as a reader I appreciate responses, whether on the post or in email. I tend to put off responding for too long, mostly because it is kind of unwieldy in Blogger. I wish I could hit a "reply" function for just one or two of the ones that really need a response right then. As it is, when I'm typing several responses in a row after having put it off for forever, I then feel like I need to respond to absolutely everybody.

The thing is, I did a poll awhile back and was surprised at how few people subscribe to comment updates. So it turns out that most of them aren't seeing my clever little responses anyway.

I've been considering installing IntenseDebate but am nervous about some glitches people have had, and the fact that my two customer service emails to them so far have gone unanswered. I have hope that Blogger will improve its commenting soon. How soon, I don't know, but I have hope.

www.HoboMama.com ( http://www.HoboMama.com ) | A baby for a bindle

Vered 5 pts

Comment policy changes as your blog grows and changes. I used to answer every comment, now I just respond once or twice in a comment thread becuase of lack of time.

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Vered DeLeeuw

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Shannon Des Roches Rosa 5 pts

Bah, Blogger! I get email alerts for comments, otherwise they would be lost. I should probably install one of the programs you suggested, but I already feel like my blog is held together with spit and masking tape, and am hesitant to attach yet another module.

I just wrote about circumstances under which I do not engage with commenters, and it boils down to those who are disingenuous, jerkwads, or both:

http://www.squidalicious.com/2010/05/when-someone-...

Your guidelines are helpful - wish I'd had them in 2003 when I started!

Shannon Des Roches Rosa
Squidalicious.com ( http://www.squidalicious.com ) parenting first, autism second
CanISitWithYou.org ( http://www.canisitwithyou.org ) real tales of schoolyard terror and triumph