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I Am Thankful My Daughter Is In Prison

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Tiffany and Ethan At The PrisonWhen I tell people my daughter Tiffany is in prison, I normally get an "Oh....I'm so sorry".  I just respond, "Don't be sorry. It's OK....I'm thankful Tiff's in prison." That usually earns me an odd look.

But it's true.

I am very thankful for those weekly 100 mile round trips to the prison to sit in a visiting room crowded with inmates, some who have committed truly unthinkable crimes.

I am very thankful for those phone calls from Tiffany that always seem to come when I am busy doing something else or just don't feel like talking.

I am very thankful for those insane conversations about how bad things are in prison or how weird her "cellee" is.

I am very thankful she was pregnant when she was arrested.

I am very thankful she is in prison so I can now raise  my other grandson Keelen.

I am very thankful she got 70 months.

I can hear it now. "Girl...you have lost your freakin' mind! How can you be thankful for that?"

Well....every week I get see my daughter. I get to hug her and give her a kiss and I get to watch Keelen play games and read stories with his mom.

I get talk to Tiffany almost every night on the phone and Keelen gets to tell his mom about his day.

I get to watch Tiffany grow from a "wannabe" street thug into the amazing woman that I always knew she was with no interest in a life of crime.

I got to watch Tiffany give birth to a healthy baby boy, my second grandchild Ethan and in a selfless act of love give him to an amazing deserving adoptive couple that will raise him to know both his moms.

I know that Keelen is safe and well cared for and gets to have a relationship with both his mom and dad.

It is going to take the full 70 months for Tiffany to break this destructive cycle of drugs and unhealthy men. Plus the brains behind this crime got 136 months. And if the person he assaulted had died, Tiffany could be doing life!! So...WOO HOO only 70 months!!

There are many many parents with children who were traveling down the same path as Tiffany. And they now have to visit their children in the cemetery. So, yes...I am very thankful Tiffany is in prison.

What are you thankful for?

Happy Thanksgiving

Debbie

The photo above is Tiffany and Ethan on a visit at the prison. 

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DebbieGametFlack 5 pts

My daughter is in county jail and looking at prison time.  I just feel so lost, like I should be doing something but I have no idea what to do.  She has been in jail a little over 3 weeks now, and I went to see her today and all I did was cry, it was the first time I cried since this whole mess started! She had been living on the streets, doing meth, heroin, what ever, drinking.  I had been trying to talk her into going to a long term treatment facility and she would agree but never go.  Now I am kind of kicking myself for not dragging her butt to treatment, but then I think well that would of just pissed her off and she would of walked out! I feel like I have no one to talk to, have no idea what I can do, if I should do anything at all! Just lost!  BUT.. I am grateful that she is in jail because otherwise she would be dead! It's just a jumbled mess of feelings!

misskat7 5 pts

My daughter is in prison too and like you I worried myself sick not knowing of her whereabouts.Or if she was even alive.She lost 3 beautiful sons to wonderful families and I am raising the oldest 1 he is 15 he is a precious youngman and I would be lost without him.So I understand where you are coming from God bless you and your family, Kathy

Ms Sparky 5 pts

I had always believed that I had unconditional love for my husband. But if you think about it...that's not true. There are things we just will not tolerate from our partners. 

I never knew true unconditional love until my daughter was a troubled teen. True unconditional love doesn't always mean agreeing or condoning. It just means loving. That's what she's taught me. 

Ms Sparky

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Wilma Ham 5 pts

I don't know what it took to write so beautifully about what has happened to your daughter and you.
I can only imagine the courage, honesty and the amount of love it took.

If we could live life in this spirit when life throws this at us, we cannot but go towards a better place.

This is so what thanksgiving is about.

Thank you,

Wilma Ham

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Ms Sparky 5 pts

I can not even count the sleepless nights worrying about Tiffany on the streets. I never slept so well as when she got arrested and I knew she was safe.

Happy Thanksgiving

Ms Sparky

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cliopatra 5 pts

I can understand where you are coming from.  Currently my mom is out on the streets and prison would be the best place for her.

Happy Thanksgiving. 

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