I DON'T EXPECT PEOPLE TO BE PERFECT......BUT........The Stupid Stuff People Do....

 

I DON’T EXPECT PEOPLE TO BE PERFECT………BUT……

I really don’t look for perfection at all in others….so before you say I do….I would like to tell you that I don’t….I think most people are pretty good although very imperfect and I normally don’t have a problem with that at all. I learn to navigate past a person’s flaws and embrace their good points…..That is a great skill I have….Am I perfect at it….? No, I am not…but I do pretty well at getting the best of others while avoiding their not so perfect personality flaws…..

I have to say there are people that I simply don’t want to be around….not even a little…..It has nothing to do with imperfections…..It has to do with something bigger than that…..Who a person truly is……Although I believe that everyone has a good side to them….everyone…..sometimes we have to look a bit harder to find it….And yet, I feel some people simply live their life in a way that I don’t want any part of….

How do I make the judgment of who is who? Well, in the beginning it is not always easy. I would like to tell you that I can spot a con right from the start….or pick out a major (can’t live with) personality flaw……I am good, but not that good where I am always right….I do have a good sense about people….about who is who. Sort of my gift, I guess…..I pretty much get a spiritual feel about a person when I meet them…..or even when I get to know them over the internet….but some I miss….

I got to thinking this morning about “Stupid Stuff” that people do to mess up their lives…….Stuff that is unnecessary and should not happen….except for that some people just simply choose to make stupid decisions that totally could have been avoided…..

There are enough real problems in life without creating unnecessary havoc….but try telling this to people who create the stupid stuff in their lives day in and day out through “stupid” decisions…….Real problems are problems most people cannot directly avoid….Things like sickness that came at no fault of their own…..Financial problems not due to poor decisions…but simply things happening out of a person’s control such as being laid off……Yes, there are so many real problems in life that I cannot imagine what or why a person would want to create extra havoc in life when there doesn’t need to be…..

Sometimes I think people simply get bored and rather than create something meaningful and lasting….they take the low road and create havoc….not just in their own lives….but in the lives of others as well…..I think the people who do this do not believe they are capable of creating anything good and lasting in their lives so they live life creating mess ups everywhere they go…..Perhaps some don’t have the life skills to see what they are doing, although I do find that is usually not the case. I think most are aware that they are living a careless life which results in creating havoc…..

I simply don’t like to be around people who live life carelessly or creating unnecessary havoc….Stupid stuff in life is generated by people who simply are not thinking before they do……Smart people think before they make even the smallest of decisions….for often our small decisions create large results over time…..Most Stupid Stuff People tend to have bad daily habits that lead to bad results…..Smart people have great habits that overall lead to the good places they want to go….

I simply do my best at avoiding stupid stuff people if I can…..That is not always possible….but if I can I do…..I prefer to hang around with people making great decisions for both their lives and the lives of others……Stupid Stuff people are best to be avoided…..

We all have things that we simply cannot tolerate in another….no matter how nice they may be otherwise….And I have my list of things too…..We all do…..Most people, as said…I do allow at some level in my life….maybe not up close and personal but at least I can be friendly…..but there are others I simply keep total distance from when possible….Some people simply are not right for my life…..

Yes, I don’t expect people to be perfect, but……

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