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I Run, But Does That Mean I'm a Runner?

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How many days/weeks/months do you have to run before you feel comfortable saying, “I am a runner?” I started running this past January. It wasn’t a New Year’s resolution or anything -- it was simply something I’d been planning to start for a while (I had, in fact, been talking about it for months), and I’d recently moved to an area where I felt comfortable running outside.

January may not seem like an optimal time of year to begin running outdoors, but the weather was still fairly pleasant in northern Virginia at the time. A few weeks later when it started getting colder, I acquired a pair of running gloves and a stretchy head wrap that covered my ears and kept the wind from rushing in. That, however, has been the extent of any running-specific accessories I’ve bought. No stopwatch; no fancy heart-rate monitor; no special clothes to wick the sweat away from my body. (I already had a pair of running shoes that I got last year...which reminds me, I really need to get a new pair.)

Even though I run, I still hesitate to call myself a runner. I don’t feel like I’ve done enough to deserve that title. I run on sidewalks, and I’m still glad for that 5-10 second break I get sometimes when I have to pause at a stoplight. I’ve never run in a race. (In fact, my older sister started running regularly not long after I did, and she’s already signed up for a 6k that’s taking place next month.)

I don’t have anything against running in a formal setting. I guess I’m just not one of those people who care about their time, like, “I can run a mile in 7 minutes” (or whatever a really good running time might be). I think I’ll probably end up participating in some kind of running event at some point. But I’m not in any rush.

The thing is, right now I run because I enjoy it. The reason I’m not formally training, or striving to increase my time or distance, is because I’m having fun. I really don’t have a desire to go outside for long periods of time and run for miles and miles in preparation for a marathon. I want to keep enjoying this activity for as long as I can, so if that means I go running a few days after work for 45 minutes to clear my head, and sometimes on the weekends, and sometimes just whenever, then that’s what I’ll continue to do.

I've noticed progress, of course. I can run for longer distances now without stopping than I used to be able to. I saw that I was making it home in a shorter period of time, so I extended my running route to include circling around a park. Sometimes I'll even go outside with the sole intention of taking a walk, but suddenly I’ll feel like I’m going too slow and I’ll start running instead. I like when that happens.

I’m not the only one who questions how much they have to run, or how dedicated they have to be, to think of themselves as a runner. I think many people would agree that if you only run a mile every month or so, you might not be qualified to say, "I'm a runner." But what if you never run on a consistent basis, but you have the stamina to go for, say, 10 miles without stopping? Are you a runner then? Or are you just someone who has the ability to run?

Comrade GoGo asks herself these questions, too.

In 2001, I ran 26.2 miles in Chicago at about a 12-mile-per-hour pace. I had trained six long months in New York City for that day in early October.

And still, if you had asked me, I would not have called myself a runner. [...]

I was a runner but I never gave myself credit for any of it. It wasn’t just physical hard work; it was also a major mental and social challenge. [...]

What does it take to be a runner? Well, you have to run, and you have to keep at it. There’s no speed qualifier for that.

Christie says, "Once a runner, always a runner."

I am a runner even though I've only run once in 4 weeks and only a handful of times this entire year. The reason I

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Alix Shutello 5 pts

Someone once told me that the first time I ran a marathon, I'd become a "marathoner."

Well I don't feel much like a marathoner but I know I am a runner - why? Because it's my main form of exercise. I

Zandria - you run, you've made progress, and you enjoy the sport. That alone, means you are a runner. Why not right?

I hope one day I can enjoy the title of triathlete!

Alix J. Shutello
www.runnersillustrated.com

Zandria 5 pts

I guess it wouldn't make sense to call yourself a runner after just a few weeks, or a skier after only haven been several times. But once you continue with it (and yes, that includes blogging), you tend to feel like you "deserve" the title a little more. :)

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Vered 5 pts

The first season I skied, I told people "I ski".

The second season, I said I was "a skier". I was still very much a beginner, but I felt like a skier and I knew I loved it and would stick with it.

Just occurred to me: I've been blogging for 3 months now, yet I don't consider myself a blogger. But when my boss put together a document for our company and added my bio, he wrote, among other things, "a writer and a blogger". It was REALLY weird to see that.

So, this is true not just for sports.

I completely agree about self-identifying. Once you think of youyrself a certain way, this is all that matters. Sometimes you will be ready to define yourself as an "-er" before everyone else does; sometimes they will be quicker to identify you.

Vered DeLeeuw
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Zandria 5 pts

I'm glad I'm enjoying it, too, and that's why I don't want to push myself to do it to such an extent that it starts becoming a chore.

Good for you with the walking!

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TCMom 5 pts

I love how you are running for the sake of enjoyment. That it is simply fun. And you aren't forcing yourself to run b/c you have some other goal. I think that is very impressive. I agree, you're a runner!

(I can relate on a different level. A few weeks back, I started walking every night, fast. I just wanted the time to myself and to feel good. Its been amazing. I have no goals in particular, I just want to walk and look forward to it every day!)

Caroline

http://morningsidemom.wordpress.com/

felicepd 5 pts

A fall race could be perfect for you. You could find one and sign up for it and then you would have something to work toward, too.

Watch out for that heat and humidity. When I was new to running, I made a lot of mistakes running in the heat -- like  running too fast (for me!) because my muscles warmed up so quickly and felt good.  

Good luck!

Felice

The Little Jobber  ( http://felicepd.wordpress.com )

Zandria 5 pts

I think I'd feel more like a "real" runner if I did something more formal than just running by myself, too. I'll have to look into that. (Once the weather cools down a little, that is. Running in the heat and humidity is NOT FOR ME...) :)

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Zandria 5 pts

I read some blog posts by people who were former runners who still thought of themselves as runner as well. So you're not alone! :)

As for self-identifying? I like that! (As long as I'm not being delusional...for instance, I won't go around referring to myself as a marathoner...or a millionaire, for that matter...) :)

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felicepd 5 pts

You are a runner. You say you run because you enjoy it -- I'd say that is the best reason of all and one that certainly qualifies you as a runner.

My advice to you is go and find a race to run. I've been a runner for years (not a fast runner nor a runner who logs tons of miles -- just a runner) and I still get nervous and excited before a race. Crossing the finish line -- regardless of your time -- can pump you up like nothing else. There are some super women-only races out there and those tend to be very welcoming. Actually, most races are welcoming so, think about it! They are so much fun!

-- Felice

The Little Jobber  ( http://felicepd.wordpress.com )

Kristen McLane 5 pts

The wonderful thing about participating in a race is that you get to see the running community at large.  Runners come in all size, shapes and abilities.  Yes, you are a runner. 

Denise 9 pts moderator

I used to run and be a runner. But I haven't run in years and find it difficult to let go of the "runner" label.

I either need to run again or just let go for goodness sakes.

So along with, when can you call yourself a runner - when should you stop calling yourself a runner? ;-)

In all seriousness, I'm all for "self-identifying" and to hell with others who don't see you the way that you see yourself.

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager

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