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Directly inspired by the woman whose hair I am most envious of in the entire world, Maggie Mason, I'm writing my own Mighty Life List. Or I could call it Things I'd Like to Try Before I Kick It, or Cool Things That I Always Forget I Want To Do Because the World is So Full of Amazing People, Places, Events but I Have to Go to Work Today, but those were a little clunky. So instead I'm just going to call it my Bravely Obey in Action List. I think, like many people, it is incredibly easy for me to get stuck in the routines and daily activities that make up such a huge percentage of my life. I like my life, but those routines can get a little dull. This year I want to make a concerted and thoughtful effort to think beyond emptying the dishwasher and finishing that report. I want to think about and do new things, test myself and explore the world more. So the list will help remind me when it's 20 degrees and gray outside, that there is so much out there beyond my warm little house. The list will help rouse me when I feel dull and Midwestern and 30-something. Plus it's just fun to daydream and then figure out how to make those things happen. And I want more fun.
On a side note, I thought the five minutes I saw of the Bucket List were awful, so I refuse to label my list that way. Yeah, I'm a movie snob. As my brother in law would say, "but you liked the Virgin Suicides?" Label your list however you choose certainly, but this is not a Bucket List, because in my head you might as well call it that Horrible Piece of Shit Corny Old Dude Movie List. And that's an awful name for my very charming list. So let's dive into this work in progress:
1. Travel to Paris, visit a mind-boggling number of museums and then collapse and order pate, smelly cheese and baguette while relaxing at a sidewalk cafe.
2. Brush up on my French and Spanish, seriously brush up.
3. Become a parent, either carry my own or adopt.
4. Get my esty shop up and running, actually stocked with my wares.
5. Buy some fantastic antique brooches and wear them more often.
6. Visit Egypt, but not just the pyramids.
7. Swim with dolphins.
8. Write a book, possibly fiction, possibly nonfiction, I don't know yet.
9. Take a beach vacation with extended family and friends. Big house, close to the water, lots of noise, lots of kids, lots of sunscreen.
10. Travel to West Africa again, with Joe and possible future child, spend lots of time in villages and buy more art from local artisans.
11. Have my own library room in my house, complete with overloaded bookshelves and a comfy window seat.
12. Design a garden with plantings for each season.
13. Create new jewelry designs with materials I haven't used before.
14. Clean, organize and repaint our basement for extra space and to cushion the pain of doing laundry.
15. Cook a complete meal from the Lidia's cookbook we've had for six years.
16. Develop a better relationship with my mother.
17. Take an international vacation for our 10th wedding anniversary.
18. Visit that Matisse church in France.
19. Travel to each of the 50 states, I've got North Dakota, Minnesota,Washington, Montana, Oregon, South and North Carolina, Alaska and Hawaii left.
20. Renovate and decorate a roomy old 60's ranch house into an eclectic, colorful oasis.
21. See Rilo Kiley, Modest Mouse and Cake in concert. And the Pixies, but that one is a little harder.
22. Go on a random unstructured road trip and visit lots of these places
23. and the Garden of Eden.
24. Pack a picnic lunch and relax outside all day.
25. Go skydiving.
26. Attend a black tie gala for one of my favorite nonprofits.
27. Take more photos.
28. Figure out my religious beliefs by attending different services and churches. Not just Christian.
29. Reach my goal weight.
30. Walk 10
