If your son invites you to a concert... go!
Mother's Day gift this year? A cross country flight to visit my son at college. He was a fun and gracious host, enthusiastically introducing me to roommates, friends and teachers. Best part? Front-row seat at his a cappella concert. The music was magical and brought me to tears. So if you get an invite to visit your adult child's world... go for it. Here is a taste of what I so richly enjoyed: http://voqel.com/i/1891