I'm a survivor...some important life lessons

I tell you these stories not only to demonstrate how awesome my family is, but for two reasons.  First, to demonstrate how important knowledge of your family medical history can be.

I'm thankful for the beach.  It's truly where I'm the happiest.

Both siblings had a cancer diagnosis, which is certainly telling that it can run in the family.  Sure, this could be a coincidence, but based upon other family history, I suspect it is not.

Second, this story demonstrates the importance of enjoying each moment and cherishing those around you.  We don't know what tomorrow will bring, and all we can do is live for today.  Enjoy every possible moment with your loved ones.

Enjoy your pets, the taste of a good dinner and the fresh air outside.  Soak in every wonderful moment of life, as you never know what the future could bring.

I'm grateful for my husband.  He's been the most amazing and understanding person and I couldn't go through this without him.  I'm thankful for my family, who knows and understands what I'm going through, and is always there to support me.

I'm grateful for my friends.  Although only those closest to me know my struggles, I'm overwhelmed with the support they've shown.  My dearest friends show support and love everyday, from going with me for frozen yogurt to just sitting with me when I need that.

photo credit: h.koppdelaney via photopin cc
photo credit: h.koppdelaney via photopin cc

I'm grateful for my dogs, as they have been the best snuggle buddies a girl could ever ask for.  I'm grateful for my employer, who has been nothing short of amazing with me taking time off.

I'm also thankful for each of you.  Knowing you enjoy reading what I write is so rewarding. There's nothing better than when someone tells me my writing made their day.  If you've ever done that, allow me to say thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Maybe this random post is just to encourage you to enjoy your life, pay attention to those people and things that matter, and forget the rest.  Life is too short to get caught up in trivial things that don't matter.  It's not worth your time or your energy.

I'd like to think that when I pass, my eulogy won't be about how I was a lawyer, worked hard, and made a good life for myself.  I'd like to think it will be about how I lived my life for every moment and how I saw the humor in situations.

I'm taking that advice now, and will move forward with smiles and laughter.  Fortunately, I have amazing people who will help make that happen.  I encourage all of you to do the same.

Now go download Christina Aguilera.

Lisa Newlin Embarrassing myself so you don't have to. You're welcome. http://lisanewlin.com

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