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Inn-Expensive Accomodations: Bed and Breakfasts

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Pssst ... come closer, and I'll tell you the secret to saving money on a vacation this summer while guaranteeing that you'll have at least three blog posts from the experience.

Bed and Breakfast.

Mature woman with cereal bowl in bed smiling, portrait, close-up

I know! I never thought of going the bed-and-breakfast route (or B&Bs, as they're often called) either, until ten years ago when I took my first trip with my now-husband. We had been dating for six months and decided to road trip up to the Maritimes in Canada. We set up hotels along the way, but were having such a great time on Prince Edward Island that we decided to stay an extra night on a different part of the island. There were no hotel vacancies in the area, but the visitor's center connected us with a bed and breakfast.

Bed and Breakfast inns can range from personal homes which have a room or two for rent, to larger operations that have separate living quarters for the proprietors and numerous rooms for guests. How bed and breakfast inns differ from hotels is similar to how a small liberal arts school differs from a state college. The smaller size of an inn allows the owner to give guests personal attention, and there is an emphasis on guests socializing with each other at a communal breakfast.

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Our first bed and breakfast was an wonderful experience, and we've been chasing similar results for the last ten years with some hits and a lot of misses. But while our hotel misses have simply been exercises in frustration, our bed and breakfast misses have at least yielded good blog fodder.

Take for instance the Moravians, a kindly old couple who tried to convert us before our morning coffee near Kentuck Knob. Or the Yarmouth woman who gave us a twenty minute montage of her life in one breath -- from a Barbary ape who stole her wallet to her husband's cement-pouring business.

Sometimes our misses were also our hits, like Steve's inn in Pennsylvania. One month during fertility treatments, our cycle was canceled because my estrogen levels were too high. Josh wanted to get me out of town for the weekend, so we picked a place off the Internet, a countryside inn by the Delaware River promising us a gorgeous farm and Steve and John's hospitality.

When we got to Steve's inn, I was depressed and withdrawn, frustrated about the canceled cycle and another missed month. I was annoyed that Steve was so chatty, holding us in the living room with his life story when all I wanted to do was curl up on our bed and cry for the entire weekend (see, I am a fun travel partner!). But somewhere in the fourth hour of hearing stories from Steve's love life, my mood changed. Josh had long since ditched us to read a book, and he returned to me earnestly giving Steve advice on his current relationship (a no-goodnik boyfriend who belittled Steve when he swung by the bed and breakfast to drop off something in the middle of our conversation). I may have started out annoyed by Steve's chattiness, but he saved our weekend, gave me a new perspective, and most importantly, energy to start the next cycle.

What? Blog fodder isn't enough of a reason to try out a bed and breakfast? Then what about the money saved? They cost comparatively less than other hotels. For instance, a typical bed and breakfast in the Dupont Circle area of Washington, D.C. (a popular area to stay in the city) runs from $90-$175 a night, whereas most hotels in the same area begin at over $200. And yes, a quick Google search does show many bed and breakfast options in New York City close to where the conference is being held (just in case you were stressing about hotel rates) for as low as $109 per night.

Bed and breakfast inns also provide personal touches, such as custom-made breakfasts, advice about the area and sometimes DVD and book libraries for guest usage. It feels like you are staying at the home of a friend, rather than an impersonal hotel. Conversations with the proprietors have brought us information that has made each

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

Another good point--the historic home vs. the impersonal, boring hotel.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

IsleDance 5 pts

I love connecting with and learning about others while traveling - such fun! B&B's are great ways to do this. I think they're extra fun when they're an historic home located within a small town. It's sweet walking distance to everything going on!

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

I was a big fan of hostels in college and grad school, but some (not all) have an age limit and I'm above it.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 5 pts

That's a good point; they do work much better for shorter stays.

And it was the same town. That first B&B on PEI was strangely enough in Sassymonkey's hometown and she even knew the restaurant the proprietor sent us to for dinner.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 5 pts

Er...yeah...I forgot about that part. But, some of best ones that we've been to we've also had all to ourselves while we were there.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

sfaithj 5 pts

by getting a private room in a backpackers/hostel. they are usually around 40 us dollars a night for a private room and have the added bonus of access to a kitchen so you can make your own food and save even more money. backpackers vary from being fabulous, clean and up to date to a little rough around the edges so make sure you look up reviews first and plan ahead:

hostelworld.com

in general, hosteling international hostels are clean, safe, spacious and up to date.

http://www.hihostels.com/

or how about staying for free?

couchsurfing.com

sassymonkey 6 pts moderator

Based on a conversation we had recently, I think Melissa's first B&B experience was in my home town. It's a small, small world people.

We stay at B&B's on our drive to and from the Maritimes but when we're in PEI we tend to stay in housekeeping units and/or rent a cottage. Because I'm from there I find it nicer than having the, "Oh! You're so and so's daughter/niece/sister/granddaughter." Or, "You must of went to school with [enter the name of someone I do not remember here.]"

I love them, but prefer them for one or two night stays versus longer ones. They are great for weekends away.

Though Deb is right, breakfast can be a bit awkward sometimes. Even without the concerns she pointed out, I am so not ready for small talk with or before breakfast.

Contributing Editor Sassymonkey also blogs at Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.ca ).

Deb Rox 5 pts

I don't enjoy B & B's as a rule --though meeting people like Steve is fun -- but my barrier is that I don't enjoy eating crumpets with strangers at breakfast who have recently heard my sex moan. You know, except if they were actually involved with creating it. Oh yes = oh no... :)

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