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What Red Flags do you look for when starting a new relationship? 
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In this day and age dating is tough. The amount of effort that goes into a new relationship is exhausting, the grooming, the elaborate date plans, and the investment of all that emotional energy hoping he's the one is exhausting.

When determining if you should let things get serious, remember: actions speak louder than words. Whether you are currently in the dating scene or have been with that
special someone for as long as you can remember, we all have our own
set of warning signs.

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