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This Isn't Your Grandma's Christian Blog

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One of the blogs I read regularly is “Stuff Christians Like” by Jonathan Acuff, who has recently published a book by the same name. Inspired by Christian Lander’s blog, “Stuff White People Like,” SCL takes a satirical look at “the funny things we Christians do. And what they just might reveal about our faith.”

Woman with a wooden crucifix

Last month, Acuff asked his readers to share what they thought were the best Christian blogs. Some of the responses were the names of (relatively, in the Christian blogging community) high-profile blogs, some were of much smaller blogs, and several were flat-out self-promotions. It probably won’t surprise you, but not one of them was my blog.

And yes, I am the type of person to get my big, fat feelings twinged about something like that, and no, I have no reason to think I would ever really make a “best Christian blogs” list. But the more I think about why my blog would stay off these lists, the less I feel slighted. In fact, I even came up with a dumb little poem about it:

There’s a difference between
A Christian blog
And a blog by a Christian.
I have a Christian blog
As much as I have a Christian kitchen.

I have realized that no matter how well written this blog is -- and that is always my first goal -- it will never be a “best Christian blog” because it is not a “Christian blog.” It is not a blog devoted to Christian topics. It’s a blog by a writer devoted to Christ. And that writer may or may not be in the mood to write about grace, feeling flabby, hope, getting pissed at alligator pool floats, love, raising children to not be as shitty as she is, peace or resisting the urge to get a dead-sexy tan.

I remember my pastor Rob talking once about using our gifts to glorify God by using them as well as we can. He said that if he were to have surgery, he would want his surgeon to be diligently focused on his work, not lost in prayer with a scalpel dangling in his hand. And that’s what I try to do every time I sit down to write. I begin with a prayer of thanks for my gift and I ask God to help me use it to glorify Him, and then I write as well as I possibly can. Sometimes this comes in the form of talking openly about my Christian faith, and sometimes it comes in the form of bitching about getting stupid email forwards. I know there are those who would disagree, but I believe that God is glorified not just by my subject matter but by my execution of it as well.

That said, I do believe it is possible to write an excellent Christian blog. Ann Voskamp’s “Holy Experience” is one of the best examples I can think of. Her writing is as gorgeous as her photography, and she is genuinely lovely because she is filled with genuine love. Her blog touches the hearts of many Christians, and this is a truly valuable and good thing. But it is not my thing. I hope my writing touches the hearts of Christians, and I also hope it touches the hearts of people who find it by searching online, “how to tell if boobs are fake,” which, alarmingly, is a daily occurrence. I hope that sometimes it makes people cry, but I hope that it mostly makes people laugh. I hope it makes people want to read.

Acuff asked his readers, “What are the Christian blogs you find most uplifting or honest or funny or a million other things?” And I love his choice of adjectives because they are the ones most often in my mind when I go to write: I try to give you pieces that are uplifting, or honest, or funny. But mostly, I try to give you something great to read. Because I’m a Christian who writes a blog.

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carrien 5 pts

So now I'm clicking over to check out your blog because I would rather read a writer who is a Christian than a "Christian Writer" any day. :)

My Ex- Life 5 pts

So am I. Love the way you put that. I write about many different things too. I know my Christian friends or acquaintances wonder why everything I write isn't spiritual but that isn't what my blog is about, its about life. I believe God is involved in every aspect of my life but He's given me the freedom to write about some things other than Him.Guess what? That's ok

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Miss Capri 5 pts

Heh, I've used 'damn' to show just how desperately ticked off I get about things, but that's very rare...which means if I'm provoked to that point, it's deadly serious. At work one day this past week, someone was so upset with the way one of her classes performed that she sat them down for a stern talking-to, and when she said "Holy - crap!" I got the distinct feeling she was just dying to say something else.

Miss Capri 5 pts

Hi. I am also a Christian who does a bit of blogging and mostly Youtubing, fiction-writing and sounding off and debunking chain forwards, often making myself laugh into the bargain. And I'm really impressed with your attitude in this post.

gardengirl62160 5 pts

Vey well put! I am also a Christian who plans to write a blog...not a "Christian" blog though!

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

Right, we're supposed to be engaging the world, not hiding in our own little corner!

sherry4home 5 pts

Confessions of a Random Blogger ( http://www.sherry4home.wordpress.com )

Great post! I am also a "Christian blogger" who is trying to figure out where my blog is going.

I think it is interesting that Christians try to carve out their own little corner instead of engaging the world as a whole. It is better to be honest about your thoughts, feelings, and experiences than to constantly put on the mask of spirituality.

Sherry

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I think your question about my choice of language is fair, and it's one I've dealt with on my blog before.

When I write, I am careful to choose the words that I feel best convey my message. Occasionally, these are words that some people consider foul. I am not casual with these or any other words-- I use them intentionally because they are, in those occasions, the best words for conveying what I want to say.

For example, in this post I use "shitty" to describe the kind of person I desperately do not want my children to be. I could have used "bad" or "crappy" (and even some would object to that word as well), but the desperation and severity would have been lost, and I am unwilling to compromise my writing like that.

If you'd like a more in-depth explanation, you can read my post explaining my language choices here: http://tamaraoutloud.wordpress.com/2010/02/20/pott...

Hijadeunrey 5 pts

I know I know alot are going to say "Judging" sometimes when your really not, only when you hear something you dont agree with you say "your judging" I am christian, I also have a blog, All my writing is not always about God sometimes it's complete randomness (of course some topics are out of the question) But why do you use foul language? Sorry im pentecostel when I hear someone say im Christian and use language or do things God wouldent like you to do or say I ask (I know). If your not christian I dont bother asking cause it wouldent make a difference. Using the title Christian is one thing. Being one, is totally different. God Bless you Jesus loves you!

julianmarble 5 pts

I strongly agree that there's a difference to
"A Christian blog" and "And a blog by a Christian". I am a blogger want to write about examples of religion ( http://www.examplesof.com/religion/ ) and a christian blog. Thanks for your posting

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I've found that writing my life, my honest thoughts, my un-cleaned up version of the truth *does* draw in readers (okay, maybe not "in the millions"), and I think that half the reason is the openness. The other half is committing to excellence, no matter the subject.

Wander 7 pts

I'm glad you said that! I'm a Christian and I blog. What I write is my life. It's not meant to draw in the millions (and fatten my bloggy wallet).
I just hope to inspire someone (anyone) to live a life that honors Christ. I'm so far from perfect and I know I'm not the only one....so why not write about it?

I've visited so many blogs.....and I think Ann Voskamp's is the real thing!
I want to be real too!

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I've felt the same about not being a "mommy blogger" even though, as you said, I do write within the context of being a mom. I like the idea of writing within our own contexts but not being rigidly defined by them.

victorias_view 214 pts moderator

They make the best christians! I look forward to reading more of your work!

Funkidivagirl 5 pts

Yes, I can relate. I am a Christian and while I wouldn't call myself a "Christian Blogger", I do write about my faith from time to time. The same as I am a mother, but I'm not a "Mommy Blogger" because I write about mostly other things (although sometimes within the context of being a mother). And I'm not a "Multicultural Blogger" or "Blogger of Color", but I do write about diversity/race/multiculturalism often because that's who I am.

Keep it funki.

Funkidivagirl.com

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I think sharing real life is a wonderful way to preach.

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

That was gorgeous to read-- thank you for sharing.

Ramblings of a Woman 5 pts

It was great to come across this post. I am a Christian, and I write a blog for women over the age of 40. I intentionally do not make it too preachy, as I want to reach out to all. I have been going thru a tough period in my life dealing with depression, among others things, and I feel I am reaching women of all walks and faiths. I do talk about God and my walk and include scripture, but again, I try to make it 'real life' and not preachy, if that makes sense!

Bernice AKA Ramblings of a Woman

http://bernicewood.wordpress.com

Jett 5 pts

For several years I wrote with a group of other bloggers cinched up under the heading of The Decablog. None of our blogs were Christian blogs, but they were all blogs written by Christians. We were always savvy to this distinction. The subject matter across The Deca was very broad and ran the gamut from comic books to dealing with addiction. The ten of us were as different as night and day, save for overlapping interests here and there and our redemption by Christ.

In my eleven years using a self-publishing platform, my audience has gotten to see just about every aspect of my personality. They have witnessed the angry, ugly me and the tender, wanting me. My readership consists of pagans, atheists, agnostics, Christians, Jews. I'm okay with someone's beliefs not reconciling with my own, as long as they are willing to extend me the same courtesy; I think we all have a lot to teach one another in these matters. My faith is a comfort to me, not something to club others with. I do write about it from time to time, about the way that I love God and the fashion in which His love for me is an absolute; I believe it's received well overall. Were it not, I would still write about it. I've been afforded a handful of good opportunities to speak about God intimately to individuals online over the years, and I'm extremely thankful for those.

I'm prone to a good f-bomb, because I believe that in the big scheme of things, Jesus would rather I clench my fists and scream "FUUUUUCK!" than wrap my hands around someone's throat and choke the living daylights out of their ignorant ass. Still, I'm pretty sure I'm going to be called into account on that one day; He and I just have bigger things to work on first. >:o)

When people remark on my writing, I do remember to praise God for it, because he made me really good at something I very much enjoy doing. He could have made me the greatest ditch digger on the planet; I don't think I would like to do that so much as I like to play with the language. I too believe that "...God is glorified not just by my subject matter but by my execution of it as well," but I've never been able to frame it up so well as you did with that handful of words there. Everything in me sang when read that, so thank you.

BLESSINGS TO YOU!

Alphabet Junkie ( http://www.alphabetjunkie.com )

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I think it's beautiful that you praise God just for allowing you to read this. We'd all be so much happier if we were constantly grateful for even the small things.

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I'm honored to be added to your list- thank you!

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

A certain "Christian" group who always pops up in the media comes to mind, calling themselves Christians but spewing hate.

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I think it's great that you realize that "just who you are" is exactly who God made you to be and that He takes pride in His handiwork.

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

Using our gifts as best we can was certainly the point! I think it's wonderful you got so much out of it. I'm honored.

TodaysJourney 5 pts

Hi I love your writing. Very well said. Praise Elohim, for allowing me to read this. Blessings

 MaryBeth

Quiet Monsters 5 pts

Thank you for your post! It is a relief to see an honest statement about being Christian and blogging...your poem reminded me of something a friend sent in an email:

"Someone calling themselves a Christian just because they go to church is like calling yourself a mechanic just because your standing in a garage." She was very upset at the judgments that were being passed around by a group of rather prideful and holier-than-thous in our church. She had a blog and they criticized it so nastily that she gave it up...she did however, start a new one and used a different name. The irony is that same group who cut her to the quick, faithfully reads her blog today and gives it wonderful feedback.

You make a great point saying that, "I know there are those who would disagree, but I believe that God is glorified not just by my subject matter but by my execution of it as well." ...you are so right! And now that I have found you, I am adding you to my 'follow' list. Thanks for sharing your awesome writing with us:)

~Never make anybody a priority to whom you are an option~

Katharine D. 5 pts

I totally agree with you. I'm a Christian but I don't write about God. I feel that living as a Christian, no matter what we do is what is important. There are many that say they are Christians but don't act like one. I feel that action speaks louder than words.

theviewfromthejohnsons 5 pts

i never would have thought of myself as a Christian blogger. but, i've always been a Christian who blogs. i pray before my posts, too - even when those posts end up being goofy pictures i've taken of myself on my computer's "photo booth". it's just who i am. and, i think using the talents God gave me (goofy as they may sometimes be) makes Him just as proud as if i were a "Christian blogger".

thanks for your post. i like being a Christian who blogs.

Ali at www.theviewfromthejohnsons.com

wendidm 5 pts

Wow, I am so blown away by this post. First, because I always forget to pray and give thanks for the gifts that I have. I'm that surgeon praying with the scalpel dangling instead of diligently focused on my work, the work God gave me to do.

I too am a Christian who blogs, who makes jewelry, who take photographs, who knits and crochets, but that doesn't mean that those projects are suddenly Christian or holy or something.

With that said, I had never thought about it in this way. I have just always looked at my talents as useless, hobbies, something fun to do, but never as real gifts from God. Thank you for reminding me of this. When I work at my hobbies, I just do it. Every once in awhile I'll get this feeling that something I'm doing is special. I'll either recognize that that's probably God saying, "Hey kiddo, having a good time? Your welcome!" or I won't. I usually won't.

I'm glad I read this entry. I know that what I'm taking from it isn't necessarily the point you were making, but obviously there was a message for me to get. I just quit grad school. I feel like I know what I'm going to do, but I hadn't really put too much effort into it. I think, and I could be wrong, that your post came at the right time. If anything, I need to be grateful for the gifts I have.

Okay, now I'm just babbling - tired, but really inspired. Isn't it amazing the way God will reach out to us when we least expect it? Thank you.

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I empathize with the fear of losing readers. I used to feel I had to defend my choices a lot, from my expressions of faith to my use of adult language. But I finally decided that I write because it is what most makes me feel alive, not because it pleases other people. So I added a short warning on my blog, and I haven't worried (much) since.

Jackie68 5 pts

Your post reflects exactly what I've been thinking but hadn't put into words. I have felt like I needed to stick to the Christian topics many times but I didn't and wondered if I lost readers. I like to write about what is happening in my life and it's not always a "christian" topic. Thanks and it's great to know I'm not alone in feeling this way.

Jackie

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

Thank you. It's so good to know you're never alone, isn't it?

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I love this: "I think sometimes people need to realize you can be an imperfect person with a crazy life, making mistakes left and right and still be a Christian."

I've written before that being a Christian doesn't make you perfect; it just makes you safe not to be. And that's a huge point of my blog-- to share a real life and a real faith, neither perfect, but both worthwhile.

acollage 5 pts

A pastor told me years ago that in reference to the bible verse (which I will butcher in quoting but you will get the gist) we are to go out into the world and be among others but not be the others. He reminded us that while that was a great directive, and we are to fellowship with other Christians, we won't help spread the word by being only with the Christians. If a blog is written specifically for Christians, it won't necessarily reach anyone else. I'm not knocking Christian blogs by any means -- there's a need for them, and I read some -- but mine isn't one. I prefer to have no one focus, just being a mom who loves her kids more than anything but screws up, gets mad, has a hard time reigning in my tongue when it comes to people mistreating my special needs child, and screams and yells at a Nascar race, maybe with a beer in my hand. I think sometimes people need to realize you can be an imperfect person with a crazy life, making mistakes left and right and still be a Christian. And, there's always the fact that I'm not nearly poetic enough with my choice of words to write a good Christian blog. I'll leave that to those with that God-given gift. There are a lot of ways to display your Christianity; actions really do speak louder than words anyway.

astrangerinthisland 5 pts

Great post! Thank you for sharing your heart. Reading your post and the replies make me feel a little less alone in my "Christian blogging"! :)

Jenni
http://astrangerinthisland.blogspot.com

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

Yes, I think that's the most important thing-- whatever it is you're gifted at doing, do it well. That's when you're most being useful and most glorifying the God who gifted you.

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I feel the same way about having a blog that "contains all my musings, not just one part," and I think that also helps to draw in a bigger audience.

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

Thank you for this: "Being a Christian extends beyond a label and you are filled with the words that inspire and will reach well beyond the stereo-type."

njgeiger 6 pts

I am a Christian who writes a Christian blog. I started the blog as a place to put all the Sunday School lessons (which I teach in the form of lectures - or think sermons I guess).

I spend so much time on each lesson that I wanted to share it with more then the 1 or 2 classes I taught it too.

I also find the blog a great way to collect my thoughts about what other Christian authors have written and quotes, etc.

I think there is an audience for all types. And I agree with you, our job is to make sure they are done well!

Nancy
http://teachingsundayschool.blogspot.com

http://teachingsundayschool.blogspot.com
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http://thenestempties.blogspot.com

janettep 5 pts

this is one of the first blogs I saw today upon registering with an account at blogher. I really like your approach because I, too, am a Christian but that doesn't always come up in my posts. It's on of those things that I just hope people see it in my lifestyle... not just because I said something. Not to say that I wouldn't blog about "Christian things" from time to time, but it's nice to be able to have a blog that contains all of my musings, not just one part. Though, I will say I think our every day life events should be informed by and modeled after Christ.

janetteparker.tumblr.com@janetteparker

j_gumieny 5 pts

Being a Christian extends beyond a label and you are filled with the words that inspire and will reach well beyond the stereo-type. I too consider myself a "Christian" and my blog does contain reflections on my faith but I would not consider my blog a Christian Blog... simply a blog written by a Follower of Christ...

J
www.gfinkfamily.blogspot.com ( http://www.gfinkfamily.blogspot.com )

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

I think it's encouraging to see so many people saying, "this is me, too." There will be lots of new blogs to check out!

JustPluckingDaisies 5 pts

Great post. And I love where you wrote (in response to a comment) "There is definitely a place in writing for funny, messy, sensitive people who happen to be Christians."

That's me! And I'm so glad to hear from you and these other commenters who write that way. For me, my writing is shaped and influenced by my Christianity. But not writing a "Christian blog" also means that I reach more people because I'm not shoving anything in their face.

Leah writes and photographs at Just Plucking Daisies ( http://justpluckingdaisies.com ) about everything from the humdrum to catastrophes.  If there isn't a silver lining, it can at least be humorous, right?

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

This is a great point! "if you think about it, the "christian" label applied to anything but a person makes very little sense..."

Tamara Out Loud 5 pts

Ditto this: "My inspiration comes from what's happening in the moment or on my heart and that encompasses a whole lot of different topics."

zanepaul 5 pts

i read this with interest because i, too, am a christian who writes a blog. (if you think about it, the "christian" label applied to anything but a person makes very little sense...)

finding an audience can be tricky, however--my site is not "christian" enough for some and probably too christian for others, but i figure it's my space, and i'll write about my passions: sometimes my faith, but also my kids or green living, pop culture, etc.

http://somuchshoutingsomuchlaughter.com/

@ShoutLaughLove

duongsheahan 5 pts

Great post...I was laughing about the email forward, because I was just about to write a similar post to also include the mass emails and they don't bcc!! Anyhow, I like your poem...and can totally relate. I am a Christian but just because I have a blog doesn't mean that I'm a "Christian Blogger" and I'm not obligated to write about Christian Living. My inspiration comes from what's happening in the moment or on my heart and that encompasses a whole lot of different topics ranging from Social Media to health.

Duong Sheahan

Live Healthier & Happier

@duongsheahan