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Is it A Big Deal To Drop The F-Bomb at Work?

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Last August, 29-year-old Kathryn Fridge was shopping at a Wal-Mart in Galveston, Texas to prepare for Tropical Storm Edouard's landfall. When she got to the battery section, she discovered the store had sold out.

She said what lots of us would have said, "They don't have any f----more."

Unfortunately for Fridge, Alfred A. Decker IV-- an assistant fire marshal was in earshot and decided to arrest her (complete with handcuffs) for disorderly conduct for dropping the f-bomb.

“I wasn’t verbally attacking anyone,” Fridge
said. “I didn’t start to flip out until he acted like he was going to
arrest me for something I said in casual conversation between two
adults.”

The charges were recently dropped for lack of evidence.

The article called the f-bomb the "granddaddy of all expletives". But is it really an expletive anymore than damn is an expletive?

When Rhett Butler told Scarlett that " Frankly my dear,I don't give a damn," it was considered very controversial--censors objected strenuously. But, an amendment to the Motion Picture's Production Code allowed the line in the 1939 Gone With The Wind because it was a line taken directly from the book.

It seems laughable today that censors were sweating whether it would insult the sensibilities of the American viewing public to hear damn in a movie.

Have times finally changed for the "f" Word? Isn't it laughable for the media to report when politicians and cable TV personalities drop the f-bomb as if it were a legitimate news story? Who doesn't use the F-Bomb?

Has the time come for the FCC to stop making radio stations suspend on air talent who slip and say the F-word as a fleeting expletive? Actually, the Supreme Court is expected to issue a ruling on this topic. On election day, it heard the Fleeting Expletive Case ( FCC vs. Fox Television). If the Supreme Courts rules in favor of Fox Television, you can better believe f-bombs will be flying through the airwaves.

And it should. With code names like WTF, Effing and F-bomb, all things "f" seem more like a beloved pet than the most foul word in the English language --which of course it isn't--that would go to the "c" word.

The F word has reached it's tipping point.For all practical purposes it's the modern day equivalent of Golly Gee. The F word-has become nothing more than an exclamation.

WTF can now be seen in headlines of on line media.From LA Weekly
F-Boms

And, in writing about the renaissance of profanity Eve Tahmincioglu at CareerDiva also used WTF

F-Bombs in Blog Headlines

There is something freeing about being able to curse like a sailor, but alas, you may regret permanent, public displays of profanity when your career ship comes in.

What do you think happens when a hiring manager types in your name?

What if a hiring manager, or your boss for that matter, types in your name and FUCK or SHIT?

Let’s see what happens with my name:

OMG, the first item on Google is a CareerDiva post where I say, “fucking.”

Yikes. Who knew.

Should this be a real concern for people looking for a job? Depends what the job is. If you're a teacher,some school districts may be less than delighted with having a teacher who uses colorful language online. But would that stop you from getting a job?

Maybe, if you believe the results from a survey by The ladders.com. According to that survey cussing at work can be a fireable offense.

36% of US bosses have issued a formal warning, and 6% have fired an employee for swearing, deeming a foul mouth the most punishable of all workplace faux pas.

The poll of more than two thousand executives conducted by TheLadders.com also finds that 81.2% of senior execs find a foul mouthed colleague unacceptable to work alongside in the office.

My hunch is that there is more to the story. It's one thing to say WTF in a meeting in a laughing voice, it's another thing to use the f-bomb when you are swearing at another person in anger. When the f-word is used in anger is when it transforms from its now golly gee status to vulgarity.

For more on swearing at work:
Heather B's Little Miss Swears A Lot
My own 2007 piece on FunnyBusiness Expletives Good For Business

Elana blogs about business

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cmarks1990 5 pts

Well, I work with a bunch of guys and every other word out of their mouth is the "F" word. Some days it can get to be a little much. But I wouldn't want them arrested for it. 

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Elisa Camahort 5 pts

Using that verb never fails to get a laugh. And really: It's the quickest way to convey the concept :)

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Elana Centor 5 pts

So in the hierarchy of swear words do you think fuck has jumped the sharkand is now a level 5 swear word along with crap and damn? It just seems so playful rather than profane.  de-fuckify?sounds like something I should do to my office - love it.

elana
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AmberS 5 pts

I swear very little, and never at work. Well, I might use words like 'crap' or 'damn', but that's about it. It just seems unnecessary and unprofessional. Plus, none of my co-workers do, so it would run contrary to my workplace culture.

My husband, on the other hand, works in TV. I understand there's a lot of profanity that goes on. If it's par for the course, well, it's probably not a big deal. Although I'm still not sure if I would. I'm pretty straitlaced, to be honest.

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humanbeing 5 pts

human[BEING]I've only heard my mom say the f-word three times: once when we were both sick of the kids in my neighborhood who were bullying me (fuck 'em!), once when she slammed her hand in the car door (fuck! fuck fuck fuck fuck!--wait does that count as five or one) and once when she was diagnosed with cancer. 

I didn't inherit my potty mouth from her. No, if I said so much as fart or hate or shit around her, she'd wash my mouth out with soap. I don't censor myself at home (my 7-year-old knows those are Mommy Words That She Can Say When She's A Mommy), but I do censor myself at work and around people I've just met.

My boss swears all the time, and it's funny because to see her you wouldn't imagine it. When I'm in my office alone or having a bitch fest with a colleague, I don't censor myself. But I've stopped myself from dropping the F-bomb in meetings ... sometimes just barely.

I don't mind seeing an occasional "fuck" in magazines or newspapers, but I don't think I want to hear the F-word dropped during my TV shows. Can you imagine CSI? Or Grey's Anatomy? There wouldn't be any dialogue left but fuckity fuck fuck! That said, I don't think broadcasters should be fined if, in a live TV interview, someone lets one slip.

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Michelle McKinley 5 pts

usually just to myself but with little ones, no, I don't use bad language.

but gee wiz, arrested for the f bomb?  wow.

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kazari 5 pts

particularly today, when they've replaced all our office phones with Internet phones - and routed our PCs THROUGH them! 

Every time you get a call, the network slows on your pc...   or just at random intervals during the day.  there has been many, many swear words.  grrrrrr....

there has been many creative uses of the f-word today.

Elisa Camahort 5 pts

I don't think I would ever swear AT someone at work, as you all say, but I do have a mouth like a sailor. Sometimes at work too.

Yes, times have changed, it seems clear. And I don't have a problem with it. Although I agree with Kazari that I wouldn't want to hear the "c" word.

As a member of the BlogHer publishing network with four of my personal blogs in the network, I'm comfortable checking the box that I don't use profanity on three of the four...those that are more business-like. But my personal blog ( http://homepage.mac.com/elisa_camahort/iblog )? I will never agree to de-fuckify it! I reserve the right to express myself profanely when called for!

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Elana Centor 5 pts

 Is it generational? As a baby boomer I can remember when damn was a real swear word and it would never occur to me to swear at my boss or for that matter in front of my boss -- in my days in TV swearing with co-workers was just part of  the culture. Today, I try to avoid swearing in front of clients and definitely don't want to swear "at" colleagues.

elana
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jharb_weave 5 pts

I agree with the rules you guys posted, I just follow most of those and I do just fine.   I just try to recognize who my audience is and go from there. 

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kazari 5 pts

I get much more upset about the C word. 

 Denise,  I think your rules make a lot of sense.  My basic rules for work are:

1) Don't swear AT anyone.

2)  Don't be the person at work who swears the most

My boss never swears, so I try not to when he's around. 

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Denise 9 pts moderator

OK maybe not a lot but every time you guys blog this topic, I think about it.

After the last post, I decided I have three rules regarding swearing at work:

1) Do not swear AT the customer (ie the BlogHer member or potential member.)

2) Do not swear AT my boss.

3) Do not swear MORE than my boss.

Last week, I realized I actually have a fourth rule that hadn't implicitly occurred to me the last time I thought about this.

4) Do not swear AT co-workers and colleagues (except for @queenofspain, ya just can't help but swear at her, ya know?)

~Denise
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