Is it a Good Thing to be Honest About Racism?

Just to clarify, I was not suggesting that Canada is less racist just that in my experience, we do talk about racism. However, I work within the left/labour/social justice environment...and while racism is not named enough, there are, at least on the surface, attempts to address it. For example, the union I work for organized compulsory anti-racism workshops for all employes. Perhaps the left just does a better job of paying lip service to racism.

Of course, the workshops were precipitated by some racist incidents that needed to be addressed...

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I definitely think it is better to discuss racism.

I can see why voicing racist thoughts to a large audience can be harmful. People are actually influenced by these comments, which may reaffirm their prejudicial beliefs or convince them that such thoughts are 'normal' or obvious.

On the other hand, not talking about racism just reinforces the idea that it doesn't exist. It also stops anti-racism progress and the recognition of systemic racism.

Ultimately, however, I believe that racism needs to be discussed in a forum that allows dialogue. It isn't appropriate to have a one-way dialogue, where one person voices their opinion and the others are there to listen and consume. This is why the Michael Richards, Don Imus, etc. incidents are inappropriate. There isn't any space for a serious discussion of racism in a comedy club or casual radio show.

However, I didn't find anything wrong with Cathy Salustri admitting her racism. I found that certain reactions were wrong, such as 'applauding' her for something like that. Salustri didn't mention anything about doing something to change her racism, but that alone doesn't deserve special condemnation. (Only the regular kind.)

As for Canada versus the United States in terms of discussing racism, I think it depends on who you talk to. I live in Canada, and I can see what you mean by the sentiment that racism is an American problem, and as long as we are not as racist as the average American, we are not racist. However, I do notice that the Canadian government recognizes institutional racism while the American government does not seem to. The term "visible minority" is often used and seems to be a Canadian one, which I think is an important concept.

I'm a Torontonian also, am married to an American, and have lived and worked in the US.

My experience is that it is much much harder to get Canadians to talk about any serious issue at all, including racism. Fellow Canadians regularly ask me if I'm an American, and some of that is just my naturally agressive nature in business, but it is also related to the fact that I believe that the more we discuss things which really matter, the better we'll be able to understand one another, live together, share our communities, and make them better.

We're awfully neat and clean and polite here. Does this contribute to a better quality of life? Are we wasting much opportunity and perhaps risking our freedom through our silence?

Averting our eyes and keeping our mouths shut is only better, imo, when respect and trust are absent. We don't, however, contribute anything to creating trust and respect this way.

...I find a lot of it insulting. It's always working under ASSUMPTION. And we all know that ASSUMING makes an @$$ out of (yo)U and me. I don't like it when people @$$UME that my family is oh-so-traditional in the "old world" kind of way when we are probably more "traditional" from an Anglo, white POV. I also don't like it when white liberals and non-independent school educated people (minorities or non-minorities) ASSUME that I was one of a small handful of minorities at my alma mater and that my alma mater is a "basstion of WASPiness" (well, maybe culturally WASPy, but the students certainly aren't, and haven't been for a good 20-something years). Finally, I don't like being criticized for abandoning "my culture" because I plan to wear white when I get married (because certain people who've taken "cultural sensitivity" classes automatically assume that Chinese brides don't wear white....it would be akin to wearing black in the western world...MOST BRIDES OF HONG KONG DESCENT WEAR WHITE!!!)

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Laurie, you believe that Canadians are more open in talking about racism? I have always had the opposite opinion, but you do have a point. I think that because of the history of slavery and the treatment of other ethnic and cultural groups when they immigrated to the USA, there might be a hesitancy in some people discussing it, as it brings up what can best be described as "guilt." Even though people should not feel quilty if they haven't participated in racist acts - either overt or covert.

In Canada, where we live under this guise of "everything is great," it is harder to talk to people about racism because they honestly think that it is just an American problem. As someone who has done alot of anti-racist work in Toronto it is incredibly fustrating even trying to get members of the community that you are trying to assist to participate, as they also believe that because of Canada's lauding of diversity policies, that they have no right to complain about instances they experience - especially rooted in institutional and structual situations.

I was at Blogher but I did not attend the Amy Sedaris session andI have barely heard anything about her comments. Interesting.

I don't really have a comment to add for this post, but I remember reading your post about Cathy Salustri and wanting to comment then on that subject. But I didn't because, as usual, I'd come upon the post so long after it was written that my comment felt a little irrelevant. But the subject stuck with me and, since you mentioned her again, I'm going to take the opportunity to make the comment now that I should have taken then.

I bought my house about five years ago. The neighborhood I live in is very racially diverse, in fact I'm in the minority on my street as a white woman. I'm single. I live alone. And I love where I live.

I walk alone at night. I've never felt uncomfortable doing so because there are tons of folk outside at night in my neighborhood - individuals jogging, families pushing babies in strollers, teenagers hanging out, and folks sitting on their decks and porches talking to their neighbors. And I'd like to say I picked this neighborhood to make some big, multicultural statement about peace and harmony - but I didn't. I got a great deal, a house I loved, and a shorter commute to work. It was a very easy choice - straightforward even - and one that I've never regretted. And I live in the South folks, so if it it can happen here it can happen anywhere.

So, I'm just a little perplexed by this whole "let's freak out about the folks who don't look like me because they might be dangerous" attitude exemplified by Salustri. It just doesn't correspond to anything I've experienced personally where I live...and I'd bet dollars to donuts that the other single women in my neighborhood feel the same way I do.

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I was horrified by both the "ching chong" and squaw" comments by Amy Sedaris and it really did taint the session for me, too. I kept waiting for the shit to hit the fan but it just didn't - then or later.

I've talked about it with friends here - not sure if my expectations were different because Canadians are more open to discussing racism (imho and in the opinion of friends that do anti-racism work) but I felt sure that someone would say something.

I wrote about it in my survey but I have wondered since how many of us wish now that we (or someone) had said something.

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I agree that honesty isn't always the right policy in terms of what is spoken out loud. This isn't to say that honesty doesn't rule, only that we shouldn't and don't always say everything out loud and in public, nor should we. A lot of what people think and shouldn't say isn't about honesty anyway, it's about their personal opinion, emotional response, hang ups, etc. It's baggage, not honesty.

My own belief is in being respectful to ourselves and to one another.

Potty mouthed humor is sometimes used among friends who trust one another (if that's their way) without offense taken or given. We give our friends the right to tease us once we trust them, and know that they intend no disrespect.

Any judgemental remark, whether intended humorously or earnestly, can be insulting where mutual respect and trust has not been established first.

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I think that the only way to confront and then eradicate a problem is to acknowledge that it exists. I didn't watch the "Big Brother" video, so I don't know what was said there though. But on the other hand, sometimes honesty can be cruel, so there needs to be some sort of balance that basic good manners and judgement should make apparent to most people.

Racism is a hard thing to talk about. When you mention the racist remark that was said on "The View", it reminded me of what Amy Sedaris said at the Blogher Conference. I was sitting in that session and was really shocked by it. It was really horrible and for me tainted everything that she said afterward. I was very disappointed that nobody said anything, but then again I didn't say anything either, so I really can't blame anyone else.