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Is It Wrong to Laugh at Charlie Sheen's Public Breakdown?

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After his sitcom Two and a Half Men shut down production, Charlie Sheen's public breakdown -- or whatever it is that's going in -- has been widely documented on a number of televised and radio interviews. And by "widely documented," I mean Charlie Sheen is everywhere. Everywhere. Just try to escape the Sheen this week. Go ahead, try.

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In addition to a glut of media coverage, Sheen's outlandish statements have also become a Internet meme. Websites like Live the Sheen Dream have sprung up to generate quotes; parodies (fake New Yorker cartoons, Tweets, Sheen poetry) are flying; YouTube videos are being forwarded and Sheen's own newly created official Twitter account is in on the act. His follower count ballooned by at least half a million in a matter of hours, and he is using the very hashtags (#tigerblood, #winning) that were started as a parody of him.

Questions..? I'm here for my people..! Bring it!! #Tigerbloodless than a minute ago via web

A lot of rubbernecking is going on, and there is also a great deal of criticism about our own addiction to celebrity schadenfreude and the cynical attention we are giving what might be a manic episode, drug-related fugue, dangerous decline or ridiculously sick attempt at a celebrity prank.

It all prompts a lot of questions. Given all of the possibilities and his history of drug abuse and violence, is it wrong that we are directing our attention and humor at Charlie Sheen? What does it say, if anything, about our culture that so many are obsessed with his drama? Is social media focused on celebrity culture encouraging an environment of casual condemnation and inhumane response?

It certainly seems to be acceptable to laugh -- even the official Red Cross Twitter account joked about Sheen's #tigerblood. Is this the new normal?

We may not collect #tigerblood, but we know our donors & volunteers have fierce passion for doing good! #RedCrossMonthless than a minute ago via TweetDeck

New York Magazine published an interesting piece exploring our collective confusion about the ethics, repulsion and compelling draw of Sheen's crisis:

But what's really entertaining us? Did you see him last night on 20/20? When he said, "I'm different. I have a different brain, different heart. I have tiger blood, man. Dying's for fools. I'm proud of what I created [by partying so hard]. That was radical," you could laugh about his hubris or his tiger blood, but it's such a profoundly idiotic thing to say: Dying isn't for fools, it's for everyone! And, that's the real dark side of this whole spectacle: Dying is also for Charlie Sheen. Face it, this is a guy who could die. Just look at him!

You're taking this way too seriously. He's not going to die. I totally have him in my celebrity death pool just in case, though.



Part of what is happening with the Internet memes and Twitter trending at Sheen's expense might be some good old-fashioned gallows and black humor. Freud said that gallows humor was a human response to the need to protect ourselves from and process the head-on horror of traumatic topics. Breton said that black humor was a way of experiencing both discomfort and pleasure at the same time, which is both a way of embracing and making sense of the absurd and a way of approaching and metabolizing taboo topics.

That can be healthy.It can also be a way of distancing ourselves

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catdelouise 5 pts

At first I had little sympathy for a multi-millionaire actor, when life is so tough for my family and I.

I joined Sheen's Twitter just for laughs, b/c he was just so delusional it was funny. Sheen thinks we all support him.

But then I realized that this man is truly mentally ill and is probably in the throes of the mania side of bi-polar disorder. I don't want to see him when he goes into the lows.

I feel sorry for him. My husband and I are both physically and mentally ill, but at least we are getting the help we need and are not self-medicating.

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MenopauseChat 5 pts

I imagine that part of the problem is that Sheen is always in character and can't get back to reality. He plays a drinking womanizer and that's also how he lives his life. Too bad there isn't someone he relates to that could help him out. I don't think it's either of the goddesses. They'll be gone when the money is gone.

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la.girl 5 pts

Yes, it's sort of funny, but it's also terrifyingly sad. Am I the only one who seems to think that he wasn't this... manic previously?

I know that he's had increasingly bigger problems, antics, and criminal history, but it seems like something tipped him over.

I just wonder what, exactly, it was. And if anyone will really profit off of piggybacking his parody hashtags, or if it's just a cheap way to profit from another's tragedy.

Devra Renner 5 pts

With his pressured speech and assertions of having an "army of assassins" and such, my first thought was "Oh shit, he's experiencing a drug induced psychosis."

I still feel that way. And I believe this is all profoundly sad to see a human being suffering and people laughing at him. It's uncomfortable and dehumanizing. I wish people would stop interviewing him and enabling it.

Devra Renner, MSW

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abgirl 5 pts

A little bit of humour about almost any situation is fine, this one included. He has been saying ridiculous, outlandish, literally insane things. We can't not laugh at them. Yes, he's obviously ill, it's obviously a very serious situation with his kids and the women in his life, but we all make the odd dark joke about grave situations even in our own lives. Life would be pretty tough without that.

But it does cross a line at some point--and I don't know where that point is, exactly. Right now people are egging him on--he has 1M Twitter followers, and God knows he thinks they're fans when over half of them are looking to make fun of him, trying to get a rise out of him, trying to mine him for more Internet memes. I think it is exploitative. And I think someone ought to try to help him, not just for his own sake, but for his kids and his ex-wives and girlfriends.

I think it's unfortunate that there has been almost a tacit acceptance of his violent behaviour. I mean, the charges of serious and egregious violence against women are not what led to the show being cancelled, are they? It was his insulting words to the show's creator.

Leighbra 5 pts

We're very troubled globally right now. People are protesting in the streets in multiple countries, people are dying to force real change in the world....

It makes us LESS uncomfortable to watch Charlie Sheen.

The only quote from him recently that I've put weight to is about how shameful it is that all these great big news-worthy things are going on RIGHT NOW & we're talking about HIM.

I feel that the news outlets are acting with very little integrity at the moment, capitalizing on his antics. It would not shock me if at the end of this, we see lawsuits saying that he was taken advantage of in what was clearly a time of mental weakness.

OR he launches a reality show. Maybe I'm just Balloon Boy'ed out.

On the bright side, Ignore Sara Palin Week seems to be going very well.

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RebeccaMiller 5 pts

It's been hard for me to laugh at him because I've dealt with so many families who have dealt with addiction. My husband made a joke about Sheen and I said, "It's not funny. He's about to self-destruct." And while I do believe Sheen has brought this on himself, the fact that there are children and family members being hurt by his narcissism may make his in public meltdown fascinating but it doesn't make it funny.

Authentic Life 5 pts

Katie Walters is the author of An Authentic Life ( http://www.anauthenticlife.com/ ), and a regular contributor to Montana Parent ( http://www.mtparent.com ).

Authentic Life 5 pts

I have been watching all of it. I like Charlie, yet I feel sorry for him at the same time.

Unless you've walked in his shoes, you don't know what he FEELS at the core level.

Of course, the way he treats women is incredibly wrong, but I see a sad little boy stuck in the black hole of celebrity, probably thinking "If I don't toot my horn, who will?"

It also shows, money buys crazy. If he were a homeless guy on the beach in Santa Monica, no one would give him a second glance.

I watch 2 1/2 men, and am entertained, so does that make me part of the Charlie Gone Crazy Bandwagon?

Katie Walters is the author of An Authentic Life ( http://www.anauthenticlife.com/ ), and a regular contributor to Montana Parent ( http://www.mtparent.com ).

megster67 5 pts

There is no such thing as bad publicity. Sheen wins every time he gets on TV, tweets, or a video goes viral. I found it ironic that the Washington Post ran a feature story about him in its Style section today that pointed out he's been on the Today Show three times in the past week.

Is it wrong to laugh? Not if he's providing ample access to his shenanigans. But to laugh, and discuss and share and forward, feeds into what is probably his master plan.
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AnnsRants 5 pts

This is the first clip I've seen and I'm disturbed.

All I can think of are his twins that were just removed from his custody, his exes, and his repeating "no remorse" and "what's that got to do with me."

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Susan Getgood 5 pts

I haven't been watching, just following the news updates, but I am reserving most of my compassion for his children. They are the innocent ones who will end up suffering the most from this whole mess. No matter how it ends.

Susan Getgood blogs at Marketing Roadmaps ( http://getgood.com/roadmaps ), Snapshot Chronicles ( http://snapshotchronicles.com ) and Snapshot Chronicles Roadtrip ( http://snapshotchronicles.com/roadtrip ).

24inmymind 5 pts

Well, maybe it is sad. The destruction of a human being, live on TV for the entertainment of others is never a good thing. However, I'm going to wax philosophical with a little different twist and say that Charlie Sheen is "Livin' La Vida NO-ca". NO one in his life has the guts to tell him "No". I think that's the real problem. His history indicates he has substance problems (an understatement). And, he may very well have a bona fide mental disorder at this point. So, somebody needs to care enough about him to tell him "No". No more drugs, alcohol, whatever. I'm not getting it for you, I'm not covering for you. I'm not driving you home. I'm not setting up your next interview. No, no, no. He's a bully and everybody in his life is afraid of him. The only way to stop a bully is to stand up to them and, in this case, standing up to Charlie may just save his life.

Allie
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rosy1912 5 pts

I don't think its right for us to label him as mentally unstable or put any judgment on the man. Who are we to decide what's a mental illness and what's just disconnect?? How many of us truly understand about addiction and what it does to the world around those suffering?? He's hurting and I think its sad that as a society instead of sending him compassion and love (I don't approve of his choices, especially w/treating women either) we find ways to laugh at him.

I think its our own fear that it will happen to us too. Although we're not celebrities, the idea of being shunned and laughed out and completely disconnecting from our authentic selves scares the bejesus out of us....so what do we do....we laugh and we run away and we make fun of what we fear. We think that OMG, a person who has what we all every day tirelessly work for (the skewered idea of success) has know fallen on their face----it reminds us that we're all human and it freaks us out.

That's my opinion anyway.

Christine
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notUrtypicalGma 5 pts

in the mirror" So in an upcoming interview are we going to be seeing Charlie shoot up and share needles or drink and drive or whatever his addiction is? In my opinion he has many, meth probably being one of them because he looks like a tweeker. Sadly this morning i watched the news and saw how his twins were removed from his home and my 11 year old watched too and she said "Good thing they took them they don't need to be around that.." in such a grown up kind of way that it choked me up because we know addiction first hand, her dad my love has struggled with a methamphetamine addiction for years. addiction destroys the ones you love. we just dont get our life watched like Charlies, I too sadly think we will be reading his obituary.

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Lisa Stone 6 pts

...dumbfounds me. Thank you for this eloquent post, Deb -- and what comments!

I'm no fan of anyone with Sheen's record of reported violence against women. But at the same time, how can anyone watch someone self-destruct like this and not feel compassion for everyone involved? I don't know what's sadder -- his condition or the ravenous response of people turning him into train-wreck entertainment.

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Gena Haskett 6 pts

Monday night I'm at the laundry mat. There he is on CNN yapping. I voluntarily sat at the far side of the place next to traffic so that his voice was muffled.

I open the local paper and read about local businesses that will be hurt because the show is not in production. They ain't laughing.

Some folks at the Salt Mine think he is living the (wet) dream; pardon my English. There is a lot of male bonding over his antics.

I see him as an alcoholic and a drug addict. There is nothing funny about having to live around that kind of person. Or work with them.
Double pain points for having one or the other as a parent.

Yet I'm surrounded by people chanting Go Charlie Go!

We know this is going to end bad, really bad. He can't stop but maybe viewers and mass media should quietly turn away.

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JennaHatfield 9 pts

That's an interesting point. When I tweet a football game, people complain. When I tweet a senate bill vote, people complain. But Charlie Sheen issues trend.

...Why?

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Susan Getgood 5 pts

It's such a train wreck. I can't watch.

As an aside though thanks for the walk down memory lane with the "dead pool." I remember when these first started in the early 90s (on Usenet.) Along with the Darwin Awards.

Me thinks Charlie Sheen is a candidate for both.

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katstone 5 pts

Thank you for writing this.

I worry about the guy. No one knows exactly whether he is on drugs right now or if he has a mental illness, but it does seem that he's imploding publicly for some reason. And it's sad to watch. It would be sad if it happened to anyone, but to see it played out on the grand public stage seems even worse to me. I can only imagine how his parents and loved ones must feel.

Katherine Stone at Postpartum Progress ( http://www.postpartumprogress.com ) @postpartumprogr

lauriewrites 5 pts

It's not that I have any great love for Charlie Sheen, because I don't, but the extreme focus on and coverage of this creeps me out. How long can a dude having whatever kind of break this is be funny? How much can people talk about it? Apparently for days and days, multiple hours each day. TIGERBLOOD HAHA LOL!

And really, is this what we care about, as a media -- broadcast, print and social -- collective? People complain when others live-tweet single episodes of television or football games. Days and days of increasingly lame jokes about a celebrity are cool? The shifting norms frequently fascinate me. This one blew my mind.

I watched very little of the broadcast stuff because I just didn't want to, but caught some of the Piers Morgan interview and it was an abomination. He was basically congratulating him for his behavior and his future in...what? I don't know. I was honestly floored, and I've seen a lot of crazy news coverage.

I learned in journalism school that what is newsworthy isn't always what you'd think, and in most cases, if the people want to hear about it, it is. So if people want to go on about this ad infinitum it's their call. I'm not saying I'm right, I just don't get it.

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bscooks 5 pts

Becky Sue

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He must decide that he is a drug addict and that he needs help. It is HIS choice to live this life with an active disease. He knows where to go for help he just finds the help "silly". Not one person can change him. He must decide that he is powerless over his disease. He has three options left: Jail, institutions or death. Unfortunately for all of us we get to watch this unfold right before our eyes.

His behavior does not make sense to most because people with addiction do not think like most people. Drugs/alcohol to an addict is like air. It is something that they cannot live without. There is a solution in that book written 60 some years ago by a man named Bill W. I am sure that any of you who has been down the same path understands him completely and has to say "But for the Grace of God, There go I

feistyfluffy 5 pts

Thank you for writing this post and posing this question. My personal stand is this: whether or not Charlie is suffering from delusions fueled by narcissism, bipolar disorder, drugs, fame, or some mishmash of all of the above, he could represent a face of mental illness for the world.

My grandmother was born in Italy and struggles to understand my cousin's bipolar illness. We explain it, but she just replies with "why doesn't he just do good"?

My Nonna LOVES "2 1/2 Men" and watches entertainment updates daily so she is more than aware of Charlie's work and his current issues. Now, I can say to her "see that guy? That's kind of what your nephew goes through" and she can understand.

I'm not saying that Charlie is acting this way because he's suffering from bipolar disorder. He could very well be in a downward spiral fueled by fame and money and simply looking for attention.

What I do know is that his public behavior could help to educate people on the every day face of mental illness. Whatever the underlying factor.

JennaHatfield 9 pts

I'm just nervous that he's going to take it too far with his own health. There's a long history of great comedians and actors who crossed the boundary with drugs. While some might debate his comedian/actor status as great, the truth is that he's walking a scary line right now.

I keep hoping something will turn. I can't laugh. I just worry.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and photographer.

Melissa Ford 5 pts

I haven't watched any of the interviews (which doesn't mean that I haven't asked a bunch of people what it's all about). I find the whole thing quite sad. At the end of the day, it's a human life.

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avflox 5 pts

What a fantastic piece, Deb. You have put to words everything I feel about this. Thank you so much for writing this.

Nobody wants to be Ethel 5 pts

The only thing fueling his addiction and his ego is money. Thus far in his contract with CBS for 2 1/2 Men he has been able to control his ex-wives, kids, the network and us as viewers because he has power with money.

Once that money is gone he will look like every other addict clinging to their fix. He has been getting away with this sad, self-serving behavior for too long. The partying and his "so-called" friends will be gone once the money is gone.

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Just_Margaret 5 pts

I actually feel uncomfortable watching all of this...I see a broken man spinning further out of control, while insisting that He's got this one, guys. He so doesn't--It truly saddens me, and I say that as someone who is not necessarily a huge fan of his.

And--I despise that this passes for headline news. I think it's a frightful statement on what matters to us as a society, or at least what MSM chooses to reflect back to us...

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queenoftheclick 5 pts

I think Sheen figures that he will enjoy all the publicity he can from this. In addition, he knows he can still make a lot of money from settling out of court with the show and getting another script.

I feel a little sorry for him because no one is able to convince him to be silent.

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